ok, so i have a neighbor who lives across the street and the parents are away. there are three guys home, two brothers and a cousin. the cousin's a year older than me and the brothers are one year older and one year younger. i'm a not-that-experienced 16-year-old-girl who previously had only been felt up. so i was walking on my block and they invited me over, which was a little weird b/c we never hang out, but w/e. the cousin had been wanting to hook up with me for a very long time. we ended up in a room together and i ended up giving him head and a hand job, but i had to stop before he came b/c my mom was outside calling my name. i think he wants to do it again but i'm feeling really weird about this. he's texted me and called me twice while i was sleeping, at about 2 in the morning. what should i do?
Additional info, added Sunday August 5 2007, 4:22 pm: 1. i don't like him. he's as dumb as a post.
2. he won't stop texting me.
3. i'm nauseous and i can't eat because of it.
4. i'm kind of scared of him and my neighbors and my parents are really close.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? NightLight answered Sunday August 5 2007, 5:47 pm: SO you made a bad decision, we all make mistakes. If he is making you uncomfortable you need to talk to someone. What you did wasn't really all that smart but talking to someone like your mom can solve the problem and you can put it behind you. [ NightLight's advice column | Ask NightLight A Question ]
Chika answered Sunday August 5 2007, 2:02 pm: If you like him then there is no problem with it. But if your gonna end up getting hurt in the end, i woudn't do it. But if you just want to hook up like he might, then go for it. He probably wanted you to sneek out and thats why he called you at 2 in the morning.
And here's a plus-- if he wants to do it again than obviously you did something right =) [ Chika's advice column | Ask Chika A Question ]
NikkiM answered Sunday August 5 2007, 12:34 pm: oki then if you dont like him and he keeps texting you..then dont text him back :P Ino it sounds alittle nasty but its either that or telling him straight tha you dont like him ? If he texts you and u never txt back, then im sure he will get the idea. And if you see him in the street or something, then just tell him your busy and you will talk to him another time. Keep saying things like this and he will catch on. =] Good Luck x x [ NikkiM's advice column | Ask NikkiM A Question ]
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