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i am 15 years old going into my sophomore year and i have never been kissed and only had 1 boyfriend which we hung out but it wasnt like a real boyfriend, i use to do modeling and i was on the cheerleading team in middle school i know i am not ugly and people think i am pretty, some guys do like me and guys ask me out but i always turn them down, i have 2 older brothers and a little sister, my brothers are protective so i never want to have a guy around me or bring any guys to my house. is there something wrong with me? when people find out i havnt kissed a guy or done anything like that think i am weird or not likeable. but i do want a boyfriend i just have a hard time getting one i like, is anyone else like this? i dont know what to do!

I've never really had a true boyfriend either.Or kissed a guy. Wait u'll time will come. I promise. if your pretty, your bound 2 find a guy you like.


~lucky

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Hi im 17 and i got my period when i was 15 but it hasnt been regular there are times when i dont get for 4-6 months whats wrong with me ?? i havent gone to the doctor... is this normal??

Of course its normal. dont be worried. once my friend didnt get it for like 3 monthes. they always do that. Nothing 2 worry about


~lucky

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okay well i really like this guy and i know that he likes me and we are both really shy none of my friends know that i like him.Its summer and what do i do when i go back to school and see him again

It not your friends who r gonna choose who you go outt with. if you like him, ask him out.;)

~lucky

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I like this girl and our families are into the same things but im to shy to ask her out what should I do?

Become friends with her first. Once you become friend with her, youll ahve a better chance.Once she can relate 2 you, she mite feel the same way.
Thats all i got srry. Hope it wrks outt!


~Lucky

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Ok, I really like his guy and I think I'm going to dump my boyfriend for him.
I'm positive he likes me too by the way..
And we made this deal where we're saving our first kiss for each other, and I really want to kiss him. Should I make out, too?
Should I make the firts move, because he's shy.

Any help is loved =]

I would. If hes shy, he mite not want 2. Sooo yea. But if you liked the 1st kiss, make out wit him.

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my little brother is turning 5 and he is having a basketball birthday party. what are some games the kids can play that have to do with basketball or the use of a basketball? (please dont say "play basketball)

websites are helpful too. = )

hot potato,get those spongy balls that look like basketball, and play drip drip drop (duck duck goose with like water instead)the game where you pass the ball 2 some1 different, then you start again, and have to remember who passed it.

ummmmm........ sorry outt of ideas hope it could help! =]


~lucky

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Hi everyone, this is the first time im trying this site, but my situation has gotten so serious, i really need some advice from outsiders. Im a 18 year old male.

Alright, the situation is that at our college we have this group of friends that we all hang out in. We are all a pretty close knit group, go to the movies together, lime at each others houses etc.. In this group there are a few relationships, one of which is Julia and Danny. They were in this constant on and off sort of thing for 3 years, he would break it off to give her space and they used to fight all the time. One time when it was off, me and Julia started talking alot, some flirting started and she eventually told me she liked me and i admitted i did to. I had liked her but was always afraid to admit it. Anyways, things took off from there and everything was great. She still didnt want to commit so soon after ending a 3 year relationship..which i understood..so we just dated.

But then we started to do "stuff". Not sex, but nearly evreything except sex. And I am not the type of person who just gets into a relationship to do stuff. I really want to be comitted..and even though we do evreything a commited couple do, knowing that we werent really together and she still thinks about gettin back together with him really pulls at my heart.

I have really falling in Love with Julia, I do these spontaneous things around her that in never knew i was capable of and she makes me feel complete. I know it is not Infatuation cause i have felt that before with another girl and this is far different. And btw, we have been out for two months constantly now, and we find it impossible to argue with each other.

The real twist in our relationship now, is that now he really wants her back, and he is saying all this mushy stuff like "he is changed person and wil treat her better". HE USED TO IGNORE HER FOR VIDEOGAMES! and didnt make alot of sacrifices for her. I would sacrifice anything for her. and i mean ANYTHING. So now she is between two minds wether to hold onto the past or wether to move on to something new. And she was kissing both of us at one point...now she has stopped kissing both of us till she makes her decision. Plz give ur comments on this situation, I want to be with her so badly it hurts...and give her some advice too, and i will relay it..anything is much appreciated

Im kina young but heres my opinion: If the other guy treats her like crap, why does she want 2 be w/ him? I no he said he'll change, but what if he doesent? I hope she picks you cuz you sound a lot nicer, and i no u'll treat her well.Besides, if he doesnt change, she'll go back 2 you.

Best wishes =]

~lucky

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i am 13 years old and i want to find a way that i can make alot of money fast. i already babysit for this one family that gives me $60 dollars every time i come. i want to be able to make money by not doing alot of work. please help.


no offense, but you kinda got 2 do wrk, 2 get the green $$$ Try pet sittting, its like walk the dog, feed it, and brush it. It's like ahving your own pet.Or like sell cookies or something. Have fun!


~Lucky

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ok, i am 14f. i am dating this guy, that is kind of shy, but i really like him. We've been friends for a couple of years, and dated last year, but last year he was kind of selfish so we were friends this year, and he asked me out, i said yes. We've been dating for 2 and a half weeks, and last week he got dared to kiss me. He hasn't yet. I'm worried. I'm kind of nervous cause this is my first kiss, and i really do like him. help,
M.J.

Dont be worried. Kinda let him do it, cause its your 1st 1.Hope all goes well!


~Lucky

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. The first few months we started dating, he asked me the usual "virginity" questions and things like that.. I told him everything, BUT I added and took away things to make me sound ok. I still wasn't comfortable telling him everything.

After the drama of me being a "liar", I prayed, and realized that if I want this relationship to be the way it needs to, then I need to let him know EVERYTHING about me. Nothing should be hidden. So, at 4am (what a great time) I let him know.

8 months later, he has moved to my city for me, we'll be going to school together.. basically starting a new chapter. Everything is PERFECT.

I live in a VERY small town where everyone knows everyone and everyone likes to have something to say bad about someone. A guy that comes into my boyfriends store often came in to tell my boyfriend a handful of LIES about me. The things he said didn't derive from any truth.. they were literally made up off of the top of his head. My boyfriend knew this guy lies about a lot of things, but then someone I had never met before that was friends with the liar backed him up.

The liar is someone I went to highschool with, but never knew. I knew of him. The other guy I have yet to have ever met him, nor have seen in my entire life. Plus.. both guys kept saying to my boyfriend "don't tell her we said this.." That's pretty obvious to me that those were all lies.

I want to confront the liars without making a scene.

I feel like I'm 15 again.

Why can't people grow up, and why can't my boyfriend believe me??? I have been truthful to him since the one and only incident before.

I'm way past this nonsense drama. I'm ready for a future and I can't have this future here with people like that. I'm tired of people that I don't even KNOW stepping into my relationship and causing problems.

...I'm clueless.. Hopefully this will blow over.

Those guys are totally jealous that you have a boyfriend. Ignore them. if you and your boyfriend ignore the lies, they'll stop spreading them, because he doesnt belive them.


~lucky

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i have a friend and hes a boy iv known him for a while and hes one of my good friends.. ya i like him a lot not as a friend.. and i dont want to tell him that i like him because i dont want to stop bein friends and im scared that im might scare him off like its one of those things that you want to tell the person but you dont.. and the worse part is that we act like homies and im a tomboy and i have a lot of guy friends so ya.. what should i do?

Im kinda tomboyish 2, and i dont like all that girly stuff. The best way 2 go, is tell him straight up. Dont change who you are, because, if he does like you, he wont like the real you, and thats not fun. If he doesent feel the same way, just say i still want 2 be friends w/ you. He he dosent want 2 still be your friend, thats his problem, and that would be lame. Sooo go for it. Best wishes :]


~lucky

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Ermm.... I'm a 15 year old girl, and when I was 10 my grandma gave me this teddy bear for my birthday. It's very cute, with brownish fur, and little button eyes. And it has a green vest. I named it "Mr. Paddington". Lately, something weird has been happening. Whenever I've been around it I've felt... odd. As though I had a crush on it. Now I'm embaressed to change with it in the room, and at night when I imagine my first kiss, it's Mr. Paddington I imagine having it with. I've told my friends that I'm dating him, but they think I'm joking.... I'm afraid to tell anyone for real, because what if they took him away? I was just wondering if this is normal..... and if I'm allowed to someday marry my teddy bear?

I dont think you're crazy. but maybe you should tell your mom or dad. I cant really relate, because this has never happened to me. So maybe hide him for a while. once you arent used to seeing him, you'll forget about him Hope everthing works out!

~Lucky

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Well i kindaa have this problem like everytime i talk on the phone ot this guy i get really really horny and it makes me wanna plow him like everytime i don't know why and well this guy is my ex boyfriend what should i do i don't know if he feels the same way i need help whats going on why do i feel like this??

Well, its probably because he's your x. If he broke up with you, that's why you feel this. if you broke up with him, you probably did it because he makes you mad. and thats why you feel like that.Because hes annoying or w.e. but whether you broke up with him, or he broke up with you, you may just be that way, because he's your x. Its normal. dont worry about it.


~lucky

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hi. im 16 and i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for our one year. im madly in love with him and i want it to be something really romantic i dont know what to do. please help

Ask him what he wants! if you dont no, ask. Or get him a giftcard 2 his favorite store. Or 2 the movie rentals.

~Lucky

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lately ive just been so FED UP with my appearance i hate looking in the mirror because its not what i want to see =( everyone else is so much prettier than me or thats what i think. my hair bugs me it never stays right i wish i was tanner i wish i was everything else..

i know im not DEPRESSED or i dont think so but maybe just jealous of every other girl. and i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend and it kills me everytime i hear her name because i know that i cant have him

also my parents have been telling me that i need to go do other things rather than come home go on the computer go to my cousins (my best friends house) and then when i get home get back on the computer! they are telling me i need to get out of the house and go with my other friends but the only problem is i dont have many OTHER close friends i can hangout with..

my life just seems to be going completely wrong.

ahh! what do i do? i cant live like this anymore..

well, you and my are officially twins! It feels like everyone else is sooo much prettier than me! I wish I had blonde or brunette hair, cuuse i have red. I am the pailest thing. i want a tan, but i cant, cuz ill get burned. Im on the computer like 24-7 2! and my parents bug me about it.Plus i only hav like one close group of friends. My life is messed ^^^. But that's why I started this advice thing. It gets my confidence up when i help someone. What you need is to do something you love. A sport, team, club. anything. once you feel like u belong somewhere, you wont feel like that. And you are pretty. so dont say youre not. I mean, ino i want a tan, and a different hair color, but you have to except you 4 who you r. Because you're not going to change. And one day, you'll find a guy that likes you for who you r. Guys can be weird, and only like girls for stupid things, like your chest, or how skinny you r. dont give up. And FYI their r lots of girls outt there who feel the same way!

Hope i helped

~lucky

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hi. i'm a 16/f and when i masterbate, i think of girls. i look at pics of girls. not guys, girls. but i still like guys!! am i..gay?

I think your bi.

~Lucky

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I was at my friend lillys house for her 15th birthday with a few other people. Everything was great we were doing manicures and making prank calls. But then it got really late and everyone got a sugar rush and were bouncing off the walls it was crazy! Well I was sitting on top of Lillys dresser next to her cousin Jenna and all of the sudden Jenna started rubbing my feet and telling me how soft my skin was....it really weirded me out. Everyone laughed like it was a joke...but it didnt seem like a joke to her. She looked kinda like my boyfriend does right after we make out. Should I be weirded out by this? I'm going to her house again on tuesday and her cousin will be there, and I'm kinda scared...should I be? Hellllp!

I dont think you should worry. Some people look serious when they do something funny. She was probably joking around. If she does it again, tell her to stop, because it makes you fell unconfortable.

~Lucky

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Okay this is really embarassing....I went to the movies with my boyfriend last night and we decided to see Nacho Libre...well halfway through the movie I had drank a large soda and I really needed to go ut I didnt want to miss the movie. So then this really funny part happened and I laughed until I peed my pants...I was SO embarrassed and I couldnt get up because I was afraid he would notice to when we went to leave the movie I just rapped my jacket around my waist. On the car ride home he put his hand on my thigh and squeezed...I was so happy! I've never really be touched by a guy (I know I'm a weirdo) and I'm really excited and like a a crazzed fan touched by their hero I'm not sure if I want to wash the pants. I know its gross...but would it be too weird to not wash them and keep them for sentimental value? I wanted to ask my friends but I was WAY to embarrassed to ask people I know. Oh my gosh pleaase help!

no offense, but i think you should wash them. you dont want 2 keep them, w/ the gross smell. even tho i no you want 2 save them, it would be better if you wash them.

~Lucky

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what does it mean when someone says they're head over heels for you? and how did they come up with it. it's okay if you can only answer one of the questions. thanks. (i had no idea what category to put this in sorry)

Head over heals mean that the person loves you. when your head over heals, it's like your tripping, and falling for them (but they'll catch you)


~Lucky

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okay well i have this 'friend' who was always nice to me to my face but always said stuff about me behind my back . we got into a fight that lasted about 2 months then she said she wants to be friends agian . my mom told me not to be friends with her becaause of waht she does because shes a back stabber! anways.. im sick of her doing that because she is only mean to me when shes with her friend and she will start fights with me . today [ like 10 minutes ago ] i gave her a piece of my mind and told her that she hurt me and what she does . ik what i did was right. idk what im relaly asking just i needed to tell that to someone . sorry♥

I dont think that you should be friends with someone you would treat you like that. Dont be friends with her. cuz all she'll do is stab you in the back(again)!

~Lucky

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