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Q: ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE!
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the next time you see him at school just smile and say hi. if he talks back then just start talking to him more often, just stop and ask him how his day's going or something. before you know it you'll be talking at school and on the computer! then maybe you can get a better view on if he likes you or not! i hope i helped!
*Kayla*
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Q: I have a major problem. I'm best friends with this guy. The only problem is I have a crush on him. Do I tell him and risk losing our friendship or do I not tell him at all? Please Help!
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tell him, but tell him that you don't want this to affect your friendship. just say i'm starting to like you as more than a friend. chances are he could feel the same way. but if for some reason he doesn't, just don't let it affect the friendship, act the way you used to. i hope i helped! *~KaYlA~*
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Q: Well It's almost Valentines Day.. and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend... I've asked him for some suggestions and he just keeps telling me he doesnt want anything. What would be something good to get him... We've been going out for 5 months... Hope someone can help... Thanks
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well chocolates are definitely the way to go. then you could write him a sweet poem, or maybe a cd that he would like, or movie, or shirt. do you all have "your song"? if so you could make him a tape/cd with the song and write the lyrics out for him and decorate around the lyrics in hearts. i hope i was of help!
*~KaYlA~*
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Q: Ok, so there's this kid at my school that is obsessed with me, and we talk on the phone and internet and hes asked me out several times already, everytime i said i wasn't sure, what my question is is that do you think it would be smart to get to know him better, or is it "bad" to have an obsessive boyfriend? I don't really "like" him yet, but hes one of the sweetest kids i've ever met. Okay.. sorry it was long thanks
ashley
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the next time he asks you out say, "i'd like to get to know you better first". i had a guy who was obsessed with me, but after we started he dating he calmed down, and i think it was just his way of trying to get me, so that's probably how it is for this guy. so get to know him better, then when you decide if you like him or not, go from there.
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Q: i like this one guy who is in my math class...we sit right next to each other and we ALWAYS are talking... and he stares at me too...i cant tell if he likes me or not but i REALLY like him! no one knows i like him except 3 of my very close friends. i would ask him out if i found the right moment..but i am also kinda afraid to ask him out cause if he says no then i dont want it to ruin our friendship...but the thing is that i am moving in like 2 months so it wouldnt be that long of a relationship...so i guess my question is...should i ask him out even though i am moving in a while or just keep it to myself and let it dye away??
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how far are you moving? if you're only moving a little while away, it could work, but if you're moving kind of far away, it would probably be best not to ask him out. i hope everything works out for the best!
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Q: 14/f
Last thursday I was talking to the guy I like on the phone and I think I heard him say Will you go Out with me but he said it hecka quite so I wasnt sure then I was just like what I cant hear u and I thought he said will you go out with me again but he said it so softly i wasnt sure... so i was just quite... then all of of sudden hes just where are you at and completely changed the subject... I am confused... I want him to ask me out right and now im scared cause if he did ask me out he is bably be too scared to say it again... and I need a way for him to do it... but then if he just said something else and I didnt hear him correctly I dont want to be like yea i wanna go out with you cause that would be embarresing thats the reason i was just quite... but now as i get to thinking maybe i want him to ask me so badly im hearing things...if that makes any sense please help...I was thinking of trying to get who he likes out of him but when i asked him today all he could say was i dont know...
what do i do?
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he probably did ask you out. and he probably changed the subject cause you were quiet. this is what you should do...tell him that you like him. just say "you know i really like you" and then that will give him courage to ask you again! if you ask him who he likes and he doesn't know you like him, it's very unlikely he'll tell you, guys are kind of weird. lol jk, but they don't really like to admit their feeling if they don't know how you feel. well, that's how it seems to me anyways. but i hope i helped and good luck!
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Q: My two friends and I are the best bff's in the WORLD! But one of my friends has two other friends and at school she acts like her two other friends are her bff's and never talks to us at school. But when it's just us 3 she's normal and says were her bff's! How so we get my other friend back to the group in public and private?
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you need to let your friend know how you feel. you and your friend need to talk to her, or if it's easier write her a note of how you feel. tell her that you're hurting that she doesn't act like you and your friend exist in public. good luck!
*KaYla*
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Q: hi i am fourteen years of age and i have never had a partner, which means ive never been to any of the bases!! is the first kiss always the worse? i dont know what i am supposed to do when i am going to kiss somebody, like what your supposed to do with the lips, teeth, and tounge, and i am scared! i dont want to feel akward when i really suck at kissing..and im not really talented!! someone please tell me what i should do!
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maybe you could try having your first kiss with a guys who's also never been kissed, that way it won't be as awkward. but here goes kissing guide: tilt your opposite of his, your lips will just fit with his, move your tongue around gently, and try to kind of make your lips cover your teeth meaning like keep your lips pooched out more than your teeth, that way you don't knock teeth. i hope i was a help! good luck!
*KaYlA*
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Q: There's a boy that used to be the kind of friend that I would tell my problems to when me and my b/f were going out. But after my b/f and I split, my friend completely fell in love with me. I don't like him that way, just as a friend, but he's trying to control my love life by being over jealous.He says he won't stop until I go out with him. I have a new b/f now, but I can't let anyone know because I don't want my friend to find out and he'll be hurt.He gets mad whenever I'm on the phone with my b/f. What should I tell him? I don't want to lose his friendship, because he is a really good friend.
Sorry about the length, but please help!! Thanks!
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tell your friend that you see him as a friend and a friend only. tell him you're really sorry and you don't want to lose his friendship. also, maybe you could set him up with a single friend. you should tell him about your new boyfriend because if he finds out later, he'll just be more hurt. i hope i could be of help!
*KaYlA~*
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Q: 17-f so i have this really good friend...a guy...and we've been friends for three years. I love spending time with him because hes just about the funniest person i know. We have a lot in common too and now since we've been friends for so long he knows me really well. Anyways for a while now im beginning to think that he likes me. I dont like him that way. How do i tell him that i dont like him without actually doing it. And if i need to tell him outright...how do i do that without hurting him?
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don't tell him straight out unless he tells you himself that he likes you. but how you can tell him without actually saying it: just talk about a guy you like, and say something like "gosh, i would really like to date him. there is no one else i would rather be with" or something you know, just go on about how great he is and how you wanna be with him(the other guy). if he does tell you straight out, then just say "i'm really sorry, you are a great friend, and i don't wanna lose you, but i just feel like that's the only thing we can be." i hope i was a help!
*~KaYlA~*
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Q: I`m pregnate and i`m not gonna say my age due to how much you all will critisize me.im 2 1/2 months in and valentines day is coming up.. and i`m completely absolutely in love with my baby's dad..one problem is he's not so into me...he is but not as much...at all. I told him i was going to get him something for the day coming up and he said-"no..i`ll feel bad 'cause i`m not getting you anything." we don't go out or anything but I have real feelings for him. He has about 5 other girls that are getting him things to..he said he just doesn't spend money on girls...i don't want anything in return..I just want him to know I care...is that the right thing to do? Or should I do what most my friends day and not get him anything..and try avoiding him for a while until he comes to me?? That's hard..because i know how he is..he says.."I`m not going to chase after a girl..if they dont want me then fine thats them." And trust me, if I don't talk to him..some other girls will..even if i DO have his baby *yes,he knows* ..help help help! please!
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i don't think you should spend your money on him, but if you really wanna do something for him, write him a poem or something. however, i don't really think you should do that either. if he's not all that into you, and going to go for another girl knowing that you're having his baby, i don't think he's worth it. he should get with it and learn his priorities (which are you and your baby), but that's actually besides the point of this question. you don't have to avoid him, just don't spend a lot of time and money on him. i hope i helped. and by the way~i would NOT criticize you on your age and having a baby.
*KaYlA*
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Q: ok sorry if this is kinda long....this is really hard for me to talk about ive never talked about this with anyone other than my aunt...
ok so my 28 year old aunt came and visited me and we are really close...and i was telling her that i think my parents are growing apart...and she said "no offense sweetie, but ive kinda always had a theory that your dad is gay, i mean me and your mom talk and the last time they had sex was when your brother was concieved...10 years ago" and naturally, i did take offense but i didn't tell her...the truth is is that ive always kinda thought the same thing but i haven't told anyone. ive been thinking about it recently because i caught my dad flirting with his boss (who is gay and tells everyone that he is) and my parents haven't spent there last two anniversaries together! my mom was out of state so my dad decided to spend them with his boss!! my dad also uses phrases like "oh my gosh" and "whatever" in a velley girl way...and he is very into fashion...and he is very feminine in everything he does....i mean hes not tall and buff actually quite the opposite...hes about 5'3 and 160 lbs.! I don't know what to do...some of my friends have asked me if hes gay and it really hurts me...but now...im starting to believe them...please help me! What should i do?? should i talk to my mom about this???
- hurt deep down -
Ill rate for anyone who actually takes my feelings into consideration...
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first off, i am really, really sorry for what you're going through! i think you should talk to your mom. you know there may be a chance that she realizes this and they have decided not to split up because of having kids. talk to your mom and tell her what you think and tell her if she knows anything, you can handle the truth. then maybe you and your mom together can talk with your dad. i really hope everything works out for you, and i am again very very sorry.
*Kayla*
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Q: Okay, so I know this guy named Josh and I really like him. But, turns out a whole lot of girls are interested in him also. I wrote him a note telling him how I felt and he wrote me back saying he was talking to someone else and that we could still be friends. But, I want to be more than just his friend. What should I do???
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the only thing you can really do is wait for him to come around. more than likely he won't be talking to this girl forever. stay friends with him, and then whenever he's free, flirt and then tell him how you feel.
*~KaYlA~*
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Q: o my goodness!! i was JUST HANGING out wit my lover dom. i over heard him talking to his/mine friend shawn, he said liz (a girl) likes him!! liz is pretty and dom always likes her! soo any way dom goes to shawn-liz likes me, i like her to,shawn goes go out with liz then, dom goes in 5 days!!! that hurt soo much i was gonna cry but i hide it! (im crying as a write this) i love him so much!!! i had my first kiss with him, he had her first kiss with liz!!! i love him to death!!! i would do anything for him!! please help! please tell me how i can get over him!!
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i hope you got rid of him! he is not worth your tears, because i guarantee you there are tons of guys who would LOVE to be with you! i know it's really hard to get over someone, but crying does help, even though it hurts. i really don't want you to cry, because i know you're hurting, but if crying helps, shed a few tears. hanging out with a group of your friends would help. why don't you get with a group of friends, get some pizza, and rent a comedy. i hope i helped and i hope you feel better very soon!
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Q: ok i dowload music w/ bearshare but my mom totally freaks out saying the cops are going to get me and crap like that. How likely can that happen?
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i have bearshare on my computer and tons of other people i know have it on theirs too. i think it's very unlikely that the cops will get you. besides, there are tons of other worse things going on on the computer than that, so i think you've got nothing to worry about!
*KaYlA*
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Q: Is this a good workout plan?
Stretches
30-to an hour on Exercise Bike
3 Sets of 15 Crunches
3 Sets of 15 Pushups
3 Sets of 15 Leg Lifts
Stretches
Thanks!
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hi. umm... for an exercise plan i was always taught 20 min. on the bike, and 3 sets of 10 crunches, pushups, and leg lifts. however, that's just for starting out, if you've been working out for a while, i think your plan will work just great!
*~KaYlA~*
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Q: Ok well, I think this is gonna be kinda long...maybe. But the other day at a birthday party one of my friends Sam she was like PMSin or something. And like she started being all rude and everything and then like she and Marlo and the other Sam and Anjelite were at the back room talking trash about me and Brittany (my friend) and now like they're all mad about nothing. And i didn't even do anything! It was her who started all this bs!!! Please hellp me!!!!
-Cowgirlie
PS:I'm real stubborn so I'm not gonna apologize first lol...just the way I am!! toodles!
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it's okay to be stubborn in this situation because you have nothing to be sorry for! talk to your friend and ask her what she thinks you did, because you didn't realize you had done anything wrong. tell her that it really hurt you that she was talking about you for no reason. and if she's like this all the time, i wouldn't recommend hanging around her much longer. PMS is no excuse for treating a friend badly.
*~KaYlA~*
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Q: ugh okay. so i used to date this kid.. and everything was cool for a while until he started to be a real jerk to my friend. so we broke up and we got into this HUGE argument and it was a big ugly mess. & now, he's dating my "aquaintence" who is a slut, and i don't really like her but she thinks were really good friends but she smells terrible and he's only going out with her to get some action and its obvious. but everytime anyone mentions him or i see him (which is on a rare occasion, but i still do) i get really really really mad and i say im ok and blah blah blah im over it w/e.. but i dont think i really am.. wtf do i do to get fully over this mess?
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the first thing you should do is everytime you start to get mad or miss him, just think of how big of a jerk he was. then just take a look around you a realize there are so many other wonderful guys out there who would love to be with and who be a lot nicer. you could also try a "reward" method, if you're into that kind of thing, like everytime you feel like missing him, but stop yourself by realizing he's a jerk, reward yourself with a small something that you wanted to buy, or small box of chocolates or something. lol i'm not sure if you'd like doing that, but i think it might help. lol i hope i helped some.
*~KaYlA~*
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Q: there's this guy that i like ALOT and he knows. well he tries to make it not akward by talking sometimes like in a class and stuff. well, all my friends tell me to talk to him online, but im such a chicken! i have talked to him online and had good convos probably 3 times out of the last 3 weeks. yeah, i know, lame! well i don't know what to talk about! also, what are some good ways to strike up convos? and he's not the kind of guy to talk about like what his hobbies are and whatnot... that's just dorky. so thanks in advance! :-)
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i think you should start out the conversation first just by asking what he did that day or weekend or something. try to find something in common with what you both did. like if you both went to a movie, talk about that. if you find nothing in common with what you did, talk about just something in common (not necessarily hobbies). and if he tells you something he did, seem interested and try talking about it. for instance if he said he went and seen a movie, ask what it was about and if it was good. then talk about something that maybe relates to it, like a movie you saw that was similar to it that you liked, or a real life situation that happened that maybe links in with it that's interesting. well, i hope i helped some.
*~KaYlA~*
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Q: ok well we had a dance today but i didnt do anything because ive never danced before.. can anyone give me some tips? thanks!!!
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Okay, on fast dances just get out there with a group of your friends and just follow their lead. you'll get the hang of it in no time! and then sometimes, a group of friends will just make up their own dances. basically, fast dances is really just good moves put together that an individual makes up. and on slow dances, well, people around me just kind of hold each other and sway back in forth, but i'm not sure if that's how it is for people around you, so i'd say watch people first to see how they do it, and then just get out there and do it! hope i helped!
*~KaYlA~*
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Hi, my name is Kayla. Everyone has always told me i give good advice, and i really like giving advice. It makes me soo happy when i hear someone's succeeded by my advice. I will try my best to answer any questions. It's also perfectly fine to IM me when i'm on.
A little more about JuSt Me~i'm 17, i have a wonderful boyfriend of over 3 years. i love spending time with him. i also love shopping talking, rollerblading, being outdoors and listening to music. my favorite band is New Found Glory! *i LoVe RuSsElL* :)
*KaYlA ~n~ rUsSeLl 12/13/01-FOREVER!*
*I have another SN it's on AOL/AIM. It's: AngelAyAy7
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Gender: Female Location: Tennessee Occupation: Student Age: 17 AIM: Member Since: February 10, 2005 Answers: 65 Last Update: April 23, 2005 Visitors: 5173
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