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Hi. I use Night&Day 30 day contact lenses and i was just wondering, what can happen if i wear the contacts longer than 30 days?
Because i ran out of contacts [i had a 6 month supply and december was the last month] and i should've gotten rid of the ones i'm wearing now december 27thish. But i'm still wearing them
I haven't worn them every day though, like I don't wear them on weekends and I was on winter break so for like 9 days I didn't wear them either.
So are they still good even though they're over 30 days old?
thankss.
Yepp there fine dont worry about it. I also have contacts and i wear mine for longerr then i should. It doesn't do anything :) x x
17/f
im going to try and word this in the least rude way i possibly can.. forgive me if any of it is bad..
around the 23rd of december my period was due.. its usually dead on then or up to 3 days later, it didnt come, and on the 29th of december, i gave my boyfriend oral, there was precum there, but im sure it came off with the oral.. anyway we stopped for him to finish off kinda on me.. and he went to touch me "down there" after touching himselfbriefly.. i stopped him though incase he had anything on his hands, he managed to touch me a tiny bit though.. he didnt put his fingers actually in me though, just on me..
my period is still late now..
i know its probably not likely for my to be pregnant even though u can get pregnant by precum, even i know that
my question is... what do you think.. what are my possibilities of me being pregnant??
I wouldn't worry about it too much because the chances of you being pregnant are very low. However.. i think you should take a test just to be on the safe side :) Good Luck x x
k so, i have been really good friends with this guy since the end of last school year and we have liked eachother on and off through out this time but we have never dated. but recently i told him that i like him. and he told me that he liked me too but didnt want a girlfriend and he told me he felt like a jerk for saying it but he said that he didnt want me to wait around for him because our friendship wont turn into a relationship. and, i mean i really like him. more than ive ever liked anyone and i feel that if we acctually gave eachother a chance we could have something really good and special. theres just times where hes kind of left out and i go over to him and sit with him. and he does the same for me. i don't get it though. if he likes me enough why wont he try us out. but, he said he liked me. but what i dont get is if you like someone enough you would date them. so is he lying or telling me the truth. and lately he hasnt been talking to me in school or on the computer like he usually does. and to tell you the truth, im crushed.i know its not that big of a deal. but, i just really feel as if we would be good for eachither; anytime we talked or hungout we got along really well and the conversation wasnt delayed or anything and hes just a really good person to talk to. he listens and helps me with anything i need.
oh, and sorry that this is soo long.
i don't really have a question but like, i need advice. what do i do how do i found out if hes lying and i just don't know. is there anything i can do to get him to change his mind? :p anything will help.
Okii you said that you dont think people could like some1 but not want to go out with them. They could :) Maybe he just wants abot ov tome to himself without having to worry about keeping a relationship going. He might feel up to having a gf just yet. I think you should give it a few weeks and then give it another try maybe. For now though just be a good friend to him :) Good Luck x x
13/ F
ok
so a little bit about the characters
M = me
S = sam (yes, this is a girl)
b = blake
anywayzzzzz
i like this boy lets call him B
and i used to go out with him, we both ended it because we wated to be friends. but then he told me that he still cares for me.
well... S knows how much i like him. bu ttoday she told me that she likes him too.... at first i didn't care because we aren't going out anymore
but then i was hurt really badly....
what kind of a friend would do this to me???
this has happened before i liked a guy named Sam then she liked him to
so i told my mom this problem and she thinks that she is jealous of me... so she likes the same guys
should i stay friends with her... well i mean of course i am staying friends with her
but she is moving away soon and i am very sad.
even though she is doing this to me
please help me
and yes i have tried talking to S but she just likes them anywayzzz
i have never liked her BF's and she shouldn't like mine right?
yes i rate
Like your mum said she could be doing it because she is jelous. But maybe she doesn't so it on purpose. She could genuinly like Blake and if she doe its not her fault because you cannot help who you like. Maybe you two just have a similar taste in lads. I wouldn't let this come between your friendship just yet, afterall friends are more important. But if it becomes too much and she continuously keeps liking the boy you like, confront her about it. Tell her you do not want to argue but its causing a problem that she keeps liking the same people as you and that you think she should fnd her own guyys ;) Good Luck x x
19/f from Italy
i know its realy long but pls read it!!plssss
Hi my problem is the following...for about 1 year i am very close 2 this guy...we r best friends he sais so him self...he always said that he would never try 2 flirt with me cz he would feel 2 guilty cz he just saw me as a real nice innnocent girl..well in the summer we made vacations in my home town where he saw another side of me...he saw me dancing and guys flirting with me and all that stuff...after that he changed towards me..he was carying we talk almost twice a day...he bought me a present its like he liked me more than before and he sais he likes me but he was always the flirty guy so i dont know in what way he means it...once he told me very serious that he like me and i got scared so i said in a very friendly(kind of laughing) way "i like u 2"...when we watch dvd at my place he is very carying he wants 2 hug me the whole time and sometimes he sleeps over cz its late ,and the whole night he just holds me in his arms...and then there r other times where he asks me about one of my best friends(which is very pretty)and he sais that he likes her(he saw her 3 months ago for 30 minutes)and i got sick of it so i called him a coward and a chicken if he doesnt sent her an email and tells her that he likes her so he did!i dont know if he really likes her or if he is just playing with me!he even asked me if this subject bothers me and i said no...once at a party where he was kind of drunk i asked him if he liked me and he said yes...and then he added "as a friend"and he huged me...but the rest of the night he kept dancing with me very close...he even put his hand on my butt so i sometimes think maybe he really loves me as a friend but he wouldnt mind if i am just his sex buddy ..doesnt like me more than that...i dont know...but on the other hand when we r just lieng in bed wathcing the movie he is really carying and soft...i dont know pls i need advice...i really like him but i dont wanne b used just 4 the physical part!oh and btw i am 19 and he is 22...but we study together...also...if guy sais u r his best friend does it mean that he doesnt want anything more from you?
thnx a lot,
Gery
Well ot soud to me like this guy does like you ! I think he tries to drop hints and tell you that he likes you, but then gets abot scared incase you reject him an just want to be friend, so he adds "as a friend." He is showing all the signs of liking you but i think he's just scared to asmit it properly to you. I also think that he said he likes your friend just to see if you would react in a jelous way, which would show him that you like him. So then he asked you were you bothered and you said no, so he probably thought you didnt like him in "that way." If you like him and want to be more than friends, I think maybe you should drop a few hints. Just let him no that you like him .. but dont make it too obvious ! Maybe when he realises that you like him, he might tell you how he truly feels. Good Luck :) x x
Okay.
I used to have a thing with a guy, but because of my unpopularity he was too embarrassed to admit it. That was a while ago. Now, I'm pretty much stable where I am, and am pretty well liked.
Here is the dilemma. One of his best friends, whom I used to hate, actually turns out not to be such a bad person. We have Spanish together. I don't know if he likes me, but I think he definitely likes to look at me. :)
But how do I talk to him? I don't know how much he knows and me and his friend. That could be a problem.
Also, I ONLY have Spanish with him, in which I literally sit in the middle of him and all his friends (thankfully not the guy I fell out with though), and I hardly see him other times.
All his friends know me, and if I tried flirting with him, I KNOW they'd call me out on it. Is it even possible for me to flirt with this guy (and keep his interest) without letting his friends know?
I was trying to brainstorm how I could see this guy others places, but I simply can't. Help please? And thanks in advance.
I dont think you should flirt with him .. i think you should just play it cool ;) Act like your not that interested, but obviously dont not show any interest at all haha. If you act like your not really bothered, that will probably make the guy want you even more..If he does want you now that is. (From what you say it sounds like he likes you abit;]) Good Luck x x
has anyone had one before?
do they hurt?
what kind do you get...?
like has anyone had all of it taken off and how much does it hurt and what do they do?
is it like worth it?
i try to shave but i can never seem to get off all the hair like it is always prickly and there are red bumps. any tips?
whats better shaving or waxing?
THANKS
I has one a while back .. i didn't get everything waxed off i just has a strip lol. It didn't hurt as bad as i thought it would to be honest..i dont no wether you have ever had your legs waxed but that hurts alot more than having a bakini wax :) I think its definatly worth it .. its really smooth(unlike shaving) and after about an hour or two..the redness has gone :)
I think waxing is better than shaving .. but shaving is more convinient lol x x
yesterday i was at my boyfriend's house and i had a really bad headache so i fell asleep. when i woke up my hand was like on his penis and i pulled it out realy quick and he acted really scared. he was like, were you awake? i said no then he said oh yea me neither i was dead asleep. but i know he wasn't... after i made a comment he said i put my hand down his pants when we were sleeping, like i just stretched out and boom, there it was, but he was wearing elastic pants and tight underwear there is no way i could have done that in my sleep. I feel really uncomfortable around him now because we have never done anything sexually really and he always said it didn't bother him. What should I do? I wasn't awake the whole time so I don't want to confront him accusing him. Should I just forget about it?
I think you should talk to him about doing sexual things. Ask him again wether it really does bother him or not ? If it does..then only if you are ready to do "things" then do them :) If not then dont! If it doesn't bother him then just drop it :) Good Luck x x
i been dating this girl named mariah thomas going on 7 months and we are really serious we are both juniors at the same highschool we have all the same classes except for 6th hour i take graphic arts and she takes home ec ... why is it when ever im around her i feel as though im floating and for some strange reason i lose my breath and get light headed and lose my balence but it only happens when im with her whats wrong with me
I think somebodys in love 8-) :p x x
i have had an on and off sore throat for like a week now...does anyone know what it could be???
If you have only had it for a week then it is probably just your typical sore throat that might not be fully developed yet. Give it time and see what happens..if it carries on then go to your doctor (i know thats the advice you probably get all the time but its the only thing you can do :]) x x
Ok well i am 19 years old and i have never been in a relationship. I havn;t been in a relationship because i am a little self concious about myself and i get extremely nervous and shy around guys and i feel i have nothing to say. I really want to be in a relationship too which is the worst part. any ideas on how i can become less shy and nervous??
and another question is do you think a guy will think i am a loser because i have never been in a relationship and obviously never had sex or madeout with a guy??
plz help:S
Firstly, If the guy is worhty of going out with he will not think you are a loser and he will understand.
Also, don't worry about not having been in a relationship...many people are shy around the opposite sex. It takes time to get to know someone and then you will soon feel comfortable around them. It would be easier if you found someone who had the same interests etc. and then you would have some stuff to talk about :)Also dont think to much about you being shy or nervous because then you will be shy! If you go out feeling ok .. conversation might just flow :) Also if he starts the conversation first then that might give you ideas on things to talk about. Good Luck Babe x
So i want to get my belly button peirced and i have a few questions.
1) Is it a gun like for ears? or a needle?
2) How badly does it hurt? I got my ears peirced at 7 adn didnt feel anything
3) Will I be able to change it by June if i got it in January? What about if i got it in February?
1.) It is a gun and they also use a clamp to hold onto the skin :)
2.) It depends .. when i had mine done it did hurt a little but when my mates had theirs done it never hurt most of them :)
3.) Again this depends.. you have to leave it in for i think 6 weeks at first, but after that if yours has healed and is not painful then you should be able to change it.
4.) The top definately!
5.) If it still hurts but you want to play basketball, then just cover it up with a huge plaster or something similar. When you first have it done they should cover it up with something to stop it catching on your clothes..just do the same when you play BB. :) x
Just wondering..how do you give a hickie?
you basically just suck on the skin where you want to give it haha .. its really simple =]x x
Call me crazy, but I think it's absurd that some people do not believe in love. After seeing all the good things people can do for each other and just seeing the love people have for each other everyday, I just can't believe it. Maybe it's because I'm a Christain and I've simply been raised to and have witnessed all kinds of love myself. But can someone please give me some insight?
There are alot of good things about love which make you love it lol .. but there are also alot of bad things. Like when people cheat or hit eachother or always argue etc. Some people may have been through something like that too many times and decided to give up on love :\ Good luck in tryna figure it out haha x
hey everyone if your reading this i so totally appreaciate it.... so im 13 this boys 16 i really lke him and i mean alot ive had crushes before and stuff but him,.. he lasted for about a year but you see everyone tells me that he takes me more as a sister i mean you see tehe thing is we hang out alot and he really likes me alot seriosuly and everyone thinks he really cares about me and that we are really close and you see people also say that he has this flirty things when it comes to girls and i dont think he notices it i mean its not my fault i started to like him you kno hwat i mean anyway so the people that told me that he takes me more than a sister i came back and i asked them im like "how would you kno he took me more like a sis " they told me because one time i was standing with him and i told him that i take you as a close sister and he told me same here " that acually didnt make me angry it made me sad that i kno he probably doesnt like me more than a sister.. or a friend.. but it made me feel good that he cared about me and took me real close to him as a sister.. i just dont know what to do.. people are always tellin me get over the guy before your get hurt again and i really do! wanna get over him.. but i just cant.. its to hard.. its not like i can get over somone like that so quickly
what do i do??
Ok i have always thought the best way to get over a guy is to get with another..and it really does work ! Other then that im sorry to say it will be quite hard to get over him because if u like someone then u like them dont you, you can't really change that. Good Luck ! =/ x x x
well I've asked many questions on here about me and my bf. I'm 14 and so is my Bf. he asks like a kid sometimes (b/c of siblings and he had cancer.) He hasnt made a move at all! we barely ever kiss, and when we do its a peck on the lips, we do hug, and we've only held hands once in the 10-11 months we've been going out. school starts this coming week, and my friends keep saying I have to make a move, because he doesnt! i've gotten advice that says he may be afraid to make a move, like I am.
What are some signs i can used to tell if he still likes me? or should I wait and hold hands and kiss him and see what happens??? I'm really afraid to make any move! Hes my first bf!!! what do you think I should do???
thanks in advance!
Well he must still like you unless he would't still be with you would he =] I think that, like the advice you had before, he is scared. So you should make the first move to show him that theres nothing to worry about :P Hold his hand at first so he will get use to it lol and then eventually just kiss him and soon enough he will get use to everything =] Hope I Helped x x
okay i have this friend that went out this guy for 6 months they broke up 2 times in 6 months, first he broke up with my friend because he HEARD a rumor that my friend wanted to break up with him but she couldnt so he broke up with her, so when he found out it wasnt true that my friend wanted to brake up with him so they got back together and 2nd time was he broke up with her again because he doesnt have feelings for my friend because he liked someone else when they were going out but he didnt wanna tell my friend because he was scared that my friend is gonna hate him, so the girl he likes doesnt like him back, after that my friend and her ex are still friends and they would talk to each other a lot at night and her ex asked her if she got over him and she said no and he also said hes not over her too and he was saying that it was all his fault and stuff. the question is what do you think about this situation? they broke up 3-5 months ago but they are still talking and stuff
Well it sounds like they both still like each other..unless they wouldnt make that much effort to speak to each other all the time. But just because they like eachother doesn't mean they have to get back together, maybe they are just enjoying talking if you get me lol. Im sure if they both wanna get back together they will sort it out =] x x
ok, so i have a neighbor who lives across the street and the parents are away. there are three guys home, two brothers and a cousin. the cousin's a year older than me and the brothers are one year older and one year younger. i'm a not-that-experienced 16-year-old-girl who previously had only been felt up. so i was walking on my block and they invited me over, which was a little weird b/c we never hang out, but w/e. the cousin had been wanting to hook up with me for a very long time. we ended up in a room together and i ended up giving him head and a hand job, but i had to stop before he came b/c my mom was outside calling my name. i think he wants to do it again but i'm feeling really weird about this. he's texted me and called me twice while i was sleeping, at about 2 in the morning. what should i do?
oki then if you dont like him and he keeps texting you..then dont text him back :P Ino it sounds alittle nasty but its either that or telling him straight tha you dont like him ? If he texts you and u never txt back, then im sure he will get the idea. And if you see him in the street or something, then just tell him your busy and you will talk to him another time. Keep saying things like this and he will catch on. =] Good Luck x x
this is a complicated situation, and goes for a while but please any advice is greatly appriciated.
I've known this guy for a while now, and originally we were only just mates. We used to hang out a fair bit & chat pretty often. I never thought of him as someone that i could have any potential feelings for and those kind of thoughts never crossed my mind. Reflecting back on it i guess we used to flirt a fair bit, but i never really thought about it in that way.
Then out of no where one night we kissed, he made all the moves and kind of just came on really strong. I didnt bother me but it was just really unexpected and weird. I realised after i had kissed him the first time that i actualy kinda did have a thing for him. My best friend said she saw it coming a mile away. Ever sinse then we started kissing on a regular basis, except for the fact that he was uneasy about the differences in our age, him being 20 and me being 16. I know that sounds like its such a big gap, but it really doesnt feel like that and we get along really well.
The more i saw of this boy, the more and more intrested i became in him, and im never one to develop feelings for people, or put myself in a position to be hurt, but with him everything seemed different.
I go to an all girls private school, and everything at my school gets blown about 100 times out of proportion. As soon as i started seeing this guy all the girls at my school seemed suddenly really interested in him, talking about him alot in front of me, and going out of their way to catch up with him & see him.
It never really bothered me until they started saying things to him about me, just that i was "super keen" and that i seemed to really like him.
One night when all of the girls were at a party and he was there too, and i couldnt make it for some reason, he was apparently "all over" a girl in my friendship circle. Nothing happened apparently, but even now its still a bit of a grey area. The next day i had my 2 best mates ringing me up telling me about how dodgy the whole situation had looked & how this girl had been saying she wanted to kiss the boy id been with. I was a bit annoyed aboutt he whole thing, but thort it wait until i spoke to the boy before i said anything to anyone, kinda just to hear both sides of the story.
When i approached the situation with the boy he got all defensive, telling me that hes been friends with girls all his life, and hes not gonna change the way he interacts with them because of my insecurities. He bascially flipped his lid at me and told me that i needed to not listen to anything that "my stupid friends" told me because they were obviously over exagerating. i let it all slide but later that day he sent me a really indepth text msg telling me that maybe we should just be friends until "those around us" settle down and stop causing trouble.
i took the news really hard, and struggeled heaps to get over him. I didnt really no what id done wrong because everything seemed to be going so well. We decided to just be friends and he thort that i was fine with that, but i was really upset and had alot of trouble seeing him in social situations. All of my friends new how hard id took it and were really good about the whole thing. I was eventually getting over him when i saw him one night out in town (nightclub) i felt so confident around him and didnt even get the whole butterfly in the stomach feeling. I kissed another really nice boy that night and thort that it was the last id have to worry about the first guy. The next day i started getting attention off him again, him sending me txt msgs telling me how great i looked the night before and that he hopse i had an ok night etc.
from there onwards we have been talking heaps as i presumed as just good friends like we usd to be before the whole "fling" happened.
The other night he invited me over to his house to watch a movie and hang out I went around with no intentions, but he ended up kissing me. I knew the whole time that it was happeneing that it was the wrong thing and i shouldnt be putting myself in the situation i was in but i couldnt help it. The next day he sent me a msg telling me that his mum had liked seeing me again, and thort i looked as "stunning as ever" and that he was sorry if he came on too strong, he just couldnt resist.
The weekend after he aledgedly spent the night with the girl who had tried to kiss him ages ago (the one that was all over him the night i wasnt there) and naturally my school made the rumours about 100 times worse. I felt really hurt and used seeing as he had kissed me only a couple of days earlier and had been calling me and msging me all week. I came the conclusion that he was just playing me and to steer clear, but that night he came over to my house pleading me to understand that it wasnt true and that he would never do that to me.. making out like i had some reason to be mad, like we had been something serious or something. I accepted his apology and sinse then we have basically been kissing regulary again, but this time more secretive so less people will get involved and talk about it.
I dont no whether he has any real feelings for me or if hes just going to play me all over again, but i dont really no what to do about getting an answer to this whole situation. I know that if i want to protect myself i should just steer clear all together, but i have such strong feelings for him i am just hoping that this time he treats me a bit better and understands what i want. i really dont no what to do!
sorry this has been so long, but i just thort it would be easier to explain everything this way!!
please help me, would be much appriciated, i will rate highly for any attempt!!
regards,
steph x
Well it sounds like all the girls you talk about are just jelous..big time! Im not saying this is definatly true, but thats what it seems. It sounds like this guy really likes you and when he told you he just wanted to be friends, and you weren't around, i think he realised how much he actually likes you.Im not saying he didnt kiss the other girl or anythin, im just saying i think he realised he made a mistake. I think you should hang in there a while, see how things go. If he starts messing with other girls again then i think maybe you should end it with him for good, show him that he cannot play you. However, if he doesn't mess with other girls, then you have found yourself a great guy ;) Hope i helped =] x x
I like this kid and he likes me, but I when we told each other and all, I really don't like him at all. I mean I think I don't? I don't know I'm soooo confused its not even funny. I mean he alwaysssss at any given time, puts his hand around me, and is always trying to sit close to me like an inch against my face, I cant stand it I feel like I'm getting closterphobic?(sp?) I get nasious(sp?) and I'm seriously going to puke, I love him as a friend but its tooo much. I don't wanna like tell him though, but its eating me.
I no you said you dont wan to tell him but seriously, what else can you do? Its not fair on him if you keep him thinking you do like him when you dont. I no you probably feel nasty telling him you dont like him, but its alot nastier pretending you do. Plus it will be alot easier for you after you have told him lol. =] x x