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heyy guys -- everyone calls me jazzy
so i guess u can say thats my name :)
thats pretty much all you need to kno
& the pic on the left is *Lloyd Banks*
i think hes the hottest man alive..

advice

Is there anyway to block certain users from giving me advice to my questions? This has been a problem for me because a few people keep on giving me really bad advice and i am wasting my time reading it.

umm im not sure but i guess you can just not read it? go to help on the top of the ADVICENATORS! sign and it might be on there? but idk just dont read it if you think its stupid x0ox

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If it matters, I'm seventeen, and a girl.
Okay, so I've been really close with this friend of mine for about two years. Then all of a sudden, she decided she was too good for me. She dwells in every issue she has until she makes herself depressed. She's getting all "emo", for another thing, and pushing EVERYONE away, except our mutual friend, who happens to be a guy.
Now, she even admitted to him that she had a crush on him for awhile, but she "got over it". Somehow, I don't think she did. We're in a choral group and she always manages to position herself next to him, which bothers me - not because I like him - because I'm used to hearing his part in my ear. I'm used to listening to him. We always used to practice together for concerts, we sit next to each other in choir because we blend, and all that.
Anyway, so the main issue I have is, what do I say to her, if anything? She suddenly decided she was too good for everyone except one guy - oh, and her "college friends" which are her only "real" friends. Most of my friends are in college, and I still don't act like that.
I almost want to confront her about her pompous attitude, and about her supposed crush on our friend, but it would make everything awkward, I know.
What would you all do in this situation? I'm just curious.
I rate ones for stupidity and fours for bad grammar and spelling. =)
Thank ya for your opinions.

umm well I think she just thinks shes better then everyone else..and since her friends are in college she wants to act "mature" and might not laugh at the things she used to and stuff like that..its almost like her college friends are taking over her life or something..and as for this guy don't let that interfere because then she'll say you're jelause and stuff..just stick to the college thing and her new point of view in your friendship.. x0ox

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I am a tennis player and i play everyday except friday(sometimes) and I am on my school tennis team.. but my shoulder has been killing me!.. If I hit hard it pops.. and when I put my hand on it and move it I can feel my bones rubbing together!.. what is it?.. Is it serious?.. Are there anythings that may help the pain?

umm you might have dislocated your shoulder..you should definitly go to a doctor immediatly! have it checked out and tylonel or asprin i think are pain killers---but still you should go to a doctor *HoPe I HeLpEd RaTe mE!* x0ox

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HELP! Im going to Florida in 2 days and i dont know what to pack!! Is it REALLY warm? Like what should I pack to go to Disney World ..has it been raining alot lately? Should I pack a pair of jeans? please be specific im going for 4 days - Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday. Thanks!

clothes-
pants ( 1 or 2 pairs) (just in case!!)
shorts ( PLENTY!!! )
bathing suits (PLENTY)
tangtops ( plenty )
t-shirts ( plenty )
sweat shirt ( 1.. (just in case)

shoes-

sneakers
flip flops

----- i beleive your all set! if u want specifications get back to me!!

* hOpE i HElPeD *

x0ox

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i just started straightening my hair and when i straighten it its always frizzy and doesnt stay straight..i always see ppl with perfect straight silky hair and i wanna know how to get mine like that. please help!

well some people (like myself) have naturally straight hair and thats why its so silky
--but
the problem might be with your straightener..is it old? does it not produce enough heat? or your hair just sint good for straightening..:(

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is it safe to try inserting a tampon if you dont hae your period? (just for practice)

yea im pretty sure it is x0ox

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It's my new roommates birthday tomorrow. She's going to turn 23, and she's been living with us for the past 2 months. She rents out a room in our house and goes to school in San Francisco. My mother, her and I have become really close and it feels like she's just like a sister to me now. We are going out to dinner tomorrow for her birthday because she has no family that lives around here. I have no idea what an appropriate gift could be to get her. I was thinking maybe I could make her a simple card or something. Any ideas? Thanks!

i think a simple card wouldnt be enough
why not get her a cute skirt or shirt? or a nice purse if shes into those kind of things..or if shes really serious about her schoolwork why not get her a nice new leather organizer ( u know with a calender, places forpens and stuff like that)*hOpE i HElPeD!!* xOox

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everyone keeps tellin me i don't need to lose weight but i still feel i need to. does anyone know of someway to find average weight for height?

how tall are you? ill help u if i kno ur height xOox

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ok so i was being really stupid but i was talking on the phone and trying to straighten my hair at the same time when i accidentally burnt myself right below my chin!! it looks so bad, so does anyone know how to cover it up or get it not to scar!! please help!


scars-
in some cases burns do scar :(..but i doubt yours will because its just a straightner :) but there are many creams that will make it invisible if it does scar..

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you can use coverup..but make sure its the same color as your skin other wise it will look ridiculous..go to JCpenny..they offer free make overs..and if your not into that then just go over there and ask them which cover-up/concealer will look best for your situation

*hope i helped*

xOox

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Im feeling sorda guilty....


There are 14 girls trying out for cheerleading and 12 make it, i know i am going to make it because some of the girls who are doing it cant to crap, anyways i feel like its more handed to me then me working for it... Should i feel guilty? I mean i feel realy bad....

haha oh sorry.. well in that case you definitly shouldnt feel bad..some people just arnt cut out for athletic stuff..your so good you dont even have to try out to make it.. its more of a compliment actually and if you spend most of your life you wouldnt be making your self happy and after all it is your life.. u know? just brush it off and dont feel bad because you got skills :)! x0ox

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16/f--I don't have BAD acne, but I have little red bumps on my face (I wash my face twice a day, but I just somehow still get little pimples). As I said, its not that bad and its nothing makeup can't fix. I've been using two different kinds of face makeup (liquid stuff and powder stuff), but I just ran out. I don't want to use the same stuff, but I'm not sure what to use. I'm not that experienced with types of makeup and what they do. Whats the difference between concealer, foundation, compact, and any other face makeup, and what exactly do they do?

Thank you.

one of the reasons why you might be getting these red bumps is because your concealers and foundations and blush and coverup and everything else you put on your face isnt reacting right.. ( you might be allergic to it ) powder and concealers and everything else your using isnt healthy for your skin.. try this: go for a week without putting any concealer or cover up on that you normally do..just wash your face regularly (with cold water, hot water will irritate it) and see the results! hope i helped *add me to your friends list and let me know how it goes* XoOx

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Well ... dont know exactly what this would be... but I get really run down sometimes. Just between school, friends, and all sorts of varied stress. It's like it's too much. I think it's mainly while everyone has there little love lifes, I like someone who lives like 1000 miles away. Wouldnt work, and cant work. We don't talk because we just got out of touch. I did try calling him .. but he was very suprised by my call. I dont know if hes shy or what but he didnt call back. Yeah it may sound like he doesnt care about me... but the times when I visited where he lived, he was really friendly. Like if he hated me, he wouldnt have acted the awsome way he did. Im not saying he LOVES me I just know he considered me AT least a friend. And... lately everything I do isn't working. Idk ... my friends are very fair weather. A lot of change is going on. What do I do? [ ps, tried journals...poetry... they help some but they aren't a cure ]

i understand how you feel..your probably a teenager right? it might just be your hormones or something like that..like you feel out of place and dont understand why you were put on this earth? dont feel bad..because your definitly not the only one..i myself wonder these same thoughts..but dont stess about it (even tho its difficult not too) just think happy thoughts and get in as much fun as you can with your friends and family..im no doctor but if you have fun and not think about that then you most likley wont be wondering these thoughts anymore..keep your head up and dont think your alone in this .. XoOx

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When ever I like a guy.. they like me a lill bit and then they just like 1 of my BFF.. I am popular in my school and have a bunch of friends! but why is it whenever me n a guy start to get to know each other.. oneof my friend comes along n he starts to like her? is there anything I can do to keep a guy hooked? n to stay likeing me?

Sincerely,
Confused Lover

well i think you should do what your friends are doing to steal him..dress sexier and noticable and do something different that your friends wouldnt think of..think of it as a competition and if your friends are purposely stealing your man then tell the bitch off and make it clear you saw him- you get him..:) xox

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okay..this is going to be long, but i really need help. Ok, my (old) best friend is bipolar. She is really a hard-to-handle person. I dont know what to do cuz lately weve been getting into fights because im so sick of her bitchy-ness. I have no clue on what to do with her, shes like, starting stuff with her one other friend (cuz thats all she has) with me, so now were fighting too. This girl also walks around and shes all quiet and she thinks shes ugly and EVERYONE is out to get her-when really nobody knows her. If she were louder and had more friends-i think shed be happier. What should i do? PLEASE HELPP!!

tell her how you feel..your not fixing the problem by sitting there and wondering what to do just tell her how you feel and if she gets mad over something as stupid as that then you shouldnt want her as a friend anyways..try to be nice about it though and be gentle about the sitatuon bipolar people are hard to deal with just be sensitive..xOx

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Keenan was an 8th grader last year and i was a 7ie. We were good friends and were both really good singers. Anyway, this year he is in 9th now. Well i had to do a solo for a choir concert so i asked him if he would do a song with me. We got permission from my director and started to practice. Now that the song has progressed i think im starting to like him. He is the sweetest thing in the world. The problem is i wont be going to his school for another 4 months. I really like him and i think he likes me. My question...... should i risk telling him how i feel?
thnx!

if you think he likes you then go for it.. i mean 4 months isnt alot anyways and who says you have to be in the same school to have a good relationship? if your able to see each other every now and then..u should go for it because your only gonna get so many chances in life and taking chances is important because if you dont your always gonna end up wondering how thinks coulda/should/ or woulda been with keenan..add me to your friends and let me kno how it goes! xOx

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i dont really no what category this should be under,but anyways...

My legs are sort of sensitive and get dry a lot,does anyone no what shaving cream that would pervent dry legs?

umm im not srue about shaving creams but after you shower put lotion (preferably coco butter) but anything will do..that will keep them soft and not dry..you should put around your whole body because it will make it much softer..hope i helped xOx

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Do u no what you do at prom? I heard something about prom that theres a grand march. What is that? Do u no what goes on during the dance? Like is there alot of fast dancing? or mostly slow dancing?

ummm my semi formal is coming up..and im feeling the same way! lol but i highly doubt that theres ognna be any heavy metal or rap because its supposed to be sophisticated so i think most of the songs will be slow or medium..have fun xOx

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I have just came back to school after my 2 weeks off and these girls are pushing me around and calling me names, they only ever stop when my friends are there im not fat nd spotty im just small is there a crime in being small?? caz i feel lke dere iz... and soon my m8s are all going on a holiday to france wiv the skool and we didnt have enought money as my mam and dad have just split up, plz help me i am down and depressed :(!

aww dont worry about..it will pass i have no advice exept keeping your head up dont midn them i mean you being small obviously effected their lives just by your existence..thats pretty sad how they care so much about somethign that has nothing to do with them..dont worry about it just have fun cuz you have one life and you shouldnt waste it like they are xOx

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there is this girl named Courtney and she as a crush on my boyfriend. Well he has track with her and sits with her at lunch sometimes. Well she knows me and him are going out and she flirted with him right infront of me yesterday and then has the nerve to talk shit about me and give me dirty looks! Well me and her got into it but it was only words being said. My boyfriend yelled at me for yelling at her! He said that if I hit her at all that me and him are done! We I don't know what I should do.. its complicated! Please help!

.: Miss Confused :.

say to your boyfriend..

WHY DO YOU CARE IF I HIT HER OR NOT? OR EVEN IF I HAVE OSMETHIGN TO SAY ABOUT IT.. WHY SHOULDNT I? YOUR MY BOYFRIEND ARNT YOU? WHY DONT YOU JUST GO OUT WITH HER IF YOU CARE SO MUCH ABOUT HER THEN?!?!

---or something along those lines..lol just make it clear how you feel because if ask me courtney is a bitch and your boyfriend..hes a jerkk BIG TIME

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you can play his game too! get with some boy and flirt with him in front of your boyfriend..see how he reacts if he gets mad that means he cares! ( thats a good thing ) if he doesnt..just keep your eyes open the right guy will come along

* ADD ME TO YOUR FRIENDS LIST AND LET ME KNOW
HOW IT GOES!! *

xOx

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i skipped all of my workout classes for the past month cause i've been sick. yesterday i came back, worked out SO hard, now my muscles are so sore that i could hardly get out of the bed. i want to know what is the best thing to do (esp. for my legs, they hurt so bad)...

a) rest for the next couple days and do nothing until they feel better
b) keep working the muscles, continue running and conditioning today
c) stretch them?... or what, i dunno.

only answer if you know what youre talking about. thanks

B and C

before you do any workouts make sure your stretched out well..your gonnna pull a muscle if you dont stretch them out..the reason that they are so sore is because they havent been active like before..dont be worried the pain will go away once you get back to your regular workout schedule -- r a t e * m e -- xOx

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