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masturbating.
16/f
i masturbate often but always by clitoral stimulation and never by putting anything in my vagina.
im a virgin and im scared to masturbate that way because i dont want to hurt myself.
help? thanks!
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well there is no right or wrong way to masterbate do what pleases you and if it doesnt feel right to you they dont do it. you should start with on to two fingers since you are a virgin..they graually adding more and when you finger yourself press your fingers down so that your vagina isnt so tight each time you do it...
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Whatever you do, don't do something that scares you or makes you uncomfortable. Learn a way to love your body without being afraid of it. When the time comes, your body will be ready. If you've found a method of masturbation that works for you (since there is no real SINGLE RIGHT way to do it), don't push yourself into it. Plenty of people masturbate without penetration.
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The vagina stretches and goes back to its normal size. That's why we don't have a gaping hole after we have a kid!
Don't put anything weird up there, but fingers and dildos are not going to hurt you. Also, if you're worried about stretching, you can do kegel exercises. Google them to find out how.
Oh yeah, and don't put food in there. I've heard so many horror stories!
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u could always try one finger your vagina will be stretched big enough for this anyways...
or you could go to the store and by a vibrator
spencers cells them for like ten bucks
if u buy a really small one
ul be able to tell the difference
then you could put that up there
the only thing is that once you try it you might not like it because it is no were near as easy to get off with somethin inside you as it is by just rubbing your clit
be very careful about what you put up there becasue you can hurt yourself just sayin
and if you find your bigger than one finger thats normal i had one good friend of mine whos boyfriend could get three sometimes four fingers inside her and she was a virgin soo dont freak
:) hope this was helpful please rate
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