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how can i get over this guy
hey everyone if your reading this i so totally appreaciate it.... so im 13 this boys 16 i really lke him and i mean alot ive had crushes before and stuff but him,.. he lasted for about a year but you see everyone tells me that he takes me more as a sister i mean you see tehe thing is we hang out alot and he really likes me alot seriosuly and everyone thinks he really cares about me and that we are really close and you see people also say that he has this flirty things when it comes to girls and i dont think he notices it i mean its not my fault i started to like him you kno hwat i mean anyway so the people that told me that he takes me more than a sister i came back and i asked them im like "how would you kno he took me more like a sis " they told me because one time i was standing with him and i told him that i take you as a close sister and he told me same here " that acually didnt make me angry it made me sad that i kno he probably doesnt like me more than a sister.. or a friend.. but it made me feel good that he cared about me and took me real close to him as a sister.. i just dont know what to do.. people are always tellin me get over the guy before your get hurt again and i really do! wanna get over him.. but i just cant.. its to hard.. its not like i can get over somone like that so quickly
what do i do??
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Hey sweetie.
The trick to get over a boy. It's something every girl wants to have sometimes. But to tell you the truth, there is'nt one. If you really like this boy, you have to tell him that so you can find out how he feels for real. Maybe he just says that he thinks of you as a sister because he's too afraid to tell you the truth. If you're to afraid to tell him face to face, then call him, write him a letter or anything. You just have to find out how he feels so that you can find out how you feel. And if you truly want to get over this guy, you just have to keep trying. Start seeing other guys, hang out with different people. It's hard, it's painful. But you will get over him, trust me.
Your friend, Veronica.
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Okay. The way that I always get over guys is in a routine. You choose ONE DAY and only 1 day, to be your "sob/weep/be depressed over" day. That means, that for one day (because guys don't deserve to be upset over for more than one day.. they're just boys, remember?) you listen to breakup songs and eat chocolate ice cream right out of the container and all the stuff that people do to get over guys. Then, you must go out with your friends and make sure he's not there, and party and have a great time! Also, focus on your friends for now, and I'm telling you the moment you stop looking for or chasing a guy, they come right to you. But for now, mourn for only one day, then party and have fun!
♥, lena
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Ok i have always thought the best way to get over a guy is to get with another..and it really does work ! Other then that im sorry to say it will be quite hard to get over him because if u like someone then u like them dont you, you can't really change that. Good Luck ! =/ x x x
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