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sooo i love this guy who doesnt love me back but loves someone else. its killing me inside. how can i get over this?
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i know how you feel, i would say a bucket of ice cream and candy but that only gives you calories
yeah but, maybe if you go out with friends do activitys or sports the movies anything positive that can get that person off you mind you should try anything that will keep you busy.
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*Sigh*...yeah, I think we've all been there at least once in our lives. I know it really really hurts and it sucks and you probably don't want to hear this, but... if he does love someone else, then it's most likely not going to work. Unfortunately, you can't make someone love you, and the best thing that you can do is to let yourself cry and talk to your friends or whoever to help you unload your emotions.
When I was in high school (about six years ago) I was totally in love with this guy that was also my best friend. He knew it, and even though I didn't see it happening at the time, he was leading me on. It took me forever to get over it because I always held out the hope that we'd be together. In the end, though, it didn't happen and I ended up passing over a lot of really good guys that I potentially could have hit it off with, but I didn't. Don't let the same thing happen to you. You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you, too!
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Ah, don't we all know how that feels ! I'm trying to get over someone right now too. Don't worry,you're not alone XD! See, this guy probably isn't as great as you think he is! And if he can't accept you for who you are, he's most definitely not worth it! It'll take time. Keep saying to your self "he's just a friend" Detach yourself from him, don't look at his myspace,facebook, or anything like that. Don't look at his away messages, better yet, delete him from your list. Don't worry about him and what he thinks. Let space in, and whenever you think about him do something else to get your mind off him. Sing, dance, anything! Don't imagine yourself with him, block those thought out. Focus on yourself and what you want to be in YOUR life. You're independent! Who needs this guy? If he's just going to be a let down he's not worth your time. Write down ALL the things you like about him and why you liked him. Then take this piece of paper and burn it(somewhere safe..like your sink,then the unburned pieces can fall down the drain). Now after this write down what you're going to do for your next relationship and what you plan on doing more of (ex:I will watch what i say to make sure i'm not hurting him,I will be more open with my feelings ect.) LASTLY : FLIRT! Meet new guys, don't let this one guy hold you down!
Words of tupac:
"You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks,
even months over-analyzing a situation;
trying to put the pieces together, justifying what
could've, should've, would've, happened. Or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the f#%* on.."
Leave it for dead, move on.
Hope i helped XD!
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