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I've got some questions on how to do a back walk-over. You start with the back bend, but I haven't been able to bring my legs up and over. Does anyone have any tips of exercises or anything that can just help me to do it?

Love Ya!
blue_bunny

hand stands :( unfortunately. the best way to start may be to try handstands against a wall, and then bringing your legs over and stuff
and then without the wall
and then from a backbend type position

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how can i stop careing about what people think of me

you can't really

you just have to fortify your faith in yourself
become something you yourself would never want to change
and you'll find that you care less (read: you'll still care a little) about what other people think

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Is there any makeup that makes your eyes look bigger?

use an eyelash curler, it opens them up a lot
mascara
annnnd black liner across the top of the lid...
oh! and a small dot of shimmery eyeshadow on the inside corner ought to do it

good luck!

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i know that alot of people say only guys masterbate and yeah i know that isnt true its just more accepted that guys do right? i mean tons of girls do too?

yes, tons do.
they're just more introverted about it.
for some reason guys like to brag.
girls just enjoy it and move on with their lives.

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okay, well i think i kinda like this guy. i mean sometimes he can be really mean and everything.. but i just feel like hes the kind of guy that when your alone with him he would be so sweet and kind.. i want to be with him so bad! i dont know what to do or say when im around him, i mean how should i flirt with him what should i do?

um...
you can ignore me, but i wouldn't personally get involved with this guy.
the ones that are mean in public tend to be worse in private.

also, you didn't give ages, so it may be a phase, but still... it sounds like the intro to a bad relationship, and possibly abuse or something.

however, you are free to live your own life

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My mom wants me to get a hair cut, so she asked me to pick out a style. I kind of want it shoulder length maybe a little shorter. But the problem is I have really thin hair (thanks to my mom and dad). I don't know what hair style to choose. Can someone help me? I have kind of a square face if that helps.

choose something that will make your hair seem thicker, like layers.
when you go to get it styled, talk to the person doing your hair and explain your problem to 'em.


i have thin hair too... it's why i keep it long, because what i don't have in volume i make up for in length. it's one of those things that girls with super thick hair can't do
=o)
good luck!

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i'm a guy, 14 yrs. old. here's my dilemma. this girl has a boyfriend right, and everyday in class we hug and talk till class starts. she doesn't even act like she has one. my question is what do i do now, i'm totally clueless.

first off, you're not a friend with benefits.
unless your tongue has come in contact with any part of her body, you're not a friend with benefits.

anyway, bring it up in a joking manner, like if she does something overtly single, kinda laugh and play it off, but bring up the fact that she has a boy. watch for her reaction. then go from there

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Hello, I need some help or advice. Well I'm 20 years old and I live with my parents. My entire life they have been controlling. However, recently I was engagged and moved out simply because they wanted me to and broke off the engagment and moved back home because I relized I loved someone else. Whom they hate and wont meet because he broke off the engagment. Anyways, I love him. However my parents think I'm 12 and tell me what to do, they tell me what time to be home, and yell at me when I get home after 3 in the morning. I know I live here with them however, I can't take them telling me what to do. I've told them before but they do not change. However, last night I got home around 4, and my parents were awake and said they tried callign me, but i was sleeping. I was like okay, they were like your a lier, dans a bad guy, and yoru a bad person, and saying all this negative bad thigns about me, when all I want to do is not have them controll me anymore. Anyways, my mom and dad were yelling and them my dad started hitting me I wasnt' talking back or anything, just simply because he was mad them my mom tried to stop him, then he started trying to hurt my puppy. Then they finally went to bed. I dont' know what to do. I want to move out with my boyfriend but I'm afraid they will not let me and controll me, I need to get out of here. I need to move out but then i'm afraid they will try to take my car away, or try to hurt my boyfriend or me? Help I don't know what to do or where to go for help I feel lost, and confuesed and controlled I need to be free. Help Please!

move out when your dad isn't paying attention
no, i'm serious
pack what you want to take with you
tell them you started things back up with your former fiance if you have to

just get out of there any way possible, it's not healthy.

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I had this friend who I've known since I was 7. Now it feels like she doesnt care about me AT ALL and has moved on to bigger and better things. The thing is that she moved away when she was 8 and we still live far away from eachother. Last month we were still friends, but shes changing, hiding things from me, and not the girl she used to be. I try talking to her, and shes telling me that I'm the one trying to start a fight and stuff like that, and meanwhile, I'm trying to fix it! I dont know what to do!!!

ditch her. it's just so much easier than trying to deal with her and with time she will realize that she lost someone spectacular. when she realizes that, take her back, open arms, all that.

let her make her own mistakes, but don't let her bend you out of shape over them

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Hi, I'm 14 years old and 128 pounds. Everyday, I try to take a run for at least 15 minutes, or sometimes a mile and a half. It's been working really well so far -- it's only been a month and I've already lost around 10 pounds almost. This Thanksgiving weekend, I haven't found the time to run, and it's been probably 4 days since I last ran. Being always a little extra chubby, and having friends that are model gorgeous, I always have had a fear of being TOO fat or not looking great, etc. Now, since it's Thanksgiving weekend, I've eaten A LOT and haven't found the time to run. Will 4 days effect me that much? (Tomorrow I will most likely go run)

it might affect you a little.
but not enough to freak out about it
i wouldn't worry

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My bf is acting really weird. He used to ride me all the time about being unemployed. He would say that I needed to better my life and to stop living off the system (welfare). Well that just wasnt true that I didnt want to better my life because I was volunteering at two different jobs to get a good reference.
Anyways, all the volunteering paid off because I finally got a good job at a store that was a UNION!
At first my bf was happy and said he hoped it would work out.
Well it has worked out REALLY well. I've been getting good hours, and get along with everyone. And I'm having FUN too!!
When I told my bf this he sounded like he was mad or something that it was working out so well!
I don't understand him, first he's mad I'm not working, then when I do get a good job he sounds jealous! Does anyone have any ideas on why he's acting this way? I will give everyone 5's.

because his job isn't as good as yours?
or perhaps because he doesn't get to see you as often because of your job

ask him perhaps if you'd really like to know the real answer

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WHat's a store all for bras or has a section for bras? 13/f

victoria's secret
and any department store basically ever

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Help me i am readying a book for class and it is really good what i can understand of it, it is called The Seventh Tower written by Garth Nix i really need help it is editions 1-3 it is soo long like 649 pages and it is to be read by December 13 and i aint even through the first edition please help!!!

sparknotes.com
cliffnotes.com
pinkmonkey notes

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on tuesday me and my bf were foolin around and he ended up giving em a hickey..normally its okay but this time its like really dark and noticeable..its one the side of my neck and kinda towards the back..like right under my ear and back like a cm.well i been wearing me hair down since so you cant see it at all. but if my hairs not down its veryy and i mean VERY noticable. its like very dark. i can wear my hair down the rest of the weekend and to school on monday. but for cheerleading i have to wear my hair up so idk how im going to do that without my whole squad seeing it cuz trust em they will. can anyone help mee!?

5's for any bit of help

put something cold on it (ice, cold spoon, frozen peas even)
then a while later, put something warm on it


annnd. that should help clear it a little.

then makeup
and scarves
or a turtleneck
or pigtails

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http://www.livejournal.com/users/xd0nthatex_fake/

what? you send out a smear campaign agaisnt someone. you send it to me, twice.

i tell you that i think it's dumb.

and you call me an asshole.
get the fuck over yourself, bitch.

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I'm currently in an internet relationship with this guy in Canada (I'm in Australia) We liked each other for about a year, and only recently decided to give the relationship a shot. We had a few problems before we got together, but we worked them all out. We're meeting in a few months time. I do like him, however, there's a lot about him that bothers me. He's a REALLY extremist Catholic, and whilst i am catholic too, I'm nowhere near as religious. A lot of what he believes I respect, however disagree with. I have to act different around him, for example, I can't swear or say anything even remotely 'suggestive' Sometimes I feel like he's testing me, because he asks me questions like "did you go to mass today on sunday? Did you enjoy it?" and "How far do you think is too far?" I never feel comfortable around him and he doesn't know much about who I truly am due to this reason. He's a really innocent guy for a teenager, and whilst its good that he respects me, he's really uptight and we can never talk about things or joke around like other couples can. I realize that not everyone is into that kind of thing, but it's like we never do anything 'fun'

I tell him I love him every night but sometimes I wonder whether I truly do. I want to make this work but I have a nagging feeling telling me that this isn't right and I shouldn't be with him. What should I do? Is it normal to feel like this? Do you guys think I should still try with him?

Thanks.

i personally, wouldn't.
if i'm not comfortable in a relationship, i don't pursue it. the little things in the beginning of a relationship normally turn into the big things anyway...

besides, my mind is so created that suggestive jokes tend to come naturally. so i can't censor myself like that.
and i don't think i'd want to.
so, no, i wouldn't.

you might, it's really all up to you.

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How/Can a moderate delete a question?

the just kinda do. look at the FAQs for why

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I just broke up with my boyfriend "Andrew" of 5 months (I'm 14). I broke up with him because he made me feel bad, he was self-centered, and he always had to be right. I felt like the end of our relationship was coming anyway; we were just too similiar. I told him that I'd really like to be friends, and he didn't believe me. I was honest. I thought that a lot of the stress between us was because of the relationship,and we would've been such great friends. Later that day, another guy asked me out, and I said yes. Now, "Andrew" is really pissed off at me. He refuses to talk to me and he calls me a liar. I don't know what I did wrong.

How can I make him believe that I want to be his friend? How can I talk to him/what should I say?

Please help, and advice is appreciated

guys never want to be friends after they get dumped.

no, really.
i asked my guy friends about this.
it's why they and i have never dated.


give him a while
guys take a long time to get over this "broken heart" thing

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well..
i have known my best friend since 7th grade ((we're in college now))&& we are very close..and last thursday..we got even closer..well we were at his apartment and we were watching a movie..and out of no where he stopped the movie..and we were already cuddling..and yes..durin the movie..i did feel him get.."happy"..but anyways..he kissed me..and we started makin out..one thing led to another and we endin up having sex..now everytime i see him we end up makin out and doing it..i talked about being in a serious relationship and he seemed hesitant but he said he wants to think about it..and i told him that i am not going to be his little whore and everything..and he was like..i would never think of you like that..i like you a lot..but i don't want our friendship to be weird..but i told him that it already was weird after we had sex..so what should i do..i really want to be his girlfriend..but i am so confused about everything..i need sum good advice..and i rate 5's for good advice

only take this seriously if you think it's truly a good idea

when you see him
make out with him
get him as excited as you want
and then
stop.

tell him that you're sorry to get his hopes up, but you thought it was a sick pleasure of his since he got yours up.

that's just me being a little vindictive for you


if you don't want to do that, i would try talking to him again, in a few days, so it gives him time to think.

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I have iTunes and in my library it used to show the songs in order of artist. So for example all songs by Alkaline Trio would be together then below them Blink 182 and so on. Today I went onto iTunes and my library was all muddled up in a random order. I unchecked shuffle but and went through all the options to try and change it back but nothing is working. How do I solve the problem?

go to the top, where it lists: song title, artist name, etc

click artist name
it will sort it by name/band rather than the song title, or length, or any of the other options there across the top

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