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Girlfriend problems
Ok so im 16 almost 17 in a day or two
I have a girlfriend who has repeately broke up with me like 11 times in the year and 2 months weve been dating. She breaks up with for now reason like shell say she needs space or she says is mad at me for no reason, but then she usually comes back in less than a week and apolizes, even though I tell her she doesnt have to apologize. She did again with stupid reasons and she was acting unlike I thought she would because she is my best friend and she just wasnt talking so I asked her why and she said because she wanted to give me another shot then she didnt know if she could do it and then I asked why she even said anything she said "I Love You" then I said whats the problem then she thinks I need to be the leader in relationship and doesnt believe I can change.
Other things you should know are she is 16 also and when I say, say I mean she sent it in an email and Ive set up times for us to talk and boy can she talk an hour solid so I dont understand why we cant communicate.
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She is breaking up on average every 6 weeks. There is something in the relationship she is stuggling with. 16 is young to take on a relationship, it's more complicated than just kissing and hanging out together. She ask you to lead them LEAD. she wants to be under your wing it's safe there. When she is confident enough to step out and be her person she will take charge & deal with it. her dream is a subconcience telling her she will loose you if she continues to be irrational. So if you reassure her she should calm down on her nurotic behaviour. if she still is insecure cuddle her & take away her fears. Ask her regularly Is she is happy. She dosn't have to beat her self up if you are sincerely in love with her. just reassure her. Visa - versa
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You guys might not be that compatable. You might need two different things in your life right now. Talking is a big part of going out with someone and if you guys can't do that maybe it shouldn't be.
Lillian
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