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I did a horrible thing. Should I tell?


Question Posted Tuesday May 11 2010, 10:41 pm

I did a horrible thing. Last night, when my parents were out I invited a guy friend over. We are both 16 and he pressured me into having sex. After we had it, he left and i felt bad. He told me not to tell anyone especially my parents. I told a few of my close friends, but not my parents. I really want to tell them, but I feel too ashamed about what i did to even speak to them about it. I also don't want to be grounded or get into trouble. What do I do?

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Additional info, added Wednesday May 12 2010, 2:57 pm:
I forgot to mention I don't know his name considering I met him the day before and it never came up.

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PaperHeartsX3 answered Wednesday May 12 2010, 12:57 am:
I agree with the person who answered this. That is RAPE, and you do not have to go through this alone. I know you feel bad, and ashamed, but trust me, it is NOT your fault. Tell your parents, they will be able to help you, and support you. You did not know this guy was going to this to you.

Hun, I don't think your parents are even going to think about grounding you or you being in trouble. Yes you shouldn't have invited him over, but he shouldn't have done what he did, and he does not need to get away with it.

Tell you parents. It'll be okay!

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Ginguhh answered Tuesday May 11 2010, 11:14 pm:
I'd definitely tell your parents.
He PRESSURED you into having sex! Are you kidding me!?! That's RAPE! And he left and told you not to tell anyone!?!

What a total asshole. I'm sorry, but guys like this just piss me off! You need to tell your parents, they might be disappointed in you for awhile, but please tell your parents. You don't need this guy doing the same thing he did to you, to other girls.

I'm sorry this happened to you. I truely am. You need to tell your parents what happened and they'll file the police report. He can't do a thing to you. He's already practically raped you.

I'm asking you as a friend, please please please tell your parents!! You don't deserve that stuff to happen to you.

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