I smile,laugh,love,and live in the moment. I don't think lifes worth wasteing on a boring day. I am happy and with who I am. lifes about friends who hold on to you,the people who you love and return it. I don't believe in changing for anyone, i can say that everything happens for a reason and if its not a good ending,then its not over. I Love music, and interested in anything to do with style,makeup,and fashion. I also love heroes, south park, and family guy :]. I'm done with the fake people,i've basically dropped all who never cared. and i'm actually happy,i feel so much better ! I've been through it,the friends,family,and the whole finding yourself. And i think Marylous Coffee is bomb.I have the most amazing friends; and i'm so lucky to have those crazy bitches >:}.I'm obbsessed with Harry Potter
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I really want to get my eyebrow pierced but I am worried.
What do you think about a guy who has an eyebrow piercing? Hot? Not? Gross? Nothing? Anything?
Oh and if a guy gets his eyebrow pierced which one should it be? Does it even matter which one?
Thank you ladies!
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That girl below me is crazy! Hah just kiddin ;P, but really, it depends on if it looks good on YOU individually. If you like it, then everyone else will too, girl-wise. If you want it do it,point blank. I personally love piercings and think they're wicked fuckin' hot. :). Side doesn't matter,which ever one looks better. Only thing is take real consideration into if you want it,because it your going to get sick of it within a few months it could leave a scar =[. My vote is yes if you can pull it off, which most people can for this kinda' piercing. =] peace love &happinesssss !
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Growing up I've also been an outcast. I've never really made friends. I don't even think I really have a close bond with my mother, who raised me by herself. I've had one boyfriend before but things never sparked for either of us so we moved on after a couple of months of trying. I don't want to be alone all of my life but I can't seem to be a match for anyone. It's really depressing but I'm pretty use to being alone.
My question is pretty simple, I think...
Does everyone find love?
I'm 26 and have never found love. Did it pass me by? Will I be alone forever? (link)
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I know where your coming from, with the whole distant situation. I'm actually a very distant person myself, because I sometimes feel, Why do people care? Why waste their time on me? I'm not good enough to love,am I? And these are the reasons I've been alone for so long. I've finally come to realize, if you don't believe in yourself and that you are able to be loved, then you never will find what you're looking for. You need to expose yourself but be happy with yourself all at the same time. It's hard to let people in, I know- you've built up so much fear and walls and for what? What reason do you really need to have all this armor protecting you? If you never give in and trust someone, you'll never know pain-But in reality, wouldn't you rather feeling something than never knowing? It's time for you to stop resisting things and just go crazy. Really, do everything you want, say what you want, no matter what it is. Even if it's your deepest feelings, tell someone, don't be afraid of release. Think of it as- its not that you haven't found the one that your looking for, its just- you've found all the ones your NOT looking for. You will be alone forever if you believe you cannot be loved, and if you keep your walls up. You must change, be happy with yourself and love yourself before you love someone else. Stay confident! Confidence is a very attracting aspect in someone, so smiling and confidently doing something you want to do will really put you out there.
Does everyone find love? This question I don't think I'll ever be able to answer. See, I have found love, but I didn't decide to act on it because of my fear of trust, and it was lost. Doing that a countless amount of times has taught me what I'm now telling you.Maybe it's really that Love finds Us,perhaps? In that case, be yourself,meet more people gradually over time,and if it works out it will-if not,it's something you can learn from and grow,experience and move on. My grandma recently found love again, and she's 76! It's never,ever too late for love :). There's many different forms of love, and I have to disagree with the person who first answered this question- sometimes people DO have more than one love of their life. Though,I can't say I've had more than one myself. If you see something,take it.Never miss a chance, and make your own chances. Lately that's the rule of the game,right? Anyway,(sorry for my rambling-I actually have a lot in my head right now about this subject :P) The main thing I'm getting at is if you believe in love,and project yourself out there into the dating world, you will find it. But you're main priority is to be happy regardless. :) Hope I helped and good luck!
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What is the difference between loners and nerds? I don't really know which one this boy i like could be and i don't wanna offend him or something. Can anyone explain? (link)
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There is no difference between a loner and a nerd, a nerd and a jock, a jock and a rocker-a so on and so forth.We all know the labels.But everyone is who they are- they have a little bit of everything inside of them. Labels these days don't make too much sense, actually they never really did. If you like this boy you shouldn't worry about what he is, and I'm not trying to lecture you or anything at all. I'm just saying,who cares what he is? You'll see he's probably a lot more than just these two categories- which I bet you already know. Point is, there's no point in wondering simply because it's impossible to figure out who someone is just by looking at them.We all have too many different dimensions.Anyway I hope all works out with this boy and you two hit it off !
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My boyfriend has genital herpes and we have had sex a few times over the past six months. We're always really safe and use a condom each time. I haven't really worried about catching it but two days ago part of my vagina was weird and like inflamed. It was uncomfortable. I checked it out better with a mirror and it looks like his herpes only on me down there. I thought condoms protect you from STDs but now it looks like maybe they don't for me? What do you think? Is it herpes? (link)
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no condom is fool-proof,and from what I hear it does sound like there's a good chance you have what your boyfriend has. I really can't say if it is herpes or not, because I have no idea what they look like or any of the matter. It could be just irritation from something else-lets hope! Did you have sex about two days ago,then see it? Or has it been awhile since you had sex?Maybe because you've been with him for so long,it started to develop? I'd do my research on this, and I know this sucks to hear but you really should see a specialist for this matter.Maybe you could even ask your boyfriend about it-and go to the specialist together.I'm sorry I can't really be of any help,but I hope for the best for you and good luck!
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One of my close friends turns 18 in a month and plans on moving out. He's had a lot of family drama and wants to get away. I don't blame him for wanting to live somewhere else but I am afraid he is going to ruin his relationship with his whole family by making this decision. There are pros and cons that are too deep to get into, but I guess what I really need to know is, how can I be there for him? (link)
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As long as you're generally just there for him,then that's all you really can do. Be there for him to cheer him up, give him an escape from his family for a little while.Just you being with him,and him being with close friends, will make him feel like he has an entirely different kind of family, the family that isn't blood related-but sometimes much deeper. Whether we like it or not, family stays with us forever. Getting away from the family can sometimes,more often then not, give you a stronger bond with them. Living in the same house as every one knows can make you nitpick at what every person does. I don't know his situation or what has happened, but I do know that when my sister moved out for the same reason, we actually all got along a lot better. She and my mom didn't get along at all,and now they talk on the phone every night. It's a deep wound that heals over time, but it does heal non the less. Him and his family will come out stronger in the end. You can tell him all of this, reassure that you'll always be there. Just make sure he knows where it is he'll be going and if he can make it on his own- that would be the only problem I can really think of,but if he can make it, so be it. Everyone's got to leave sometime anyway. I feel like I'm talking too much :P I hope I helped in some small way- good luck to you and your friend!
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awww that is true...well i thought it was only my mom..at least i know i got soemone here to talk to. (link)
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Ahaha, not a problem at all,always here :). (no need to rate this,haha :P) Just as long as you're happy,then i'm happy for you!
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awww thank you so much.that helped me adn it touched me down in my heart...the only bad thing is that i have no friends and the friends i have they dont like going out and when i call them they dont even pick up the phone..my mom is not so nice and i dont like talking to her about my problems.she will just start laughing or just say ok. i have nobody to talk to only this site. and also there is no job availabe.my ex he was the only one that was always there for me and now i have nobody...my heart is just broken. (link)
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See,most people feel like having nobody is the worst, but its actually a good way to change who you are in the process of making new friends. When you got nothin' you got nothin' to loose,you know? Go out and do whatever you want, and don't be afraid to do somethings alone and be friendly to people. I've also learned to never hold so much trust in a person that when they leave your left with nothing.But now that you can rebuild yourself- your starting from scratch. You have a clean slate and a new year to become WHATEVER you want! And do,whatever you want! If your positive,people will gravitate to you =]. Stay happy and enjoy yourself,and soon people will enjoy your company.My family is distant from me as well, mom's got the same personality as yours, but that's what made me realize all of this. I thought,well hay, i'm on my own and independent, i don't have to rely on her to become something. You just need the drive to get back all that you've lost and replace it with new and better things! Focus on something you want and don't stop until you get it,and when you do,move on to your next goal. Just keep going :)
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true! well my boyfriend cheeted on me :( after having 2 yrs and 2 months with him...i feel debasteded..i try and try to forget about him but is no help :( (link)
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Sometimes bad things happen,but down the line and looking back, you realize if it hadn't you wouldn't be in a better place than you are now. But the choice is yours to put yourself in a better place and situation than this one. You could sit there for hours wondering why and where things went wrong, and it just wouldn't make any difference but hurt your mentality even more. This may sound bad, but how do you know he hasn't cheated more than once? Your boyfriend probably isn't all he's made out to be. Think about it, you have this whole time to find the person you truly love- a whole life! We rush into things too fast, we stay in bad situations way too long. Don't become one of those people that accept a cheating heart- would they expect one from you? If you focus on your GOALS in life, what you want to be, career-small goals- anything to keep you moving on. You'll find the place where you belong. And someone will be by your side, someone new who shares the same interests and respects you. It's hard to disconnect yourself from someone who's made such a big spot for themselves in you heart. But now that he's gone,instead of thinking of the empty space as a bad thing- fill it with things you really love( what you love to do, your family,your friends, a job, hobbies) First recover from your past, let it go. Think of the future, the New Year! It's coming up so fast, and it's going to be so good for you! Let loose and have fun,life's too short to dwell on the past. You can move on.
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if your boyfriend cheets on you what will you do? (link)
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dump him,because i'm the type of person who doesnt like to share. But of course, if you're less greedy than i, and like threesomes, maybe you could work something out. I wouldn't advise it though.
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Hey everyone. I was wondering if anyone knew what's a good hair dye that lasts up to 6 weeks, without fading alot. I wanted like a blue or purple, but I have dark hair. Some people reccommend manic panic ? But any answers would help, thanks :D (link)
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All unnatural veggie-based hair dye is going to fade immensely within a 6 week period, if its your first time doing it(sadly). If you have dark hair you'll have to bleach it. But don't worry, if you're hair is virgin,as in you you've never dyed your hair before/or your hair is natural, bleaching it won't be a big deal. After you do that you'll be left with this odd orangey-color.The brighter you want the color to show in your hair-the lighter you'll want your hair to be before you dye it(which might mean bleaching it more than just once). But since you only want purple or blue in your hair, this orangey color will be fine to dye over. Manic Panic is a good hair dye, but I find more people are fond of a brand called Special Effects. They have awesome colors that really stay! Check 'em out, and to make color stay longer, some people like to put a little bit of the dye in they're shampoo every once in awhile to give it a boost. Sorry if you already knew this or i told you some totally unnecessary stuff, but i hope i helped some :)! Good luck, happy dyeing, happy holidays!
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So, i'm 17, a guy...theres this girl that i really like, but im not sure if she likes me. She goes to a different school, but we text all the time, and i visit her at work sometimes, and we hang out on the weekends. I know she used to like me, but she stopped. now, i dont know...like, i know some of those "signs" and i notice them sometimes, like she smiles a lot around me and we flirt and whatnot, but sometimes i just get the vibe that we're just friends. now the other day, i was driving her home, and we were "fighting" over the radio (you know, we weren't actually arguing or fighting.) and anyway, in order to stop me from changing the station, she held my hand. and she did so, almost the entire way to her house. so basically, i just want your opinion on this situation, and if i were to ask her out, what's a way to do it other than, "will you go out with me..." i absolutely hate that, haha. (link)
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I applaud you, it takes a lot of courage to even just THINK about asking someone out ! Kudos,really, most guys in this situation wouldn't be at this stage right now :]. So now that you guys've clearly been flirting, it's time to take the flirting to more extreme. Not like touchy-feely extreme,haha XD, as in- more DIRECT flirting. Telling her things you like about her, genuinely. Being more hands on. See- us girls, we never know what we want- and most of the time its because WE don't know what YOU want! Something you could say to her to get more into serious is when you're having an awesome and fun moment be like "See!This is why we're perfect for each other :P" or something along those lines. You could be like "Unscramble these words! me out go with you will ? :P " That's a fun way,because it'll make her think and when she figures it out it'll be a surprise :]. No girl would just hold your hand the whole car ride with out thinking more of you than just buds,and since you know her by now, you should know better :P! Don't ever doubt yourself! Another flirty thing would be is if you were listening to the radio and a cute song comes on be like "haha,this reminds me of you !" Stuff like that,to make her feel special :}
Well i hope i helped and good luck getting your little lady friend!
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This is more of an opinion question I guess, but I have NEVER met a guy that is gorgeous but doesn't know it. I've met a few girls that are really pretty and they are confident and stuff, but theyre not conceited and they dont really realize HOW pretty they are. I just wonder if there are any guys out there like that. It just seems that all the guys that are gorgeous are all into themselves and KNOW they look good. It's different from confidence its self-interest. So I was wondering, do you guys think there are any guys out there that are gorgeous but dont really realize it? (link)
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I think for guys, the "don't know it" part- is really that they don't care about their looks. They're probably the type of guy who's more interested in having a good time(not in that way, just in general, a good time-with friends and such :P) Rather,they probably base their opinions off of personality. Theirs a lot of different personalities out there for anyone, so there's bound to be a drop-dead-sexy man who doesn't even realize it, for many different reasons.It's really your background that you base yourself on.Say for example,if anyone has a lot on their mind and a lot to deal with in life-their looks would be the last thing on their list,you know? As apposed to the guy who knows he's gorgeous, has probably gotten a lot of praise. Others could just be humble with the compliments they get and don't put themselves on some high pedestal because of it. Some guys just aren't interested in themselves in that way-they don't connect their looks with who they are. That,to me,is a really rare find xD! They're out there,you probably don't even notice it-because you know us girls- tend to only notice the over indulgent men that we "can't have but want" type-scenario. Just look around ;). Well,that's my take on this! hope i helped :P
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Uhm, this is weird... but what are some song about drugs?
Like, for example.
"We are all on drugs" -Weezer
"Smoke it" -The Dandy Warhols
"I Take Drugs" -Murderdolls
"Bucket Bong" -Frenzal Rhomb.
Yeah, don't ask why.
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i really don't have much after all the answers xD. But one that wasn't mentioned was 4-2-0 by Kottonmouth Kings.. actually! Anything by them is about drugs. also check out "munchies". hahah hope i helped :P
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Okay so this girl has been my best friend for like seven years (we're freshman in highschool) and I love her to death but there is this one thing that bothers me SOO much about her. She is actually like really really pretty but she knows this and she also thinks she's like really really hot. And it is so annoying. She's a little slutty... She doesn't have a big butt at all but she buys pants that are crazy tight and then goes around like "oh my god my butt is so big!" and for some reason it bothers me so much. And she also has like the same exact size boobs as me. Like really, I've seen her cup size... it's the same as mine. But she's always like "I'm sorry (my name) but you have like no boobs" or she's like "Here's one of my old sports bras, you can just have it cuz it's too small for me. and you have like nothing there so..." even though I constantly remind her that we have to same size. And I would never say it but I always have the urge to say "Okay. We have the same cup size, you just wouldnt be able to tell because I don't dress like a slut and let the everyone see mine :)" I know... it's really mean but it really bothers me. And I don't want to get all sappy and be like "It hurts my feelings when you make comments like that" cuz then its me admitting that im insecure about it. I just don't know how to handle her right now! I love her so much and not being friends with her is NOT an option I just don't know how to work through this. Plus, she's a total flirt. She flirts extremely with every boy she's around. Whether it be somebody's boyfriend or the guy I like and she doesn't get it when I tell her that people kind of hate her when she does that and that it bbothers me too. What can I do?? I don't know how to handle her. (link)
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It sounds to me like she wants you to feel insecure about yourself, for some reason. A lot of people like to put themselves up on this high place in life by putting people down, you just have to focus on making sure she knows it doesn't effect you. Example : Her : "Oh MAH,GAAWD. I look SOO much better than you today!" - She compares herself to you because she's actually insecure and needs to assure herself she looks good, when in reality she comes off trashy. These actions also shows she's probably jealous of some of your attributes, but covers it up with insults. The best thing to say to her for this situation would be "Yeah,Well i don't care, i like myself the way i am :}" This shows she can't effect you, and it'll take her aback- because deep down she probably doesn't like herself for who she is. And saying this doesn't come off as being rude or mean. Or you can say "How about we agree to disagree on that one?" This shows you have the upper hand and she can't decide who YOU are,you do. So, along with all this its no surprise to me that she's a flirt. But you know,with her clothing choice she's only attracting dogs that think they'll "get some". In that case, if a guy takes interest in her- you know he might not be that great for you; (if you're looking for a relationship). She'll probably grow out of this stage,but for now..buy her a sweatshirt XD. Just kiddin', but honestly, if she is acting flirty and what not, just walk away from the situation. If she asks why you left, just be like "you know i love you but i'm worried your attracting the wrong guys" You guys have been friends forever, she should understand. Besides, this makes you seem like you care for her safety, even if you don't :P, though I'm betting you do. Well that's my take on this! Hope i helped some :}
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so there is this guy, he only wants me because i almost grinded on him. I'm only seventeen, and I know that i'm not supposed to take any relationships at this age too seriously or anything like that....its just basically about dating a lot of guys and getting to know what i really like and don't like, and just having fun. He is hot, but he is a player. Should i let him in? or should i not? or should i just let him in and just have fun without taking anything too seriously? (link)
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Well, if its only fun you want i don't see why you shouldn't go for it :P! But, if your looking for a relationship or someone who's going to care for you,he's not the guy you want to go for(obviously). It'll leave you hurt in the long run,because all these guys want is to do things with you and then move on to the next girl. Make sure if you do go for him though, to not develop any feelings. Most likely to him, your just someone on his "to-do" list- (if you do let him in; tease the f#%@ out of him :P) I wouldn't go for this guy though, because players are only after one thing. And once they get it, they move on. So in the long run, you won't really find out what kind of guy you like by just doing stuff with someone :P! What I would do is flirt around with some guys you may be interested in, and see which one you really click with. Make relationships, not just hookups, you know ? Unless- you want that, in this case,more specifically a no-strings-attached case, go for it! Your doubt seems to me as if you don't want this though :P (i'm not the person to do this kind of thing either) It'd be best to stay clear of those guys any ways. I mean, who likes a cocky guy who thinks he can get any girl? Just ridiculous! Point is, if its a more serious relationship you want don't settle for anything less! Who cares if you're 17, there shouldn't be an age limit for serious relationships if you want one, you know?! Get out into the dating world and see where you go from there :D! hope i helped!
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ok so i like this boy in my class. he, in my class is the authority figure (student wise) so he needs to talk to everyone and have good communication with everyone. he talks to everyone and goofs around with.. everybody.. except with me he's so shy. he looks at me alot, we make tons of eye contact and the cute thing is, he lets me look away first. i really like him, he's sweet and kind to everyone. when we do talk, it's little bits of conversations, we'll talk and we'll smile and laugh. my friend says he likes me because when im not looking at him he looks at me and gives me "the look" i have yet to figure out what that is but she said he looks at me like im the most important girl in his life. do you think he likes me? if he does, why doesn't he talk to me as much as everyone else? (link)
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A guy could be the most confident guy in the world to everyone,but sometimes, when it's with a person he likes, his vulnerability shines through. What I mean is, he could be so into you, that he looses confidence within himself with out knowing it. Then, he neglects talking to you because he doesn't want you to see him with out his confident stature that he usually has. Basically he's shy around you because he most likely likes you- he just doesn't know how to go about talking to you. In this case, if you want to make anything out of it, you should be the one to make the first move :D! Smile or say hi to him next time, or if he's over with friends that you know, go up to one of them and then start a conversation with all of them together. This'll make it easier on the both of you. Next time you talk,after the conversation be like "Wow, you must have just about every ones number in the class but mine! *write down on paper your number and give it to him* Text me sometime :)!" and if you have his number,text him. You just need to move your friendship from "school friends" to closer friends, that talk outside school, you know? Don't be afraid to take the first step, you never know what might come out of this ! Even if he's just a good friend, hay, nothings wrong with that! Take it slow and give it time, see what happens :) Hope i helped!
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So, I'm in college and yesterday I turned 19. I was hanging out in the library between classes and this girl that I've been talking to came in and sat near me. We talked a little, and before I left I finally asked her out on a date (set for Friday). She said yes and I was really happy. I thought it was like a birthday present from God or something cheesy.
So, today (the day after my birthday, obviously) I go on my Facebook. I see that she has sent me a message about how she only wants to be friends with me and didn't mean to give me the wrong impression. I feel like I couldn't get a girlfriend to save my life though. I've never had one and have never even kissed a girl. I'm sure it sounds pathetic.
If you're a nice guy who girls don't like because your nice, how can you change that? What am I doing wrong? (link)
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Honestly i don't know why most girls like the "bad boys"! I always ask my friends this and they say they just like the idea of it. But the idea of the person isn't all to the person. In my opinion, nice guys are amazing. I love them! haha, Anywho. Do you have confidence in yourself? Maybe you could try revamping your look a little, and do what makes you happy. When I see a guy who's driven to become something and is confident in who he is,then that shows the guys real boyfriend material. Your doing everything right, you just need some extra push to get you out into the dating world. It's this blind image some girls have,that the bad boy is the better guy(girls like risk and stuff, but who says nice guys can't be risky,ey? XD) Well,it really doesn't matter what you are, as long as your happy and confident with who you are. Just keep thinking there's someone for everyone. Trust me, tons of girls love nice guys ! Someone will come along, or you know what? Why don't you try making the move first ;)? Even if its just a smile or a "hey" to a girl who catches your eye in the hall! Just try it, make small changes. Don't just try to find a girl, you want to get to know them and connect with them,obviously. If theres a spark you'll know and if not, then they're missing out,don't beat yourself up over it. But really, the first step is to talk to them! You're not pathetic, your probably just a guy who beats himself up over the little things XD. Let loose and have fun, if someone comes to join you on the way then thats perfect! If not, well, at least your having fun :P. All in time, you'll find the person you've been waiting for. Anyways i feel like I'm rambling..like I always do ! Happy belated birthday by the way! hope I helped :]
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Could you please decide the perfect guy in your eyes? Any and all details would be appreciated. I'm trying to help my best guy friend improve himself and get the girl of his dreams but he needs a lot of work. I need other thoughts from other girls so I can figure out what are the most wanted and liked traits in guys. He said he was up for anything including cutting his hair, growing it out, dying it, gaining or losing weight and/or muscle, and anything that he will have to change to his personality. He wants to be a new guy and I want to help him! Thoughts, please?
OH and by the way he is 16 right now almost 17. (link)
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I think its awesome that he wants to change and be a more confident person, but i believe he should really be doing this for himself. Think about it, not every girl is going to like just one type of guy! It all just depends on generally who you are. Honestly, for me,i just like a guy who's confident to be himself. I usually gravitate to guys that are just crazy and funny, or artistic and deep. All 4 of those, and it's perfection. But really, when am i ever going to find those traits all at once?
And even so if i do, how do i know that's what I'm really looking for? You know? In truth no one ever really knows what they want,because people are unpredictable with there actions XD. One day they could hate cocky guys, then date a sensitive guy,now alls they want is for someone to boss them around XD. Its more about accepting someone- goods and bads. Everyone has different circumstances. Some girls love shy guys, others go wild for the confident ones. What he should be doing is just getting to know and meeting new girls, and if there's a spark its there, but if not then move on! Give him a new look that looks awesome on him, something that will reflect who he is as a person!Ask him, "What do you want to look like? What do YOU want to be?" Because if he doesn't accept himself them no one will. Don't try to change him too much or he'll loose his self and end up really confused (I've been there, changing myself for a guy, only to backfire in the end).He's got to think "This is me, and if YOU don't like it, then so be it!" On the contrary if he wants to become a better person for himself, then helping him on that journey would be much more fulfilling! So point blank, i wish i could tell you what all girls like in men, but as you know we're all different! So what i would do is revamp his wardrobe and give him a hair cut, something that'll look great on him, make him look confident, and shows off who he is :P. Sorry if i'm scattered, i'm tired :O. I reaaally hope i helped though, because god knows i've been here before ! Hahah, good luck!
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sooo i love this guy who doesnt love me back but loves someone else. its killing me inside. how can i get over this? (link)
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Ah, don't we all know how that feels ! I'm trying to get over someone right now too. Don't worry,you're not alone XD! See, this guy probably isn't as great as you think he is! And if he can't accept you for who you are, he's most definitely not worth it! It'll take time. Keep saying to your self "he's just a friend" Detach yourself from him, don't look at his myspace,facebook, or anything like that. Don't look at his away messages, better yet, delete him from your list. Don't worry about him and what he thinks. Let space in, and whenever you think about him do something else to get your mind off him. Sing, dance, anything! Don't imagine yourself with him, block those thought out. Focus on yourself and what you want to be in YOUR life. You're independent! Who needs this guy? If he's just going to be a let down he's not worth your time. Write down ALL the things you like about him and why you liked him. Then take this piece of paper and burn it(somewhere safe..like your sink,then the unburned pieces can fall down the drain). Now after this write down what you're going to do for your next relationship and what you plan on doing more of (ex:I will watch what i say to make sure i'm not hurting him,I will be more open with my feelings ect.) LASTLY : FLIRT! Meet new guys, don't let this one guy hold you down!
Words of tupac:
"You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks,
even months over-analyzing a situation;
trying to put the pieces together, justifying what
could've, should've, would've, happened. Or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the f#%* on.."
Leave it for dead, move on.
Hope i helped XD!
xkisakissx
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Where do we go when we are dead? what happens? do we come back as something or someone else? if we are dead there is no point of living. Think about it for a long moment (it makes me feel wierd.) don't say no one knows... unless NO ONE does know. It doesn't matter what religion you are (im christian) but i don't go to church... i'm like no religion lol. (link)
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Honestly there are so many theories. One : You go to heaven or hell,or some kind of "limbo". Two: You get reincarnated, into something that reflects who you were as a person (so if you were an AWESOME person, woo! you get to be a horse. or something of that equivalence) Three: You just die, nothing but..you're gone from existence. And mixtures of all of these theories. (of course I'm not expert at any of them XD)
What I think is that, since energy is never destroyed but rather it is transferred- and matter can never be destroyed;but transformed- I'm thinking more along the lines of reincarnation.Think about it, this planet recycles everything its got, what makes souls different? Its proven souls have a mass, and that mass MUST go somewhere. So, to me, we either become a part of the earth or our souls are used and we come back in many different forms.That's my take on it,
...Or we could all just become zombies!
Hope I helped!
xkisakissx
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