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Member Since: October 8, 2005
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Last Update: January 18, 2009
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I have no clue if this guy likes me. he's visiting my friend for a week. whenever we first met, he looked me up and down and then he smiled at me and him and his friend both exchanged looks and smiled at each other. everytime I go over to my friends house he goes, "OH! CARRIE'S BACK!" and smiles. he said this to me today...are you polish? you have a nice polish look about you." but I guess that's a complimentthen him and his friend were trying to decide what my name should be and he said, "you look like a samantha. you have bigger..never mind. I wont say it." I still am not sure what was he talking about. everyone was splashing me with water from the pool after my hair had just been dyed and I didn't want it to change colors so I told them all to stop and they did. his friend was like, "get out and splash her or something!," and he just stared at him and after a minute he shook his head (like as in saying, "NO") and got out but all he did was smile at me and go back in. he's been flirting with me a lot lately and pretty much everything he says he is either trying to get me to laugh or saying something along the lines of, "you're(you're as in ME) hot." does he like me? (link)
DUH! Seriously it is so obvious sweetie.


next year im going to high school. the seniors initiate all of the freshmen. has anyone been initiated before? what did they do to you? please help. im scared to go to high school. (link)
It's usually something stupid but harmless...seriously don't be scared..it's just something some schools do to all the freshmen...


why does everyone always say "this one time,at band camp.." i dont get it. is it from a movie or something? (link)
American Pie baby!
Watch it. It's hilarious.


the subject pretty much explains it all... (link)
Don't pluck every single day...you'll end up with nothing. You should only scan your brows every couple of days for new short hairs under the arch and around that area...but don't over pluck. My sister did that..and wow.. :D

So just the strays!



sorry if this is in the wrong category but i'm kinda worried cuz my period is 8 week late .. i'm 13 && first got it 2 years ago .. i kno it's not normal soo is that like bad or something? Last time i had it was June 17 which was like 2 months ago! && it still hasn't come. Any advice? thanks! (link)
Well, you're still a young and developing young woman. Sometimes you can have irregular periods. There's nothing wrong with you hon. You just don't have regular periods yet. When you get older it will regulate and you will be able to pin point the exact day you'll get it because your body will be done growing. But until then, your body is going through many changes so irregular periods can be expected.



how do you post like a survey test, or a picture or somthing after you've copyed the code
like, where to i go? if like some help quick (link)
You can either put it into your "ABOUT ME" or any other box like "interests" "who I'd like to meet" Just put the code in one of these boxes and it should work. Put a few breaks after it so it doesn't run into anything else though.



everytime i try to put a picture of myself on my site, i cant. it tells me that the file was too big or something... can someone explain to me how i can get a picture on ? (link)
Save the picture. Take it into paint and resize it. Resize it by hitting CTRL then the letter a.
That should make a dotted line around the entire picture. Then click in the bottom right hand corner all the way down and resize it by pulling that corner towards the upper left hand corner..it's easier done than trying to explain it. But paint can help you do it. You just need to make the picture smaller.

♥ Hope it helps. I use it all the time for myspace.


Alright, this may seem a little strange that I'm asking this.. but I have no idea what to wear the first day of school. I start the 9th, next wednesday, in Texas. So maybe you could help by giving me examples of what you'd wear the first day? (link)
Don't wear a new trend...you'll be really hesitant and nervous all day about whether or now you look good. Wear something that makes you feel confident yet you're still comfortable in it. &heartss;


Im getting my senior pictures taken And i have no idea what to wear. My mom said no more new outfits so ill have to make macthes out of what i own. Im doing outside photos and indoor photos.

if anyone wants to help me please. You can say that youll help and ill give you my Screename and just send you pictures of some of the clothing that i own.

Thank you so much:) (link)
Definitely nothing with patterns.
It will take away from the pictures.
Wear something that is a solid color...

Hmm...

My myspace is www.myspace.com/rockstolemysoul


send me your clothes pics and I'll help


ok welll i really need a new screen name

i dont want a gay screen name like with the word cute sexy or hottie in it heres some stuff aout me
my names michelle
i love green day korn and flyleaf
i like the words sxe hxc
i like my screen names to start with x
(ex. x blah blahh)
im punkish emoish
i like depressing words (link)
xXxBlackMyEyesxXx

xXx((HXCbitch))xXx


I realy realy need some help. My friend has been cutting herself, and i don't know what to do to help stop her. She did stop, when she was dating this guy, she said "he made me feel beautful". I realy realy want to help her, but i don't kno how. I tried to get stop, but she won't listen to me. Also she's not afriad of cutting herself, because one of her friends, friend died from cutting herself, and my friend kno's this. I realy realy want to help her stop. But i don't kno how. I also think that her mom is to blame, because her mom calls her ugly and fat. But my friend isn't, shes really pretty, and weights only 102, and her weight is dropping. So i can't tell her mom, because her mom won't help....
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Sweetie...you need to get her professional help. I know that sounds like it's impossible to do...but you need to report it to someone. That girl is young and gullible and if her mother, a figure of authority and someone she looks up to, is telling her she's fat..there's a problem. You need to report this to authorities anonymously and have them check it out. It's the only way to help her.


I need a good liquid eyeliner (link)
Covergirl - available at any drugstore for a reasonable price - under 6 dollars


Okay so i am a 14/f and i have a disability called cerebral palsy (cp). This diability affects my legs and makes me walk very differently from others which can make people juge,stare and make fun of me. Now my friends who are 13 and 14 have a had at least 1 boyfriend and madeout and stuff like that. I have never had or done either of these, is this because of my disbility (does it scare or bother guys?). Aside from the disability i am a normal person with other than this problem a normal socail life....will i ever a romance coming my way?? please be honest no pity. (link)
WEll, I'm going to be frank with you. Most guys want the "perfect model girls". And even at this age..that's all they're interested in. But honey, even with the cp. You're too young to be wanting to make out or get into a "serious relationship" anyways. Wait..the right guy will come along who will like you and appreciate you for who you really are.


Hey I'm 13 years old and I'm a really advanced reader for my age (just so you know). It doesn't mean I can read/understand adult books but whatever! I really want a list of GOOD books from like all genres!! If you could give me the title, author, and genre of the books you're suggesting that would be great!
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well i don't have a list or anything

but a good one would be

A tree grows in Brooklyn...i don't remember the author...

but just look up the title and you'll find it

it's really good


Okay here it goes it may be a long one this time..

For starters I'm a 18/f I have been dating this guy he is 22 for 5 1/2 months. On my birthday he asked me to marry him. I said yes. Well that next week when we got home we got into a little argument which is normal and he said u know what i never even fell in love with u. Right when he said that my heart broke. I was totally in love with this guy you know ? Okay so then the next day he loves me again..hes like playing games with me. Well then i get a phone call from this guy i have known since march and had a total crush on well hes looking for a serious relationship and he is like totally falling for me. But i dunno what to do. Should i stay with the guy and fuss and have him play games with me or get to know this other guy ? I so need help !!!! (link)
The twenty two year old needs to go. anyone who does the whole "oh well yeah i never loved you anyways" needs to go. Besides...it sounds like he just wants sex... go for the serious relationship guy.


Yeah i know this is like really random, but i was just wondering, how do you guys feel about the store Abercrombie and Fitch. I was reading about it online and so many people seem to hate it!!!

i don't really shop there that often but i was thinking of getting some clothes there for christmas and i was just wanted to know some of yall opinionss on it (link)
I'm sorry if you like them...but i despise it...so much. I seriously hate them


Ok..i like this guy we have been dating for like 2 months, today in fact, but i like this other guy..plus my boyfriend keeps talking to his ex-girlfriends, he says he likes me but i cant help thinking that somethings going on....so should i just leave him and go with another guy or should i stay with him, honestly i think someones going to get hurt either way. (link)
No way honey. He needs to go. I know a guy like this. Except I did the dumb thing and said "Oh, maybe I should just try to work it out" and I got hurt...was he hurt? hell no he wasn't... He isn't worthy of your attention and affection. This is a sign to leave him. Good luck honey.

And when a guy says he likes you....well...how many other girls do you think he "likes".

Find someone else darling


Basically, in the last 6 or seven months I've lost abut 10.5 pounds/three quarters of a stone just through cutting down on certain foods and running. I've never stopped eating completely although there were certain times where I ate minimally and may have not eaten quite enough. I didn't really need to lose the weight in the first place I just had some puppy fat but now i am much skinner (48.7kg/7.6 stone/107 pounds)and generally happier. My only concern is that I may have stunted my growth through this. I am 15 years old and 5 ft 4 inches. Is this likely? x x x (link)
no. Don't jump to that conclusion. Losing the puppy fat, if that's what you want to call it, did not do that. Even if you didn't eat that much. Now, if you were anorexic, exercised too much, and didn't eat anything but a leaf of lettuce, that might cause your height to be stunted. I'm 15 and only 5'5, and I eat normally and barely exercise. Exercise and eating right, sometimes a little less, can't stunt your growth sweetie. Remember, you still have 3 more years to grow. I'm assuming you're a freshman or sophmore, and you still have a ways to go. Many more years that will alow time for growing. SO stop worrying.


What do I do when my mom tells me that I'm the cause of all of her problems? (link)
Well, my mom does that all the time. You have to really realize that she's just saying these things out of her temporary anger and is taking it out on you. She really does love you. She just needs to vent, so she does it at you. My mother does this too, but you really have to just deal with it. Or the mature thing to do would be to sit her down and talk to her about it. Tell her how much it hurts your feelings. Chances are that she doesn't even know it's hurting you.


16/F
Well, I am currently a junior in high school and my schedule is jammed packed. I go to work (i tutor), go home to do my homework and if by some miracle, make it to bed before 2:30 in the morning and then wake up at five for early morning classes. I am currently taking: AP US History (early morning), Honors Chemistry, Accounting, Honors Algebra 3, Spanish 3, Band and Honors English.
So my question is, how do I deal with all the stress...or I guess, what are some ways to deal with the stress besides what I do...which is tone everything out while drawing, listening to music that really doesn't help my situation (Getting Away With Murder by Papa Roach) and just sitting somewhere and balling like a baby. I need other ways to deal with this, and my mind is drawing a blank. Thanks in advance.

-signed-
stressed to kill (link)
Wow. You are pretty stressed. What I suggest is to go to the library, yeah i know how dorky, and getting out a few books on meditation. Seriously, it sounds liek the dumbest thing in the world, but it actually does work. Take even 10 minutes out of your stressed day to get in the meditation and a nice bath. Put on some classical music while you're in the bath, not angry music. It works

Good luck.




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