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Question Posted Monday November 23 2009, 2:39 am

like im a 13 m and im in high school i like this girl right but im pretty sure she doesnt like but the thing is she like one of my best friend what should i do

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coconutcatastrophe answered Monday November 23 2009, 7:55 pm:
i think you should just stay friends for awhile, you guys are still kind of young so if you stay her friend for awhile there's a better chance of her developing feelings for you. you can flirt a little to get her reaction but don't make it completely obvious and creepy.

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Raindrops812a answered Monday November 23 2009, 12:33 pm:
hii(:
i think you should just try & stay friends for now.
when i told this guy (he was a good friend) that i fancy him he totally rejected me cause he still has feelings for his ex (which i knew, but i STILL had to take a chance)
& now we dont really speak at all anymore & everything is ruined.
just be friends with her & if youre lucky maybe she'll develope feelings for you too. if not then thats okai too & you'll have to move on but at least you'll get to keep her as a friend which is good(:

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the_unexpected answered Monday November 23 2009, 10:50 am:
If you think she doesn't like you but you really value your friendship, there is no reason to do anything to try to catalyze anything more than a platonic friendship. If you try to, and you get rejected, then you lose one of your best friends.

The best answer would be to try to get rid of your feelings and try to move on. I know that's not what you want to hear but that really is the best advice you can get right now.

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sia answered Monday November 23 2009, 5:54 am:
if you think that she doesnt like you then theres not point in keeping her from being happy.if she wants to be with your friend then let it happen.let it run naturally and if it doesnt work out for them then it doesnt and things will go back to normal but if oyu stand in their way then itll cause friction and theyll both hate you for it.just stand on the side and take it on the chin.try not to let it get to you because your going to find someone else that you think is amazing and thinks your amazing abck1 :)

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