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Question Posted Saturday August 11 2007, 9:41 pm

well I've asked many questions on here about me and my bf. I'm 14 and so is my Bf. he asks like a kid sometimes (b/c of siblings and he had cancer.) He hasnt made a move at all! we barely ever kiss, and when we do its a peck on the lips, we do hug, and we've only held hands once in the 10-11 months we've been going out. school starts this coming week, and my friends keep saying I have to make a move, because he doesnt! i've gotten advice that says he may be afraid to make a move, like I am.
What are some signs i can used to tell if he still likes me? or should I wait and hold hands and kiss him and see what happens??? I'm really afraid to make any move! Hes my first bf!!! what do you think I should do???
thanks in advance!


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chelle1862 answered Sunday August 12 2007, 8:20 pm:
wow, i know exactly how you feel.

heres my help:

if youre at a movie for example, and his hand is on his knee closest to you or relativly close to you, he wants to hold your hand.

if he keeps looking at you, then glancing at your lips, he wants to kiss you.

maybe he's thinking the same thing you are.

i know its hard, but make the move. go for it, be a go getter! :) best of luck!

<33 chelle

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xXJeSsiCaXx answered Sunday August 12 2007, 8:20 pm:
I agree with what the person before me said,
if he didnt like you he wouldnt have stayed with you for so long with your relationship being like this. Making a move is scary and no one likes rejection but if you do it you will deffinetly not regret it. im sure he wants to make a move as much as you do. maybe hes even thinking that you dont like him anymore just like your thinking. So just make the move but take it slow. Your relationship is probably going to last a long time because you guys arent rushing into anything and that is a very good thing.

Well i hope i helped

Jess

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NikkiM answered Sunday August 12 2007, 12:13 pm:
Well he must still like you unless he would't still be with you would he =] I think that, like the advice you had before, he is scared. So you should make the first move to show him that theres nothing to worry about :P Hold his hand at first so he will get use to it lol and then eventually just kiss him and soon enough he will get use to everything =] Hope I Helped x x

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