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i like him.. does he like me?


Question Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 10:05 pm

ok so i like this boy in my class. he, in my class is the authority figure (student wise) so he needs to talk to everyone and have good communication with everyone. he talks to everyone and goofs around with.. everybody.. except with me he's so shy. he looks at me alot, we make tons of eye contact and the cute thing is, he lets me look away first. i really like him, he's sweet and kind to everyone. when we do talk, it's little bits of conversations, we'll talk and we'll smile and laugh. my friend says he likes me because when im not looking at him he looks at me and gives me "the look" i have yet to figure out what that is but she said he looks at me like im the most important girl in his life. do you think he likes me? if he does, why doesn't he talk to me as much as everyone else?

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WittyUsernameHere answered Tuesday October 20 2009, 9:03 am:
Because he's shy. You answered your own question.

Its time to flirt. Talk to him more. Smile at him. Make eye contact and let HIM look away first this time. And if he doesn't get the hint within a day or two, casually drop in "So I'm doing ALL this flirting with you and you still haven't asked me out yet!" and give him a few seconds to choke and sputter before smiling, telling him you're waiting whenever he's ready, and walking away.

Best effect, do this at the beginning of class, then spend the entire class torturing him with more smiles and eye contact.

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KisaKiss19 answered Friday October 16 2009, 6:52 pm:
A guy could be the most confident guy in the world to everyone,but sometimes, when it's with a person he likes, his vulnerability shines through. What I mean is, he could be so into you, that he looses confidence within himself with out knowing it. Then, he neglects talking to you because he doesn't want you to see him with out his confident stature that he usually has. Basically he's shy around you because he most likely likes you- he just doesn't know how to go about talking to you. In this case, if you want to make anything out of it, you should be the one to make the first move :D! Smile or say hi to him next time, or if he's over with friends that you know, go up to one of them and then start a conversation with all of them together. This'll make it easier on the both of you. Next time you talk,after the conversation be like "Wow, you must have just about every ones number in the class but mine! *write down on paper your number and give it to him* Text me sometime :)!" and if you have his number,text him. You just need to move your friendship from "school friends" to closer friends, that talk outside school, you know? Don't be afraid to take the first step, you never know what might come out of this ! Even if he's just a good friend, hay, nothings wrong with that! Take it slow and give it time, see what happens :) Hope i helped!

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SarahEJacobs answered Friday October 16 2009, 6:46 pm:
Hello;
Well for starters most guys are shy to express there feelings. Maybe you should express yours first and see how he reacts. Sometimes a guy wants a women/girl to approach them first;Have confidence. Tell him how you feel. The worst he can say is no.

-Hope I Helped;I Tried.
-->Sarah.

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