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There's always a girl....
So, i'm 17, a guy...theres this girl that i really like, but im not sure if she likes me. She goes to a different school, but we text all the time, and i visit her at work sometimes, and we hang out on the weekends. I know she used to like me, but she stopped. now, i dont know...like, i know some of those "signs" and i notice them sometimes, like she smiles a lot around me and we flirt and whatnot, but sometimes i just get the vibe that we're just friends. now the other day, i was driving her home, and we were "fighting" over the radio (you know, we weren't actually arguing or fighting.) and anyway, in order to stop me from changing the station, she held my hand. and she did so, almost the entire way to her house. so basically, i just want your opinion on this situation, and if i were to ask her out, what's a way to do it other than, "will you go out with me..." i absolutely hate that, haha.
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I applaud you, it takes a lot of courage to even just THINK about asking someone out ! Kudos,really, most guys in this situation wouldn't be at this stage right now :]. So now that you guys've clearly been flirting, it's time to take the flirting to more extreme. Not like touchy-feely extreme,haha XD, as in- more DIRECT flirting. Telling her things you like about her, genuinely. Being more hands on. See- us girls, we never know what we want- and most of the time its because WE don't know what YOU want! Something you could say to her to get more into serious is when you're having an awesome and fun moment be like "See!This is why we're perfect for each other :P" or something along those lines. You could be like "Unscramble these words! me out go with you will ? :P " That's a fun way,because it'll make her think and when she figures it out it'll be a surprise :]. No girl would just hold your hand the whole car ride with out thinking more of you than just buds,and since you know her by now, you should know better :P! Don't ever doubt yourself! Another flirty thing would be is if you were listening to the radio and a cute song comes on be like "haha,this reminds me of you !" Stuff like that,to make her feel special :}
Well i hope i helped and good luck getting your little lady friend!
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Yes the first bit of advice is right, but you need to no be so corny, and said, we should be together or i want you to be my girl, or can we be together? lots of options, but probs easier is, will you get with me or will you go out with me so its up to you?
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Hey,
So, theres this girl, she hangs out with you on weekends, texts you, and gives you signs. How exactly do you know that she stopped liking you? ;)
She is gaining your affection by flirting, smiling, and holding your hand.. It sounds as if she is definately trying to get your attention and make her feelings clear to you.
Sometimes when a person feels as if they are 'just friends' they are actually thinking 'I wish we could be more'. Yes, I think she is interested and I think you should go for it!
As for ways of asking her out, get her alone, that will help set a one on one mood. Look her in the eyes, always. Expecially if asking her face to face. You could slip her a hand written note in her pocket saying 'I love how you... (fill in the blank)' and if she questions it, you can say 'it is what keeps me attracted to you everyday'. You could send her her favorite candy and say 'I know it wont make you any sweeter, but I thought you might like it anyhow'. You could send her a special gift that she has been wanting and tell her 'just thinking about you... always'. You could be having a casual conversation and then say 'I think we should be more than friends'. You could hold her in your arms and whisper 'I want us to always be together', or if you want you could send her a key with a note saying 'to my heart'. There are many ways; find something she will appreciate and go with it. Let your heart tell her <3
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