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Okay, well, me and my boyfriend had sex, but he didn't have a condom, so he just pulled out. Is there still a high chance of me getting pregnat? Any answers would help, thanks. (link)
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The pull out method isn't effective. There is still a chance that you could become pregnant.
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ok, well. I decided to shave down there. but like, everytime I do, I always get these red bumps. and it really hurts. but, I still wanna shave.. and like, recently i've had an infection. and like, it REALLY burns. and it's really annoying. I don't wanna tell my mom, like at all. please help? (link)
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You're probably just getting razor burn. Try shaving in the direction that your hair grows to avoid ingrown hairs.. shave down instead of up.
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I'm 13, 5"3 and weigh approx 115 pounds. I don't want to lose weight, if that is what you are thinking. Simply, I am looking for another form of exercise that would suit me. Anyone with experience? (Sorry about the length of this post.)
Currently I take jazz dance Friday nights from 5:15 to 6:15. This is only my fourth year dancing so I just get a little sweaty.
I also have gym class at school 2 or 3 times a week. In gym we usually run 4 laps around the track (no walking!), which can be hard if you are tired, but is usually not too much of a problem. We then do another activity. (track and field, currently.)
My upper body is sort of weak and untoned, quite skinny. I have wider thighs (probably from running?), and my legs are in pretty good shape. I have a little flab around my stomach area, bum and thighs. My diet is also quite healthy.
I'm not to good in team sports (shyness), so I'm not looking for that. I want to tone my muscles and have fun. What else could you reccommend?
I've been looking at pilates. I hear that it is great for flexibility and grace (I could use that), muscle toning, and mind-body connection (could use that too for self-esteem issues.:D)
Thanks in advance for any help!
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Try pilates, you might like it. If not, then you could try light weight lifting or swimming. Keep running on your track to keep your legs in shape.
Good Luck!
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I'm 13/f and i have a bf. i really want to go on a date with him, and my parents wont let me!!
The only way i can go on a date with my bf is if my parents come too. That would be soooo embarrasing!! I dont get it, like i do everything i'm told- i have good grades, keep my room clean, have good friends, etc. and i have tried telling them that stuff but they said that doesn't matter because i'm just not old enough. We tried to double date with my best friend this weekend, but we couldn't. :( I feel really bad because he wants to go places besides skewl with me, but i cant!! Does anyone have suggestions on how to get them to let me go? (link)
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Go on a couple dates with your parents. Do fun things, like bowling or just do dinner or something. Maybe you can invite your friend and her boyfriend so it won't be that boring. Act appropriately around your boyfriend, and maybe they'll let you go on a date with just your boyfriend. If not, just wait. Don't push your parents, they make these rules for a reason.
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15/f
Okay, well I have a wonderfull boyfriend who ive been with for a long time. I am a religious girl, and he is also a very religious guy. We have both agreed not to have sex until marrige, but we have talked about it and both agree on the subject of fooling around before marrige (pretty much everything up to sex) In the past couple of weeks I have been getting these urges, like that making out isn't enough for me anymore, but Im scared to go any farther then that. Idk Im like afraid that God will shun me or something. Yes I know we agree on fooling around before marrige, and yes to me it seems okay for everyone but me to do it! I've been reading some of these posts and some people suggest masturbation for these urges, but again, Im afraid of God hating me or something. So basicly I have two questions:
1)Is it wrong to fool around with someone when you aren't married?
2)What kinda stuff can you do, that isn't too extreme? (link)
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I don't think that fooling around with someone you aren't married to is wrong, but it all depends on a person's morals. If you've agreed not to have sex until marraige, don't have sex.
I would talk to your boyfriend and discuss your limits as to fooling around. Do what feels comfortable for you.
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but i like her, and im good friends with both of them, but my otehr friend told me of a 6 month rule that you cant date a friend's gf when they break up... so i have no idea what to do? do i keep liking her? move on? o and i touched her butt today kinda random though. can someone tell me (link)
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You should move on. This girl is with your friend, and wanting her isn't being a good friend. Dating a friend's ex never goes over well either.
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17/F I know I should be happy for my best friend who finally got a boyfriend..like today for the first time EVER..but I'm not. I've never had one either..and I've just feeling very very upset with her that now I have to make room for her boyfriend..and I hate sharing. I know, I sound crazy, jealous and everytime I talk to her, I get really mad because all she does is talk about him now. Seriously, what can I do to stop feeling this way because I don't want to keep feeling like a REALLY bad friend..I'm the only single one now..and it sucks being single all by yourself. Help? (link)
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She's probably in a giddy phase right now. She'll tone it down once the phase ends, but if she doesn't, talk to her about it. If you want her to stop it, she first has to know what she's doing. Don't feel bad, everyone gets jealous every once in a while.
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how can i ask my dad if i can have a myspace?
(DO NOT tell me to sneak it behind his back!) (link)
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Explain to your dad that you will make your myspace private, keep it clean, and won't put any personal info on it. Take on responsibilities to show your dad that you can handle it.
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Im 15,female.Well my boufriend and i play with each other. he sticks only the head of his dick in. He has never cummed in me but im still scared. im still a virgin and want to know if there is any possibility of getting pregnant? please help me.....And wat are the possibilities? Please answer!!! (link)
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You aren't a virgin, and if you have had contact at all without protection, you could get pregnant. Wait for your period to come, and if it doesn't, I'd buy a pregnancy test.
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Hey. Well, I'm 13/f and I go to middle school, 7th grade. I know, please believe me, that labels are the stupidest thing on the Earth, but I have to use them just for this particular question.
Okay, well, I used to be 'prep' but now I find myself likeing things the 'emo's' were and at my dad's house, in his neighborhood, I hang out with the 'emo' people. I really like all the things they do, like, the eye makeup, the styles[kind of], and stuff like that.
Problem is, if I just, one day 'become' 'emo' then everyone will call me a poser. What do I do?
And, I have blonde hair and blue eyes, and I love cheerleading. I know, that's kind of 'preppy' but I like being 'emo' more than being 'prep'. (link)
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Don't worry about what other people say. If you like to dress a certain way, dress that way. If you love cheerleading, cheerlead. Do what you like. Look the way you want. You'll be happier that way.
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heyy everyone! firstly, im 13, female, from Australia.
well, i have a HUGE crush on a guy in my court! and i mean HUGE! but not big enough to be obsesed. we are already friends. i dont talk to him much, but i did not that long ago. i was so sad when my friend told me he was moving schools. and then i was even MORE sad when i heard he was moving HOUSES!!! noooo! i am so sad, i dont want him to leave, because i will never see him again. I am a shy girl and i have never had a boyfriend, or even Kissed a guy ([ i know so embarassing :( ...) so i am way to embarassed to even talk to him that much. I was just going to ask everyone for advice if i should ask for him new phone number or house adress or both. because i really dont want to lo
se contact with him, because he is such a great guy. Also i cant tell if he was flirting or not. But the other day when we were talking and he was kicking the footy with his mate, he tried doing this trick with the footy that was hard, and he stuffed it up big time, (but i didnt care coz he is the best anywayz) and i saw him blush a little. i cant tell if he was flirting, because NO ONE has EVER flirted with me, or asked me out EVER!! sooo anyway, please answer my question if i should ask for his new number. or adress. or both.
SORRY THIS WAS SOOO LONG!!! and THANX for the advice!
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Does he have Instant Messaging? Casually ask for his screename..
..or, you can give him a paper with YOUR address and number on it. It's worth a try.
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female, 14.
a couple of days ago, i shaved down there. is there any harm to this? it's kind of red and bumpy. and i can't seem to get it so shaved, that it's soft. it's like stubby. how do i get it so it's soft?
oh, and when i go to the drs for a physical, and they look down there, would they say anything to me because i shave? (link)
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It's perfectly fine to shave "down there". Just be sure to shave in the direction the hair grows, because you don't want painful ingrown hairs. It's going to be stubby if you shave, it would be smooth if you waxed but that would be pretty painful.
As for the doctor issue, your doctor won't say anything to you about shaving. It's up to you whether you shave or not, and I guarantee you that your doctor has had other women who shave too. It's no big deal. :]
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so i have a boyfriend. of 3 months. i love him. and we have said i love you for about 2 months before we started dating. and he ALWAYS wants me to change, and stop talking to my best friend brandon. and he got REALLY pissed off cause when i went away for spring break i hung out with his friend rick, but nothing happened between us. i gave him a hug good bye and thats it. but we never told my boyfriend about it. and found out and now he thinks im fucking around. and he says were on break. and hes like we can still kiss and hold hands durring school. and im like whats break?
what are the standards for a break?
what are the standards when your my age for break?
advice please?
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Break up with this loser. Who is he to dictate your life? If he's that insecure about your relationship, end it.
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i did something totally embarassing on friday that makes me never want to go to school againn. okay well we were reading some boring paper thing in science and it was about organisms and how they pollute water or something like that, i don't know. well my teacher passed out a worksheet and we had to write down the answers to the questions from the text, and by mistake (i wasnt paying attention) i wrote down "orgasm" instead of "organism". when my teacher was correcting the papers and she came to mine, she just literally burst out laughing and that freaking asshole TOLD THE CLASS that i wrote that down. i died of embarassment, seriously.. i cant even face that class anymore. what can i do?!!?!?!?! pleasee helppp. thankk you. (link)
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Don't worry about it. People make mistakes. It'll all blow over.
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so i went to the doctor today cause i had a really bad sore throat. they did a blood test on me and they said i have mono. I know what it is... but my question is
should i still go to school??
my cousin said his friend had mono and he had to stay out of school for a month!
another question is that I play volleyball... well we have a big tournament coming up and i'm the setter on our team. we have another setter, so that not the problem. the only problem is that i really really want to play.... should i still go to the tournament, but not play??
or should i just stay home?
thanks!
PS: if you have any other advice about mono, please tell!!! (link)
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Well my cousin has mono, and she had to stay out of school for about a week. I guess it depends on how bad you have it, and how long you've had it for so you should ask your doctor. As for the tournament, I would also ask a doctor, but I would only play if you feel completely up to it. Mono can make you feel very tired so you should get proper rest. Don't push yourself. Get better soon!
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these boys in my grade are really jerky and really hurt my feelings. It makes me very upset! I don't know what to do anytime they get the chance to insult me they DO. I ask them nicley to stop and theyu say no. I've told adult sand they talked to them but then it gets bad again. So NOTHING at this point is working. ANy advice? thanks=] (link)
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Okay -
This might sound dumb, but you should just ignore them. They'll figure out that they're just being immature soon enough. Why bother yourself with it? It might be hard to ignore it, but it should work. Let me know, Good luck!
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I need help. I have depression and social anxiety. I have just came out of a foster home and am back with my mom. I'll just say that I won't see my dad for a while. I have to move and everything. I get to see my family when I move but I'll miss my friends here. This really isn't helping my depression. Please help me. (link)
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I would start seeing a therapist about your depression, so it doesn't get worse. The therapist can give you help with it and help you to cope with the problems you are experiencing.
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i started using a injected style steriod and i put the shot in my butt.Dont know if i got to much air in the needle or not but my tell is very swollen and i cant even sit down and it has been 3 days.Should i be concerned and will it go away.
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You should see a doctor because if it is serious then you need to do something about it.
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does any one know any good sites, or pictures of hair for prom. im looking for it to be up on my head and curly(( i have striaght hair)) and some hair down around my face... please help! (link)
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You should book a consultation with the hairstylist that is going to be doing your hair so that she can help you decide what is best for your hair type. She'll probably have books with hairstyles that you can choose from.
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I want to go to get myself measured for my bra size but Im embarrased of showing my breats to anyone! What can i do?
Oh and should your bra be very tight on you, a little loose, or fits just right but not tight? (link)
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Your bra should fit you just right without being too tight. As for finding your size, you can do it yourself with a tape meausure and a good website, like this: http://www.herroom.com/bra-fitting-finding-your-bra-size,203,30.html , or you could go to LaSenza to be sized; when I went, I didn't even have to take off my shirt.
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