Hello, My name is Megan, and I am a splendid listener. Have you ever a problem, IM me, I'm always on, or comment to one of my posts. I'm a really nice girl, and get along well with others.
Gender: Female
Location: Michigan
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Age: 15
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Member Since: August 8, 2004
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SammyPie
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ok the other night i was at a party/sleepover and me and my friend got dared (for 10$ each) to make out with each other. we did it because we figured it wasnt a big deal and we were getting ten dollars each. but then everyone started taking turns doing it and i ended up doing it at least three times. im not lesbian or bisexual but i feel like what i did makes me one now. not that its a bad thing but its just not what i want to be. does what i did make me a lesbian? i dont know what to think about myself anymore.
please help!
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Okay. I have a boyfriend, and I've done that at parties before. You're not a lesbian, no worries.
Megan
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I would like to ask something. My best friend and I experimented and were both girls and were both 13. We kissed each other, felt on each other and kissed each other's neck. As the days go on after we experimented I haven't had any thoughts about other guys. My friend and I act like were a couple or something. When she goes to her dad's house we miss each other more, I want to hug her and never let her go and we talk about experimenting again like it's just a regular thing to do now. Does that mean we like each other or that were lesbians? (link)
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If you have absolutly no feelings for guys whatso ever, then yes. You're a lesbian. If you have some feelings for some guys, you're bisexual. Since you've had so many intimite expierences with your best friend, thats probably why you miss eachother so fiercly. You probably do like her 'that way'.
Megan
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me and my girl are realy close but lately about 3 other girls have been hitten on me. including like my best friend. i dont know how 2 let them down couse ive told them i have a girl
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I've had the same problem. I've got a boyfriend, and this guy always hit on me. I mean always. He wouldn't leave me alone. Finally, I gave him a good talking to. "Look. I'm with this guy and I wan't it to work. Your flirting with me isn't helping, so can you please stop?" Say something of the sort to the frisky females and if they're your friends, they'll back off.
Megan
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Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do??? (link)
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The fact that you said "I'm only 14..." You're second guessing yourself. I don't believe at 14 you're ready for sex, but it is all a matter of maturity. Another point that makes me wonder is that you say you 'always' talk about having sex. Doesn't that sound like pressure to you? It's all a matter of what you want and what you feel. If you feel you're 100 percent ready for sex, go ahead and be safe, but if you're not 100 percent sure, if you do have sex, you'll have doubts later on.
If you do make the decision to have sex,be safe and use a Condom/birth controll and what not. I know, I know. You've heard this all before.
Megan
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In Blink 182's song: Asthenia (its track 9 on their latest album) when Tom DeLonge is singing it sounds like he has a lisp or a retainer of some sort?! Am I the only one who can hear it? Please tell me some info about it! (link)
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Some people sing different than others. It isn't really anything to talk about..he's a singer, and singing is hard. Lisps happen.
Megan
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In two of Blink 182's songs: Easy Target and All of This (numbers 11 and 12 on their latest album) the lyrics refer to a person called Holly "Holly let me out!" and "Use me holly, come on and use me." WHO is Holly? (link)
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I've never heard that songs, but by the looks of it, perhaps Holly is someone one of the band members was emotionaly attatched too? Or maybe 'Holly' referes to every girl or person that has been in their life. I'm sorry if I wasn't of help.
Megan
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i wrote a question earlier today picking in between parties. i picked to stay home with my boyfriend. he came over, and he was drunk. he's always a little mean when he's drunk. we got into this huge fight about nothing and we broke up. i started bawling and he said i was overreacting. i haven't stopped crying since 11:30 and i can't stop. i feel worthless and stuff because everytime we fight, it's my fault. what can i do to get over him because i won't stop having feelings for him? and what can i do to stop this feeling of worthlessness? please help me. i can't stop crying (link)
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Never feel worthless over someone like him. He comes over your your house drunk. What kind of boyfriend is that? You don't need him. You may think you love him and the feelings are strong, but you can do so much better than that. You just have to remember how he is making you feel right now. How worthless and degraded you feel. You don't want to feel like that, and you'll keep feeling that way unless you let things end. Cut all ties. He's a loser anyways.
Best wishes,
Megan
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okay its always like i have to call my boyfriend or else we dont talk till like night time...he calls to say goodnight...but to make plans...it seems like i ALWAYS have to call him...and today im doing nothing till the nighttime and i want to call him because waiting for him to call me is just a waste of time...but then again i dont think i should call him...i called him yesterday to make plans and the day before...and we love hangin out we have so much fun...but its me who always has to call first...should i call him? (link)
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He probably doesn't realize he is doing it. I had something exactly the same, except it was instant message. I always had to IM my boyfriend. ALWAYS. I told him about it, and he IMed me a few times. Your boy friend probably doesn't even know. He probably waits for you to call because he knows you've done it in the past all the time so thats what he expects. Tell him how you fell.
MeganKristine
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Hey thanks for saying I'm pretty, your pretty too. I shouldent have called her stupid now all this dramam is gonna start..oh well:) I'll add you as a fav..can you do the same?? (link)
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Sure, ^_^
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I'm contemplating having the bariatric surgery done. I'm 140lbs over my "ideal" weight... and the diabetes and other probs are too much to deal with for the next 10 years. I've been this same size plus or minus 20 lbs for longer than that...and I have hated being heavy... now we have insurance that will cover it!! I think I need to do it... Just wanted to see where you stand on the issue... and see if you're supportive of the idea.
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Whatever makes you happy, Ma'am/sir. Sherry and the other girl, seriosly. Grow up. This isn't the place to be bickering like a couple of 2 years old. And for the record, Sherry is really pretty.
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When do your breasts stop growing because I'm 14 and I wear a size B bra and how much will I be when I stop growing? Thanks! Please try to give me a range of my bra size for me! (link)
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Stop Growing? Well, I'm 15 and my bra size is 38c, so I'm sure they'll stop around...16 maybe?
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On new year's eve, I have to go to my grandparents for 3 days. I really don't want to go because they live a long way away from us and all my friends. The only way I will be able to keep in touch with my friends is through text message because they don't let me use their phone and I can't afford to call on mine. They don't even have a computer so their's no msn either. I know it's only three days but I am going to be so bored, what can I do to stay in touch with my friends apart from texting? There isn't any point writing letters because it's only three days. (link)
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If text messaging them is the only way you can reach them, then I guess you answered your own questions. Why not bring things to occupy yourself? Like old year books, or scrap books. Or maybe you do something cool for your friends like make them a cool little new years gift. Like you stated, it is only three days. I'm sure you can manage. Grandparents arn't that bad; you could make cookies! My grandparents always give me money, so theres a plus! Sorry if I didn't help.
Good luck.
MeganKristine
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what are some good ways to get a guy to like you? i need some real good ways. what do guys like about the girls they like. How can i get guys to like me? i rate really high! PLEASE HELP! (link)
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-x- Be flirty
-x- Don't be shy
-x- Be yourself
-x- Have fun
-x- Be kind
-x- Look for his intrests, and strike a conversation about that intrest
-x- Laugh at his jokes
-x- Be sweet
-x- Like I said before, BE YOURSELF. You don't want someone who'll love you for something you're not.
MeganKristine
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ok, i have a boyfriend and his name is Chris(and i have had sex with him already), but the other night his brother(Donavan) was sleeping at his house, and me and donavan got really comfortable and me and donavan slept together. and i want to tell Chris but i am scard to. What should i do? (link)
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First of all, you have to tell him. You can't keep it a secret, because if they're brothers, one day they might get into an argument "Oh yeah?! Well I slept with your girlfriend!" It'd be best if you tell him. He probably will not stay with you, just a warning. You should really stick to one person and make love to that person only, if you ever want a stable relationship.
Best of luck,
MeganKristine
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I like this guy Dylan. N i finally told him and it turns out he likes me! Wahoo right? Wrong. He doesn't date. He got hurt really bad in a past relationship and gave dating up. He doesn't like talking about it, so I dont push. We are really good friends but I can't help but want it to be me. He says if he would take it back he would, but he would have to change who he is and that would kill him. (link)
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Crushes are hard. You have to be fair, and give him space. I know it's hurting you, it's probably hurting him more knowing that he doesn't want to take the risk of being with you and getting hurt. You'll get over him. One day you'll see Mr. Wonderful and think "Dylan who?"
MeganKristine
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How do you do a messy bun? I've looked all over the web to try and figure this out. Maybe I'm just not seeing it, who knows. Can anyone help me? (link)
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Okay, you know how you make a pony tail? Well, when you're pulling your hair out of the hair tie, only pull it half way, and there you go.
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I really like this girl that I met in september. she's really flirty with me - and not with ALL guys (maybe just a few...whatever). And she went through this phase where she was a total bitch to me but she would have this cute little grin on her face assuming i didnt notice. like almost 3 weeks ago she was like - i wanna be friends and not a bitch and then she would talk to me and come up to me a lot again and flirt. I want to ask her out eventually, but i wanna know what the deal is - even if were "just friends"
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Hey,
As for her 'deal' I bet she is just nervouse around you. I'm the same way around guys I like, trust me. If you ever want to get anywhere with her, you're just going to have to ask her. I know it's not that easy; it's very hard telling someone you like them, I know, I know. But if you like her, what you should do is wait a little while longer, see how she is around you, hint to her that you like her, perhaps she'll change for the better. You never know; this girl sounds nice. If she is nice and all, ask her out to an upcoming dance, or to a cool new movie or something. Good luck buddy. ^_^
-MeganKristine/AskMegan
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First off you give great advice. Secondly could you add me to your fav. columnists please.
XOXO
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Alright, but I'm not on this user name anymore. Now I'm AskMegan
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Hi my name is Jess and there is this boy who is a grade younger than me and i guess i like him but everyone makes a big deal out of if someone goes out with someone in another grade oh and he likes me too so what should i do go out with him or not (link)
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Well, if you like him and he likes you, whatever everyone else says/thinks really shouldn't matter. It's just one grade, and age dosn't matter anyways. My boyfriend is a Junior, and I'm a sophomore, and we don't care what people think because we like eachother. Take a chance, and persue your liking him, who knows, you might date for a long time. :-)
-Megan Kristine-
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Hi.Yesterday i went to the doctor for a checkup and discovered im still only 5`3 and a whopping 206 pounds :( I gained about 8 pounds in 7 months. My weight has gone up and down for a few years, but this is the highest its been . I almost broke down crying in the office. Ive played the weight loss game..but in the end i keep losing. I dont want to lose the battle of being overweight.My mom and a couple friends who know my weight tell me I dont look like im 200lbs.
Im very athletic and muscular..but i hAVE to lose weight for good. I play tennis, basketball, softball for the school. Im pretty good at all of them...Im sorry this is long and its asking for a lot..but..im lost, depressed, and i dont know what to do. I dont want this to get out of control. I need to stop it now! Please, anything..i promise to give you the good ratings you guys desserve.
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Awww. I love this question. Reminds me of myself..Anyways, you should maybe eat better? Do something to lose a few pounds? (206 Isn't fat)
Good luck!
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