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I have a crush on one of the eighth graders
Hi. The eighth graders hate me, and I have a bigass crush on one of them, (he doesnt hate me I don't think)...but I don't really know him. The dance is coming up and I want to break the ice somehow, how do I talk to him without him getting false impressions of the poser i used to be? How can I actually communicate? Do I have to be a slut for him to notice me?
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NO! You shouldn't have to be a slut for anyone to notice you, and if you think you do, they aren't even worth your time!
Talk to him! Take him aside just the two of you and talk, ask him to the dance!
Be yourself.
I'm not sure why the 8th graders hate you, but i remember it was all drama when I was in school. lol
Just be your true self!
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You should just be yourself. You want him to like you for who who are not what you act like. Giving false impressions about yourself will lead to arguments and fighting later on in the relationship. You should just ask him if he likes you and tell him you like him. Don't be afraid, everyone has to go through this eventually too. Good luck. :)
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You asked: "Do I have to be a slut for him to notice me?"
NO! You do not have to be a slut for him to notice you! This is were guys get the wrong impression about girls thinking that they are "loose" etc. Just be yourself if he doesn't like you for who you are then he clearly isn't worth it to begin with. Breaking the ice, Just go up to him and asked him! The worst that could happen is he would say no. If you can't figure a way to ask him then say something along these lines... "Hi, I was wondering if you'd like to go to the dance with me because I don't have anyone to go with and I really like you" see what he says. Just be yourself it's more attractive ;)
-Bahaima22
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