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i dont know what he wants...
19/f from Italy
i know its realy long but pls read it!!plssss
Hi my problem is the following...for about 1 year i am very close 2 this guy...we r best friends he sais so him self...he always said that he would never try 2 flirt with me cz he would feel 2 guilty cz he just saw me as a real nice innnocent girl..well in the summer we made vacations in my home town where he saw another side of me...he saw me dancing and guys flirting with me and all that stuff...after that he changed towards me..he was carying we talk almost twice a day...he bought me a present its like he liked me more than before and he sais he likes me but he was always the flirty guy so i dont know in what way he means it...once he told me very serious that he like me and i got scared so i said in a very friendly(kind of laughing) way "i like u 2"...when we watch dvd at my place he is very carying he wants 2 hug me the whole time and sometimes he sleeps over cz its late ,and the whole night he just holds me in his arms...and then there r other times where he asks me about one of my best friends(which is very pretty)and he sais that he likes her(he saw her 3 months ago for 30 minutes)and i got sick of it so i called him a coward and a chicken if he doesnt sent her an email and tells her that he likes her so he did!i dont know if he really likes her or if he is just playing with me!he even asked me if this subject bothers me and i said no...once at a party where he was kind of drunk i asked him if he liked me and he said yes...and then he added "as a friend"and he huged me...but the rest of the night he kept dancing with me very close...he even put his hand on my butt so i sometimes think maybe he really loves me as a friend but he wouldnt mind if i am just his sex buddy ..doesnt like me more than that...i dont know...but on the other hand when we r just lieng in bed wathcing the movie he is really carying and soft...i dont know pls i need advice...i really like him but i dont wanne b used just 4 the physical part!oh and btw i am 19 and he is 22...but we study together...also...if guy sais u r his best friend does it mean that he doesnt want anything more from you?
thnx a lot,
Gery
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Well ot soud to me like this guy does like you ! I think he tries to drop hints and tell you that he likes you, but then gets abot scared incase you reject him an just want to be friend, so he adds "as a friend." He is showing all the signs of liking you but i think he's just scared to asmit it properly to you. I also think that he said he likes your friend just to see if you would react in a jelous way, which would show him that you like him. So then he asked you were you bothered and you said no, so he probably thought you didnt like him in "that way." If you like him and want to be more than friends, I think maybe you should drop a few hints. Just let him no that you like him .. but dont make it too obvious ! Maybe when he realises that you like him, he might tell you how he truly feels. Good Luck :) x x
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From what you have explained, it sounds like he has developed feelings for you. He also sounds like a great guy. I don't think he would want to use you for sex. If you want to see if you can start a relationship together, then ask him if he would be interested. I hope that it works out for you two, because it seems you are both interested, just too scared to be the one to make the first move. Good Luck!!
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