Name is Megan, I'm 20 years old. I've gone through a lot in my life, and got through so much on my own. It sucked, and I wish I had someone to go to for advice. I like to help others who are in need of advice. I don't think anyone should ever feel alone. I hope to help some of you with the answer's I've giving. I try my hardest.
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Occupation: Student.
Age: 20
Member Since: May 2, 2010
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i need to loose 10+ pounds
what is a do-able diet in which i can loose 10+ pounds in less than a month?
dont just name a diet literally write day by day eating plan.
nothing fancy, as long as it will work.
you can just tell me that you know of a diet and in my feedback ill give you my email so you can go into details.
thank you so much.
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Lemon Cleanse Diet, or go on a very light diet, and exercise a TON.
Good luck!
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i have really thick hair its about 4 inches below my shoulders...does anyone have any ideas about how to get it either curly or wavy? (link)
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All I can say is good luck, and you need a lot of hair spray. lol
I have thick hair, but mine is also very straight, and it's really hard to curl or make wavy. I have been able to though in the pass.
To make it curl, I use a curling iron and TONS of hair spray.
And wavy, like a scrunch look? after I get out of the shower, I braid my hair in tiny braids all over my head, and go to sleep. In the morning when it's dry, I just undo the brains and it makes it wavy, and I just spray it with hair spray. :)
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how does hawaiin tropic tannin gel work? (link)
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I LOVE Hawaiian tropic tanning anything.. :) There stuff smells SOO good, and works really well.
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hi im 14 yeears old and i hasve had my period for quite awhwile, when i was 13, i have been using tapons for almost the hole time when i was taking it out it hurt and i couldn't get it out i looked and theres like a piece of skin not liek a piece but its suppose to be there, the string got hooked around it and i had to untangle it to get it out, is that normal?? (link)
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I haven't had it get caught by skin, but I have had it where it hurt when pulling it out. You just need to relax, sometimes if your tensed up it will hurt. Don't rush taking it out either. I'm sure it's normal, you have nothing to worry about.
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Baby shower invitations were mailed stating "no children under the age of 12 please" per the expectant mother's request. I just recieved a call from one of the guests asking if she could bring her newborn due to nursing issues. There are several other new mommies invited that have young kids. It is a tea party theme; lots of china and grown up food. How do I handle this without offending this guest and the other Moms that will be here but have not asked if their little ones can come. (link)
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I agree with the answer before mine.
The baby is a newborn, so it's not like he/she will be able to get into things. Plus, when breastfeeding, it is important to keep on a schedule. I'm sure your other guest will understand, especially since the lil one is a newborn and breastfeeding.
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Does the Jillian Michaels Fat burner pills really help? Is there a difference, besides in price, in buying them from Walmart or GNC? Or any other pills that help lose weight, with the help of working out. I am 123 and 5'3 if that helps.. would like to shed some pounds. (link)
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I've heard they work. I've been wanting to get them myself. I know people who took them though. But they also said they excise daily, or every other day. Also, I saw at target they have them for 19.99. :)
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lately i've been thinking about suicide. I cry every night and im always sad. i keep trying to find things to make me happy. But nothing works anymore. i feel like theirs nothing really to live for. nobody loves me. and I don't think anyone ever will. im just unlovable. I want to be happy so bad. please just tell me what could make me happyy. or why I should live. i just need something, anything. I don't want to die but I don't want to feel this pain anymore. i just can't do it (link)
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:/ I know how you feel. I've felt that same way for awhile.
I am sure there are people who love you!
No one can tell you what can make you happy, but yourself.
What do you like to do for fun? Go out and do those a lot. How old are you? Just try to get out more, make more friends.
Stay busy, focus on school, work.
Life wont always suck, but I do understand how you feel. If you really feel unhappy all the time, try going to your doctor and talking to them. They will probably prescribe you a depression will. It'll help somewhat.
Good luck!
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Alright I don't even play my DS lite any more so I am going to sale it on ebay! I have about 12 ds games, and then 10 gameboy advance games. I don't know how much to sale it for any advice appreciated!!! I got it for christmas the year before last, I don't have the box or anything for any of it. I have the charger and a pink case along with the stylus. It is white...
Also should I include the games they also don't have the boxes but I have so many! (link)
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Look at what the prices of a DS lite is going on ebay. And since you have 12 ds games, and 10 gameboy advance games I would add an extra $25 dollars to whatever you want to list your DS lite for. Make sure you add shipping to it as well.
Its up to you on if you want to include the games with the system. You would probably get more people interested if you do include it.
Good luck!
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Hi im 18 years old and im sexually active with my boyfriend for over 6 months, we've been doing it everyday and he cummed inside me almost a month ago, after that I got like some spotting and I thought I was getting my period but it was a false alarm also my breats have been hurting a lot. Im suppose to get me period in the end of April and its now May.11th! Could I be pregnant? Is it too soon?
Please help, thanks! (link)
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Yeah you could be pregnant.
It really does sound like you are.
You should go to the store and pick up a pregnancy test and see what that says. If you are or not, you should go to the OBGYN. If you aren't you should get on birth control pills to prevent this. Good luck!!!!
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I did a horrible thing. Last night, when my parents were out I invited a guy friend over. We are both 16 and he pressured me into having sex. After we had it, he left and i felt bad. He told me not to tell anyone especially my parents. I told a few of my close friends, but not my parents. I really want to tell them, but I feel too ashamed about what i did to even speak to them about it. I also don't want to be grounded or get into trouble. What do I do? (link)
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I agree with the person who answered this. That is RAPE, and you do not have to go through this alone. I know you feel bad, and ashamed, but trust me, it is NOT your fault. Tell your parents, they will be able to help you, and support you. You did not know this guy was going to this to you.
Hun, I don't think your parents are even going to think about grounding you or you being in trouble. Yes you shouldn't have invited him over, but he shouldn't have done what he did, and he does not need to get away with it.
Tell you parents. It'll be okay!
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Hello, I was wondering, in order to attain birth control pills in Canada, do you have to go to your family doctor? Or can it be a walk in clinic? We used to have a family doctor, but this was before we moved out of the city, so I was wondering if this would be an issue.
Thank You. (link)
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I've found this website. I hope it helps!
http://www.birthcontrolcanada.com/hormonalmethods.php
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one of my really good friends (shes 14) has been having sex with this one guy for over a year now. she used to be going out with the guy, and not she's not, but she's still having sex with him. she's been hurt before because of this guy, and i just don't want her to get hurt again or get into a bad situation. she has b.c. but sometimes forgets to take it and doesn't read the instructions on how to make up for lost pills. i don't want her to mess up her life at such a young age. any advice on the topic would be great. thx. (link)
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That's really tough.
Try to talk to her, tell her how concern you are. I'm sure she'll appreciate how caring you are!
Sometimes there isn't anything you really can do though. Just be there for her like you are.
As for the birth control, sometimes it is hard for people to remember to take it. Because to make sure its full effective you've got to take it everyday, the same time everyday. It's tough. Just talk to her. I wish you luck!
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Hi. The eighth graders hate me, and I have a bigass crush on one of them, (he doesnt hate me I don't think)...but I don't really know him. The dance is coming up and I want to break the ice somehow, how do I talk to him without him getting false impressions of the poser i used to be? How can I actually communicate? Do I have to be a slut for him to notice me? (link)
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NO! You shouldn't have to be a slut for anyone to notice you, and if you think you do, they aren't even worth your time!
Talk to him! Take him aside just the two of you and talk, ask him to the dance!
Be yourself.
I'm not sure why the 8th graders hate you, but i remember it was all drama when I was in school. lol
Just be your true self!
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I have verizon wirelesss. Im 16/f and currently have the enV touch. I am due to get an upgrade this august and i want to get a blackberry. i was thinking about the new blackberry tour. What i reallyl want is:
-good service in new york. my phone has NO service
-easy to text on. im an amazing texter on the enV, but i want to be able to text on the blackberry so not too small keys
-good camera
-easy to get wifi
-good trackball
-memory
-not too big of a phone because i hate bags, and want to keep it in my pocket, but my pants dont have huge pockets so if it doesnt fit...ahah
So if anyone has any reccomendations on phones, i would love it. THANKS! (: (link)
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My cousin has the blackberry tour, and I've used it plenty of times. It's easy to use, good wifi, good camera, trackball is good. Memory is good, I know she takes a lot of pictures and videos. Phone isn't big at all.
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ok, so i'm kind of obsessed with sims 2, and i already have a lot of expansion packs, but i want to buy one more, but i'm unsure about the amount of space i have available.
when i click on computer, & it shows my space.. this is what it says..
compaq (C:)
185 GB free of 286 GB
Factory Image (D:)
1.59 GB free of 11.2 GB
For my sims games under system requirements it says:
OS - Windows Vista, XP, ME, 2000, or 98 SE (i have windows vista.
CPU - 1.3 GHz or faster (2.0 GHz for Windows Vista)
RAM - 512 MB (1 GB required for Windows Vista)
Disc Drive - 8x or faster CD/DVD drive
Hard Drive - at least 1.5 GB of free space
video - directX 9.0c compatible video card
sound - directX 9.0c compatible sound card
.. ok no idea what any of that means. :) so i hope i gave enough information.. thanks! (link)
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I'm going to be honest, I have no clue what that all means either. lol
The looks of it, it looks like you might have enough space.
Go delete your cookies, and unnecessary things off your computer you don't need. That'll free some space up. If you don't have enough space while downloading sims, it'll simply let you know. :)
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well i think i know whats missing.love.i used to love someone and i do feel a little stupid saying that considering im thirteen (but im deeper than most).im not saying my heart was broken or anything like that.i just stopped caring about them.but i was happy then.my life dosnt suck but i miss loving her.now i just dont care about her.i still feel like an emotionless monster with a hole in my heart.people really dont know me.istay home most of the time.im really shy and quiet.i can barely control my face its just always blank and expressionless and everyone thinks im mad but i could be in the best mood all day.so what's missing? (link)
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Get friend's, hang out with them. Laugh, have fun.
You are YOUNG. You will find someone to love someday, don't worry about that. Go out and have fun. If you think this is a huge problem, go to the doctors. They might put you on depression pills or something. It'll help.
Good luck!
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ok so this is the problem a month ago tommorow i started dating this guy. he treats me like a saint. he says he loves me and his brother and father tell me how good i am for him.in fact that after his life went downhill, im the only thing to make him happy, but im unhappy. im not physically attracted to him. and i kno thats shallow, but he likes to be very physical. today this guy i really like asked me out, i said yes w/o thinking. i really dont want ot hurt the guy im with now. and i refuse to cheat. im so confused and hurting inside like u would not believe. he did nothing to deserve this, its just i felt like i was smothering. maybe im wrong. i kno i am, that i should be able to make myself love him the way he does me, but i cant... i just cant. god please help me, and tell me what to do. im soo confused (link)
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No, you can't make yourself love someone you don't. And thats not your fault. I know you don't want to hurt him, but you do need to realize you are hurting yourself to make him happy.
Like I said, you can't make yourself love someone. Best advice would to talk to him, explain how you really feel. Yes it's going to hurt him, but it's going to hurt much more if he found out you were with this other guy, or that so many months later he finds out how you really feel, and never told him. Just be honest.
It's hard and confusing, but you'll be fine, and so will he. The great thing with life is.. It always goes on. :)
Everything heals in time.
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I'm sure you're sick of hearing about these type of problems, but...there's someone at school who I'm really interested in. He has a girlfriend, and I'm fine with that, but I'd like to be closer with him friend-wise. He comes up to me sometimes and occasionally sits with me for long periods of time. The only problem is, I'm extremely shy and have a lot of trouble conversing with him. I usually end up staring into space, wishing I knew what to say, while he talks a little bit. Of course i don't stay completely silent the entire time, but i feel like my lack of interesting things to say is keeping us from becoming real friends. What should I do? (link)
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You need to speak up.
I mean, I'm sure you two will be great friends. He obviously likes talking to you. Just try to speak up a little more when hes around. Once you two are fully comfortable, ask to hang out. But always remember he has a girlfriend, you don't want to cross that line. Good luck!
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im in total love with this boy i mean i admire him and everyhing but i just dont think he is right for me i mean im the kind of girl that likes to go camping and hiking and to the snow and travel but all he does is watch football all day i mean my parents say that he is not good enough for me buti think he is i mean he is great a sports really smart and is great with kids but im really adventuras and i dont think i can make him do anything and im worried all he will want to do is sit around al day so how can i get him to do stuff and is he right for me? (link)
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Ask him to go places with you. Hiking, camping, just out doors stuff. It wont kill to ask. :)
I don't know if he is right for you, since I don't know you or him, but you seem to like him. Just ask him and see if he'll go and hang out outside and do outside stuff with you. You be the judgment on that. :)
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in 5th grade i moved up north. and i met this boy named mark, who happened to be my neighbor. the first time i saw him, i had a crush on him. i mean im a girl who never even thought about boys, until i saw him. i found out later he liked me and we went out in 6th grade-- for 9 months, then i broke up with him because he never talked to me like he used to. and he understood where i was coming from, and yet we still liked each other-- a lot. in 7th grade, we went out, and then his friend came riding around the block saying that he didn't want to go out with me. the same year, i decided to give him another chance, but he dumped me again. then there i was sitting there with a broken heart. and i promised myself as well as my best friend that i would never ever go out with him again. well soon enough, in 8th grade, i gave him another chance, i thought he would change-- but he didn't. we went out for about 3-4 months. i was at my neighbor's house, and i found out he liked lisa behind my back. i found this conversation at his house, and it was all this perverted crap with her. i was furious. so of course we broke up-- again. this time was different, we didn't talk for about 3 months. then slowly we started becoming friends again, and 5 more months after that we got closer and i kissed him. and we also cuddled a lot. all my feelings started rushing back. i mean he was the first guy i ever liked, and cared about. a few days later he asked me out-- and i had the guts to say no. it hurt me so bad, because i liked him soo much, but i couldn't stand getting another heart break. that night i found out he started telling people he liked my best friend. my bestfriend & i both knew that he was just trying to get revenge on me because i turned him down. and later we found out that it was all just an act. he was mad at me for awhile, and i didn't blame him for being mad because i would be too. and then we became close friends again, and just recently we have became friends with benefits. he likes this other girl(lets call her *A*). and me too. but A would never go out with him. but now i regret saying no to him, because he is telling people that he will never ask me out again because i rejected him. but i really do like him, im just scared to get hurt again. do you think i should just forget him-- cuz highschool is next year(remember i have to see him everyday of summer because he is my neighbor and friends with my brother). should i give him one last chance? i really need your opinion on this. i have been confused for years, and i just can't seem to let him go. do you have any tips? anything would help at this point.
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You've gave him so many chances, and yet he keeps breaking your heart. I honestly don't think he's going to change. Saying no was a good thing, it brought out the real person, him trying to get revenge on you is just pure immature.
You are starting highschool next year, it'll open new doors for you. Maybe you'll find another guy who will make you happy and wont keep breaking your heart. Just remember you deserve to be happy!
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