Hey guys my name is Jessica...I live in the beautiful state of South Carolina. Im 15 years old and i have a pretty normal life/good life. I have great friends (sometimes) and a great family. I've been a cheerleader since i was 3 years old. And im not one of those snotty stuck up cheerleaders like some are around here. Im a nice and caring person. I love to meet new people and help them with their problems. I may not know exactly what you need to know but i can try my best to help. Im a really fun and outgoing person. I like to speak my mind and im a very open minded honest person. You can ask me anything.
xoxoJessxoxo
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Location: South Carolina
Occupation: school...duh
Age: 15
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so i'm a little worried i might be pregnant. typical symptoms are morning sickness, eating a lot & getting cravings, peeing alot, missing periods, maybe sleeping a lot? breasts getting bigger & tender?.. i dont know.. but anyways, i have all of that. what exactly are the symptoms? and yes, i plan on getting a home pregnancy test, its just hard to find the oppurtunity to. but i was hoping that it could maybe be stress. not saying i dont want kids but just with my age, having a baby wouldnt be a good idea- expecially with whats been going on with the baby's (if there is one) daddy. (link)
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Girl im not trying to scare you but those are the symtoms.You should stop putting the pregnancy test off and go get one and take it. It could be stress but i doubt it. You need a test and u need to do it asap.Good Luck.
Jessica
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hey everyone. my name is nikita im 15 and i go to seven lakes high school. and there's this girl named nicole hajka and she use to bother me alst year and she still does. and then now she has my cell phone number and she started calling me yesterday.. and she left me this really dumb voicemail. and i kept calling her and she wuz like stop caliing me. and i said well u keep c alling me and leeving me retarded voicemails. sh's soo annoying. and so r her stupid jock friends who talk shit about me. and i told her if she calls me again i'll call the cops. and that i wanted to talk 2 her mom to solve this but she never called back...so how do i prevent this from happening!? next time (link)
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Maybe you scared her alittle so maybe she will leave u alone now. But if not then ignore it she'll eventually get bored of it and stop. But if she doesnt stop then actually call the cops and tell them that you've told her to stop but its not doin any good and they shouldf make her stop. Hope this helps!!
xoxoJessxoxo
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Okay, I got most of my fathers genes in me. I have extremely hairy arms, I do shave them though. As a girl, it embarrasses me very badly. I've been to doctors and they've given me pills to see less hair growth, but the hair that was already there will just keep growing. (Which is a lot) I'm in my first year of highschool, and I'm VERY self conscious about my arms. I wear long sleeves/jackets until I can't take it anymore. (And I live in Texas, so it is already sooo hot right now) What do you suggest I do? Keep shaving them? It's time consuming, every other day I have to do it cause my hair grows back so fast, and it's just now fair other girls have basically no hair on their arms & they do nothing to them. Ahh, what to do, I have to start wearing short sleeves, the heats too much. (link)
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Im 15 years old and i have the same problem. I always thought my arms was the hairiest arms that a girl could have and then i realized theres alot of girls like that. You need to quit shaving because if u dont the hair will grow worse and worse and it will never get better. I was always ashamed of it and i tried shaving but my mama got mad lol...so i stopped and i learned to live with it. My arms arent that hairy now but still ya know. But if i was you i wouldnt shave anymore.
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I would like teenagers to answer this one,
My daughter is 13. But the clothes she wears are not...happy. She always is sarcastic. She listens to strange, loud music. Is this the fashion these days? Should I let her be? (link)
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Im 15 years old and when i was 12 til now i was wearing clothes that my mom didnt exactly agree with.When i was 13 and 14 i was wearing low cut tight short shirts...low cut tight jeans...short skirts and short shorts and all that. Your daughter is doing what all the girls these days are doing,shes just expressing herself. And the music she may listen to is what all the teens are listening to now. And alot of teenage girls are wearing revealing clothes and short shirts and stuff their parents may not like. It may not last long but as long as shes not doing it because its the style shes fine. She should want to be herself and if she likes the way shes dressing then its probably ok. My mom finally got use to how i dress even tho she doesnt like it and doesnt always agree with it. But shes coming around and you may to. Give her a chance!!
xoxoJessxoxo
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Can anyone give me a list of romantic songs? They can be new or old. thanks! (link)
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Lonestar-Amazed (thats a beautiful song)
Aerosmith-Dont wanna miss a thing (thats really pretty and romantic)
Boyz 2 Men-Ill Make Love To You
Kc and Jojo-crazy
Brian McKnight-Back to 1
Amanda Perez-Angel
Natalie-Goin Crazy
Mariah Carey-Always be my baby
PussyCat Dolls-Stick Wit u
Tyrese-Sweet Lady
thats just a few that i can think of right now!!
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ok so this is so emberessing to ask but
the other day i was sitting down and i farted,
but.... not where i should have. im a girl by the
way, and i think i farted from my vagina? this
sounds so gross, and im sorry to ask but i'm really
curious what it is.. my friend said it's called queefing?
haha, whats that and why do we do it?
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Yes it is called queefing. It where air is pushed out of your vagina. We just learned this in health class lol...so embarrassing. But its normal for girls to do this.
Jess
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Hi, you might have seen my post before about how I didnt know how to tell my boyfriend that I dont like it when he flirts with other girls and hugs them. I told him last night online how i felt and hes like oh ok im sorry and i wont do it again. and hes like oh well its a good thing that you get jealous because then that means you love me. so today when he came in the class room to drop his bag off, he went out of the class, i kind of followed him and he was talking to someone and then when the bell rang he hugged her! and then i hear this morning that he was flirting with my good friend. I already told him how i felt. how do i tell him again without trying to sound like a freak like he cant do anything? Thanks! (link)
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You should sit down and think about this. Is this guy really worth your time? Think about it. Try to tell him again tell him it really hurts you when he does you like this and see if it helps any. And maybe give it a few days if it doesnt change then you should really consider moving on. Good Luck!!
xoxoJessxoxo
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There is this guy i like and almost everytime he talks to me, he makes sarcastic remarks and jokes around with me telling me im doing things wrong. (He usually smiles when telling me this). What does this mean? (link)
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this is probably his way of flirting with you. Guys are usually mean to the girls they like.Good Luck!!
xoxoJessxoxo
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I need to know how to block a phone number because someone keeps calling me I don't want to talk to and it's getting to the point where I can't take it anymore because they aren't nice. So how do you? (link)
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Hey...im going through the same thing right now. My oldest friend has been calling me and isnt that nice also. I had to call the phone company and they told me to call the police. If that doesnt work you may have to get your number changed. Good Luck!!
xoxoJessicaxoxo
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Okay, so I have a boyfriend. And I love him so much nobody would ever understand. Everything reminds me of him and he's always on my mind. Today he confessed that I'm all he ever thinks about no matter what he's doing. That means that he thinks about me a lot because he's always playing football or basketball or soccer or working out. My friends say I'm obbsessed, but I just can't help it. Is there anything I can do that will take my mind off of him or at least tone down my thoughts about him a bit?
Thanks so much! (link)
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No not really theres nothing you can really do. Thats how you feel and its hard to change that. Believe me i feel the same way about my b/f now and ive tried to change that but i cant. Me and my bf broke up a few times and i still couldnt change that and we're finally back together and he tells me he feels the same about me and its the best feeling in the world. Good luck!!
xoxoJessxoxo
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Ok I have a great bf and love him but my ex bf who is also my best friend got a new gf and idk why but it hurts..i mean it shouldnt but it does cause i keep imaging she's so much prettier and better IDK WHY!! is this normal? thanks (link)
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Yea this is completely normal. I felt the same way you;re feeling a few months ago. Me and my bf broke up and he got a new gf and we was still friends but i had also moved on and really liked my new bf. Well when i found out they was together i compared myself up to her. That was a mistake that i made. Dont compare yourself to her.And this feeling you're having isnt that you still want him but you dont want him with anybody else because he was yours before he was hers. Every girl goes through this atleast once. Good Luck!!
xoxoJessxoxo
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I'm trying to convince my mom to let me get my hair Japanese hair striaghtened because its very curly and poofy, I want to know if anyone here got it done or if anyone knows what to ask them or what the risks are
k thankss i rate 5's (link)
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Im like the person before me said i've never had it done because my hairs straight already with just alittle curl so i can straighten mine with a straightner. My cousin got hers done though. It look soo good for awhile she got it done about every 2 months. But the bad thing was she got it for about a year and her hair got really stringy and broke easliy. She had a time with it. But she also got it for about 2 years if i was you i would try it and see how it looks and if u like it keep doing it. Everybodys hair is different so it probably wont do yours that way unless you get it done too often. Good Luck!!
*X*O*X*O*Jessica*X*O*X*O
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Hey I am 16 and me and my bf have been going out for a long time. I am thinking about getting birth control pills but I dont want to tell my mom. Is there some doctor I can talk to with out having to have my mom there. (link)
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Im 15 years old and when i was 14 i got put on birth control because my mom and dad said i was "hitting that age" but there not that bad. Go to a OBGYN they might could see you without you're mom. Or either call you're original doctor and ask them if they could do it and tell them u dont want you're mom to know. They are not supposed to tell. Good Luck!!
xoxoJessicaxoxo
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I got my belly peirced about 2 months ago and I am wondering if it's normal to have a little bump right next to the peircing. (link)
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Yea its normal but if it gets worse you should let you're piercer look at it. Mine did the same thing when i got mine done. It's from wheres its healing and all that.
*~*Jessica*~*
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we'll me and my bestfriend hang out every weekend and we hang out with these two boys, c and j and my best friend started to date c, and after a while me and j got kinda bored with having them date and everything so me and him we started talking a lot and some how we got to talking about becoming "friends with benefits" and at first it was just simple just us two making out but then after that it got more serious and well i let him finger me and i jacked him off and it was more then i intended to ever do with him, we'll now things have gotten more serious between me and him and well now he likes me and i like him, we arn't dating or anything but our feelings are gettn stronger everytime we talk and i've had sex before and so has he and well we always talk about maybe having sex with each other and now im thinking that maybe i shou;d..i need help on weather or not i should or not? (link)
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I dont really agree with the whole "friends with benefits" thing. If i was you i would tell the guy how u really feel. Or either ask him what he thinks about u and see what he thinks. If he dont wanna be more than friends then more than likely hes just using you and it probably wont last long. Good Luck!!
*~*Jessica*~*
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hey i am 14 5'8 and 115 lbs. im very skinny for my age and height and recently ive lost 5 pounds in 3 or 4 days. im scared that im really sick but i dont know whats worng (link)
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If it continues you should tell your mom so she can take you to the doctor to make sure theres nothing wrong.
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ok so i probally sound stupid for asking this but what does it mean when someone pops your cherry i dont get it
stupid probally but help anyways (link)
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Most guys say this when they know that you've had sex before,it means your hymen is broken. Most people say it because they try to tell people they "popped your cherry" or took your virginity.
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i had this convo with my bestfriend and i feel like if my bf knew i said those things with my bestfriend that he would be mad... do you think that i was wrong to talk to my bestfriend like that even if it was joking. (the whole fuck thing is an inside joke with him) btw my bestfriend is a guy.
me: loserface
him: fuck you
me: fuck you better/more! HA!
him: haha
him: got me
me: of course i did
him: fuck you harder/faster
me: ugh. fuck you longer/hotter? haha
him: sounds good.
me: you know it!
him: you dont know nothing about sex.
me: maybe not.
him: haha you dont
me: is that bad?!?!?!?
him: yes
him: duh
him: these days you have to have sex 40 times before your 11
me: haha well i just broke the damn rules
him: oh goodness.
him: to the death pit for you.
me: haha well atleast im a virgin!
me: oooooo!
him: at least im not.
me: well your a bad boy.
him: sex is fun.
me: i bet.
me: and the only reason i dont before i get married is because if i do then ill be completely attached and if i was to break up with the person i did that with or they break up with me it would be bad... like heartbreaking bad... and all and it would end up being the on and off thing because were so attached to each other.... its not for moral reasons... its for....logical reasons.
him: haha yeah
me: i just dont want to be that serious with a guy right now.;
him: yeah i understabd.
him: i forgot you're only 14
me: if i was ready to be that serious with someone it wouldnt bother me to have sex before marriage. but the thing is... if your ready to be that serious with them your pretty much ready to marry them! haha.... so yeah. im sorry im only 14 :( i know i dont act it.
him: yeah you dont
me: well that cant be a bad thing
him: its not.
me: gooood
me: your the best bestfriend ever.
so my questions are:
1)is that wrong?
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No. That is so not wrong. You did the right thing,u stuck to what u belive in. That takes alot of nerve to do what you did. Most girls your age will talk all that and they really dont know anything about it. Girls like that are most likely a "tease" they get the guys up and ready and thinking that the girl will do it and then the girls back down. You did the right thing. Im 15 years old and i wish i could have been like you when i was 14. That was the mature thing to do. Hope this helps!!
*~*Jessica*~*
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OK so my best guy friend, well all my girl friends say that he likes me, and they say I like him too, which is true. But im way too scared to tell him(for reasons .. i just cant) and i wish he would just tell me ! what should i dooo?
PS-im going with him to a semi formal dance this saturday. (link)
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I understand why you're scared to tell him...i would be too because theres a possibility of rejection. Just hint around to it and if he doesnt catch on then ask him what he thinks of you to see what he says. And if he comes out and says he likes u then tell him you've liked him for______ (however long you've liked him). Hope this helps!!
*~*Jessica*~*
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I'm a guy and 16 years old. I was just wondering if going anywhere or doing anything is ok for a first date (my first ever). It'll be this friday. I was thinking about a movie and then some dinner. Would that be ok? I'm pretty comfortable around her, but I'm not too sure if this would be better for later dates as opposed to the first one. Any other ideas or suggestions, things to remember? Are there any guidelines or rules that I should follow as the guy? It is true - guys are much more nervous than girls when it comes to this. Thanks in advance; will rate (link)
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I think that at movie may be a bad idea. If this is you're first date and everything i would want to get to know the other better. Me and my b/f has been together over two years and our first date we went ridin around so we could talk and get to know eachother and it turned out great. You seem like a sweet guy so do what you want but i think that a movie wouldnt be that great at this point because theres not really any talking going on in the movie. If u decide to take her to a movie take her to one that you both feel comfortable in and let her have alittle say in the choice to so you know what she would like. If you take her out to eat dont take her somewhere to fancy because that may make her feel uncomfortable,take her somewhere casual. Hope this helps!!
*~*Jessica*~*
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