ok me and this guy have been going out for about 4 months, im 14, female, and i luv him soo much! We have made-out and been to each others houses, also hes looked down my shirt and lil things nuthing totally taking clothes off or anything, i definately dont want to have sex because im a christian and ive made that promise also he knows im waiting for marriage to do that, so what should we do if i want more than just making out?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Nokomis answered Saturday March 19 2005, 10:19 am: Well, you are contradicting yourself. You said you don't want to go any farther because you have faith in christianity, why would you want to go farther? Honestly, it isn't worth losing your self pride over. Honey you can wait. Trust me there are many people in your situation that can't just get up and walk away. They do things they regret and eventually go farther and farther until they are unhappy with themselves. Just get up and walk away from the temptation. Plus if you do it once he may assume it is okay to do it everyother time and you may not be a strong enough person to say no. So, I'd say just wait until you find someone you love and plan to stay together with for years to come. Hope I helped! Good Luck!
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