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Ok,I just lost a friend...
OK,So Im just going to get straight to the point.
One of my "friends" doesnt want to be friends anymore...for some reason.
The problem seemed like it all started on Facebook,but even before that,he's been acting "distant"...Hardly saying anything to me,pretty much acting like I dont exist.
Im not sure how I feel about this. I was sad at first,but now...Im getting really pissed off.
Why? Because one,I sent him a message,and he actually didnt even reply and he removed me from his "friends list",and two...This kind of crap happens ALL the time. Which is why I like putting up a wall and keep people out,cause I always get hurt like this.
So what should I do? Should I ACT like I dont care? Or should I just act like it didnt happen?
I really dont know what to do!!!
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Ask him to validate his stand off behaviour. It may be your behaviour he has out grown. You may have a behaviour your completely unaware of that he has withered too. People change maybe he has issues he doesn't want to express and just needs time out. The only way to be sure is to face up & fess up over coffee. Then you can respond accordingly to the results. if it isn't him or you it's someone else (3rd party) let him understand he is hurting your feelings. Remeber your friends change through out your life maybe it's time for you both to move on. Discussing it with resolve the unknown. good luck Don't put on an act be very real.
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Yes,but Im afraid to try to become friends again,because I'll probably get hurt.
It already seems like noone wants to be my friend,and it saddens me -_-
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This is quite common, friends always fall out or simply just fall apart.
If you are truly friends with Him and you still want to be friends then you should talk to Him, and ask why he is ignoring you, then you'll know.
However if your not that bothered perhaps it's best that you don't stay friends, maybe you don't have the same personality. You said you often put up walls, if your not open with people, then it'll usually never work out.
Me and my friends sort of fell out with one of my friends just because she never contributed, she never enjoyed the time with us and never seemed to be interested in us, more really to just have friends - so she wouldn't be cast as a loner.
Therefore talk to Him, if you really care about Him, if not then I believe it's best if you go your seperate ways.
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