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i dont what to do.
I like this kid and he likes me, but I when we told each other and all, I really don't like him at all. I mean I think I don't? I don't know I'm soooo confused its not even funny. I mean he alwaysssss at any given time, puts his hand around me, and is always trying to sit close to me like an inch against my face, I cant stand it I feel like I'm getting closterphobic?(sp?) I get nasious(sp?) and I'm seriously going to puke, I love him as a friend but its tooo much. I don't wanna like tell him though, but its eating me.
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If you don't say anything, then he's gonna think you like it and try to do more. Just stop him and say, "Hey, I've never told you this but I get really uncomfortable when you touch me." Tell him he's a great guy, but you're not ready for that type of stuff with him. If he still wont stop, try to avoid him.
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Alright- let's say you DON'T tell him; he'll probably keep doing this stuff that makes you extremely uncomfortable. Unless he has extrasensory capabilities- he won't be able to read your mind and tell that you don't like what he does. Maybe he doesn't realize its uncomfortable to you, nor would it be to anyone. Everyone has different views a perspectives of certain things. Maybe he's seeing what he's doing as flirty fun. He has no idea how you're feeling unless you tell him.
So the only way to make him stop is to tell him. Honestly- what else can you do?
Nothing- that's what. He can't read minds, like I said- and its probably better that you tell him sooner than later =D.
--Jack
(15/m)
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I no you said you dont wan to tell him but seriously, what else can you do? Its not fair on him if you keep him thinking you do like him when you dont. I no you probably feel nasty telling him you dont like him, but its alot nastier pretending you do. Plus it will be alot easier for you after you have told him lol. =] x x
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