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my friend is going out with this girl


Question Posted Monday April 16 2007, 9:30 pm

but i like her, and im good friends with both of them, but my otehr friend told me of a 6 month rule that you cant date a friend's gf when they break up... so i have no idea what to do? do i keep liking her? move on? o and i touched her butt today kinda random though. can someone tell me

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Brandi_S answered Tuesday April 17 2007, 12:10 am:
Six month rule? Ok... sure... right...

Honestly? There is no rule that says you can't date her if you want. It wouldn't be very nice if they just broke up yesterday or something, but six months is a bit much, don't you think?

Yes, you respect your friend's heartache and all, but you also have to respect your own feelings and wants.

If you like her and the feeling is mutual, then go out with her. Yah, your friend may be a little hurt at first, but he will get over it. Because just as you respect his feelings, he needs to respect yours without attaching time limits on you.

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christina answered Monday April 16 2007, 10:20 pm:
Rules shmules. I don't go by that. If I like someone, and my friend dated them, then I'm gonna do what makes me happy. Yeah, I will ask my friend first if it's alright to avoid unwanted drama/tension, but other than that, I'm gonna do what makes me happy.

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god-smusgrove answered Monday April 16 2007, 10:16 pm:
there's no rule, if your his gf likes you and they break up, duh go out with her if you like her.

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MissMegLoL answered Monday April 16 2007, 10:05 pm:
You should move on. This girl is with your friend, and wanting her isn't being a good friend. Dating a friend's ex never goes over well either.

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