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My friends and I are doing a project in science, and they won't listen to anything I have to say! Whenever I have a good idea, they won't listen to it, and if they do, someone always says that for some reason, it won't work. I'm not a control freak or anything, i just wish that they would listen to me! 13/f, if that helps at all. (link)
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Take charge. Make them listen, don't just sit and wait until sometone has your idea and takes the credit for it! Speak up. Write it to one of them in a note. Get one of your friends to back you up!
You can do this! Let me know how it goes!
~Nokomis~
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ok, my bf gets boners when im with him, i know this because hes told me ,i was just wondering if there is anything i could do? (link)
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Honey, there isn't anything you can do, its natural. Just because he gets them doesn't mean they are caused by you and you don't have to take care of them. If he wanted them gone, he could masturbate. Don't let him pressure you into doing anything by saying you need to make them go away. If the circumstances change or I misinterprated, or you just have any other questions, just ask! Hope I helped!
~Nokomis~
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ok it's me again, I just had another question, I'm 14,f, my bf is 14 and I'm a strong christian and I hav many beliefs, not having sex before marriage is one of them. My bf isn't a christian he is unitarian(which i dont really kno much about),but he knows im saving myself for marriage,and he wouldn't ever take advantage of me cuz he luvs me. I was just wondering is it ok that he isn't a christian? Also, do u kno anything about unitarianism? thanks (link)
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Okay, coming from a jew, I don't see a problem with is. I am soposaed to date jewish guys and out of my past 3, none of them have been jewish. All of them have been either Christian or Atheist. In Christianity many people believe that you should surround yourself with Christian friends for support but honestly there are alot of people who don't follow these rules. I do think it's really cool that you are honest with him, you should definately tell pepole ahead of time. I looked on a couple of websites about Unitarianism and I have found...Unitarian Universalism, a liberal religious tradition, encourages us to keep open minds, believing that personal experience, conscience, and reason should be the final authorities in religion.
I hope this helps, if you need anything else, don't be afraid to ask!
~Nokomis~
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ok me and this guy have been going out for about 4 months, im 14, female, and i luv him soo much! We have made-out and been to each others houses, also hes looked down my shirt and lil things nuthing totally taking clothes off or anything, i definately dont want to have sex because im a christian and ive made that promise also he knows im waiting for marriage to do that, so what should we do if i want more than just making out?
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Well, you are contradicting yourself. You said you don't want to go any farther because you have faith in christianity, why would you want to go farther? Honestly, it isn't worth losing your self pride over. Honey you can wait. Trust me there are many people in your situation that can't just get up and walk away. They do things they regret and eventually go farther and farther until they are unhappy with themselves. Just get up and walk away from the temptation. Plus if you do it once he may assume it is okay to do it everyother time and you may not be a strong enough person to say no. So, I'd say just wait until you find someone you love and plan to stay together with for years to come. Hope I helped! Good Luck!
~Nokomis~
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Ok i always have a tough time talking to guyz i like.. i always get so shy and locked up... and the thing is i get all shaky and nervas. It's so emaressing! I no they probably feel the same way but it seems so hard... what should i do? (link)
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Okay, heres the deal, just like with an animal they know if you are afraid. If you really like this person, then you probably know about them. Act really girly and ask a guy for help with something that is "manly". They love it. Or you could play hard to get. If they try and get your attention, look at them, smile, motion for them to come to you and keep walking, eventually let them come to you. It will drive them crazy! Hope I helped.
~Nokomis~
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Ok, i want to download the Jimmy Neutron episode called Stranded. Mock me all you want, but anyway, it hasn't premiered on television yet, but I've managed to download the 1st half of it. the thing is, I can't find the second half to download. If anyone has a link to it, i would really appreciate it. Thanx!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You could probably download the rest of it on Kazaa or Limewire. You would just have to download the program first. Hope I helped!
~Nokokmis~
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help i get so depressed some times im starting to drink and i dont want to go any depper into alchohol. can you help me please i hate my new school im so unhappy (link)
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Talk to someone. Or ask yourself what makes you happy, then do it. When you are in a new school, just be yourself, people will come to you wether you like it or not. You could talk to your family doctor and they would give you medication. Never the less you need to stop drinking, it doesnt solve anything. When you come down you feel worse than you did before. Hope I helped. If you need anything else just send me a question or something.
~Nokomis~
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my fiend and me go to the pet shop every day and hang out well there is a cute guy there i like and i always want to see him . but today she didnt want to go and i think it was because she didnt like me liking him or i am almost obsessed with him what should i do (link)
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I think that you should realize that he is a very immiture guy. He is an ass when he is with his friends. The only time he is ever sweet is when you talk to him alone. He is a typical guy. His 3 guy friends suck! They are mean. You should still go though! You have to learn to open up kiddo! Hey whats your name on here anyway?
~Nokomis~
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My friend is thinking of committing suicide what should I do? (link)
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You must tell someone. Tell a parent, a teacher, a priest. Anyone who will listen. Your friend is depending on you. She/ He may be mad at you at first but you will have saved a life! Call a Suicide Hotline!
~Nokomis~
P.S. Please help your friend soon. Don't wait to see if they will act.
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Is it ok to date a second cousin, through marriage? (link)
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I would advise against it just because of what other people would say. It would mess up your family tree a bit too.
~Nokomis~
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ok, so I saw the shining like a while ago, but I really dont understand what the ending means. like when they zoom in on a photograph with the dad in the center of the picture. does it just mean that he was at a party in the hotel, or does it mean something more? (link)
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I honestly don't remember the ending. Which one did you watch? The one with Jack Nicholson? Because they are different.
~Nokomis~
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I’m 14/f and no one have ever asked me out on a date. I am not ugly in fact I recently learned that the boys from my old school which I left 1 ½ years ago thought I was the prettiest girl in the class. I am extremely shy and I really can’t flirt. Also usually even if I like someone I am very cold to them for a long time, it’s like a protective action. But now I just feel so lonely! (link)
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You don't need a boyfriend. I have had 2 boyfriends in my life and one was in high school, 17. Each relationship has lasted a long time I boam still with my boyfriend of 4 and 1/2 years. When you meet someone you like and you want to date them tell them. You are not in elementary school anymore so just tell him, Hey I Like You!
~Nokomis~
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ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 1/2 months and on sunday im going to his house for a couple of hours... ok well we kiss all the time and i want to be able to kiss him in other places. please give me ideas of where guys like to be kissed nothing like head or anything cuz we've both said were not ready for that. thanks bunches (link)
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Under their ears and back a little. It is very sensitive. My ex loved it.
~Nokomis~
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Okay well last night I had my bf over and we got sexual.. Well to get to the point we wern't gonna have sex so we just fooled around.. Well he came(spelling error lol) and he was down there when he did it.. He made me go in the bathroom to check if ne got in but I dont know.. I dont know what to do. and I dont want to tell him I am scared. I am a 14/f
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What about the morning after pill. If not take a test before you worry him. Why was his penis so close to you if you were only fooling around?
~Nokomis~
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I was looking at others advice columns and noticed that a lot of people have more than one photo onto their column page, I was trying to figure out how that was done and it didn't work, could someone help me with this, specific directions if possible. Fives will be given to those who answer the question. (link)
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I think you should find somebody who has more than one picture and ask them personally.
~Nokomis~
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my boyfriend always fingers me and eats me out but the problem is i never have an orgasm. i was wondering why that is or if theres anything i can do to have one?
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You can masturbate.
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I feel like my life can't get any lower. Everything I was good at I am no longer good at. No matter how hard I try people are always a lot better. My grades are slipping and nothing I do makes me happy. I hate my life and I just want to stay in my room and be alone forever. What do I do? (link)
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See if your doctor can perscribe a medication to you or go talk to your guidance counsler or parents. I have to take Zoloft every day because if I don't I feel like what you described, everyday. If you don't want to do any of that, try writing it really helps. Do stuff that will make you happy.
~Nokomis~
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this is kinda imbarrasing to ask... but i gotta know. i shave down there, ya know? and well sometimes it gets gross. i usually wait like 2 days before doin it again, but i dont know its wierd. and sometimes it even bleeds! OH! and i get these little red bumps. is this normal? is there somethin i can do to make this stop?
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It is normal, maybe you should try waxing or changing to a different razor.
~Nokomis~
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How do I lose weight fast. What should I watch for in my food like how many calories or you know. How do I lose weight and get a tight stomach at home without buyin things like pills. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!1
I will rate high to any one who answers my question bad or gud thanx (link)
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I know this sounds simple but drink a lot of water. Take how much you weigh and divide it in half. This is how many ounces of water a DAY your body needs to function properly. It also makes you lose weight, sure you will end up peeing like a racehorse, but even if you don't end up losing as much as you'd like, your body will be so much healthier. Plus it stops you from drinking stuff like sodas. Hope I helped.
~Nokomis~
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Well my bestfriend and i are fighting a lot. i am moving now and i don't want to leave on a bad notice. She said to me "i don't care if you are moving.' That really hurt my feelings what should i do
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Make up before you leave. No matter how hard it is because deep down you know she cares. You will regret it if you don't. I know from personal experience.
~Nokomis~
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