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Q: There is this boy I like at school. But not until the other day when I saw my best man friend
and all of a sudden bam!! I was in love with him. I am not sure I should like him because my best lady friend likes him. I am not sure what to do to? I do not want to loose a friendship or a crush.
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What I would do is not let either one of them know that you like him and just act like everything is cool (I know that may be hard). Then when they break up you go to him being all buddy buddy start some small flirting and then he will get the hint. And to not loose your friend over that is make sure she is ok with it first before you just jump right into it. That is what I would do to keep them both cool with me and not hate me or anything.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: Hey. Do any of you guys know what "SOL" means, because a tee-shirt says " Ur SOL pal" (from Hollister). Thanks!
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On that shirt SOL mean SOUL. If you read it UR SOUL PAL doesn't it make more sense.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: how does a condom break while your having sex.. im just curious
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Most of the time a condom will break during sex for not being put on correctly. That really is the only reason I know that is would happen.
Good luck,
Hope I helped,
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: In your honest opinion...
How realistic is it to think that you will one day marry your first love? I don't think it's likely, but it happens, right? I'm 16 and he is 17. And I've never felt this way about anyone in my entire life. I just want to experience everything in life with him. We talk about getting married sometimes, I mean seriously talk about it. When we do talk about it he tells me that he is serious, that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.
Opinions? Advice Please?
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Yes it is very likely for you to marry your first true love. Also for you that is a lot easier because you don't have to go through all the heartache. All you have to know is are you and him both completely no doubts for sure about this whole thing because you need to know for sure now not later when it is to late. Just remember follow your heart and nothing could ever go wrong.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: so ive been on my period for about..3 days now *first time* and it is getting heavier each day, or it seems to be. and i was wondering if that was normal and if there is anything else i need to know. thnks in advance :]
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Yes that is supposed to happen especially for your first period. I don't really know what you don't know so I don't know what else to tell you but you can always ask more.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: So there is this girl. I've seen her at this resturant for the past 2 years but never said a word to her because i'm so shy. We had a picnic this weekend and my mom's friends daughter came and with her was this girl.After the picnic I was told that she thought I was cute and such a nice person. So I was invited back to the apartment the next day of these 2 girls. We watched 2 movies and ate dinner othing big. So when I got home I text the girls friend and asked if this girl even likes me or what. I got in reply She does but wants nothing serious. How do I go about that? Do I still try to become close and hope more happens or what? Any help is thankful.
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I don't think you should back off for right now she may say that and if you try to get close to her she will see that maybe she does. So yes still try to get close to her but you also always have to remember that there is a chance she would just break up with you out of no where since she doesn't want anything serious. At least she tells you this before you get into it and find out later and get hurt so she was protecting your feelings.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: well i'm being told that just doing a bunch of ab exercises will not eliminate the extra fat i have on my lower stomach. i'm being told that i have to do some kind of cardio too, like running. i've always wanted to start running in the mornings or in the evening (like 7:00), but i'm too embarrassed to. i'm 14/f and the only people that run in my neighborhood are adults. i think it is really embarrassing to be the only teen running. and when i do go running i feel really unconfortable doing it. are there any other cardio workouts i can do inside? i really want a treadmill but my mom wont get one. i also have DDR, but it really hurts my feet and i get bored doing it after like 10 minutes so that isn't helping.
thanks!
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See I had the same problem for the longest time and you want to know what is really cheap it is a exercise video that works so good and it is only like 20 minutes a day and it is just great. It is called Tae * Boe it is really cheap and you could get it at like any store and believe me it really works and there are even different ones so it won't get boring doing the same thing every day.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: 14.f.
My parents make me go to my grandparents house during the day, because they don't trust me in our house alone.
Well, a few days ago I was reading this book that I have to read for school. I finished the book, and my grandmother asked if she could read it then give it back to me. And I said sure, and gave it to her.
The thing is, I don't know what I was thinking, because the book has SO many cursewords and has sex (gasp) in it. And she's my grandmother...
My mom went over to my grandparents house today just for a visit, and my grandmother said she finished the book, and was concerned about my school, for assigning a book like that. She said she was really surprised about all the cursewords and that I was reading it.
I have to go to their house again all this week. And I am SO embarressed, you have no idea. I'm not sure what my exact question is, just, what do I do?
Does anyone care to be my savior?
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What helps me get through awakward and embarrassing situations is just laugh about it like just make it one big joke. It usually works for me.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: my friend and i are recently getting in fight and they are mostly about her bf(im 14/f by the way)her bf said some really mean stuff to me and my friend was mad at him about it for like 5 min and then forgave him.she always does that when hes mean to me or her. Should her and i stay friends or should we go our seperate ways?
thanks
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You both should stay friends because that is kind of a dumb reason to give a friend up (over a boy). But what you do need to do is talk to her about it and let her know what he says is hurtful and if she was a real friend (since he is her boyfriend) she would make him stop. You just need to let her know how you feel and where you are coming from after you do that she will pretty much understand and try to fix it. But you have to let her know what is wrong in order for her to fix it.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: What is the difference between love and lust? and how do you really know if a guy loves you?
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Love is something that goes deeper then looks it is their personality the feeling that every moment without them just sucks and you can't be away from them and you feel a true deep connection with them. Lust is an sexual attraction someone that you like for their physical aspects rather then whats on the inside. Truely I have no idea how to tell if a guy loves you maybe the way he looks when he says he loves you the fact that he treats you wonderfully and is always there when you need him to be.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: i get alll shy and stuff when around a guy i like and i can talk over msn and the ohone fine but when face to face i get all shy and i just want to runn away from them help ! how can i solve this problem does this mean im insacure about my body immage im 16 f
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The best way to get over it is to just see a guy you think is hot and go up to him and start talking to him. No it doesn't mean you are insecure about your body it just could be that you are nervous and you don't really know what to say or how he will react.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelover2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: Hi, I apologise for this may be a little long.
I got dumped a few weeks ago by this guy after this huge misunderstanding. Some guy tried to interfere and told me all these things about my bf, that he was cheating on me and saying things behind my back. I confronted my bf about it and he was really angry for not trusting him.. said we were over.. said it had been coming for a while and that was that.
Well, I blocked and deleted him and tried to forget about him. For two weeks we didn't contact each other at all. But I still thought of him and was upset about what happened. He wanted to "still be friends" but I don't believe in that personally. I thought having a complete break would make me get over him, but it didn't.
The other day I went on my old MSN account and I forgot my ex was still on there. After about 20 mins he IMed me and said "I've figured out who it was who said those things" I considered blocking him there and then, but I didn't. We started talking and soon we got onto the topic of us. I wanted him to stop because I didn't think it mattered anymore where it all went wrong.. but he said he wanted to let me know everything and he really wanted to work things out. We got everything out in the open, even argued a bit because he called me "sheltered" just because my mom was strict. But we went through everything and left on decent terms laughing and joking around like old times (We were friends for years)
We're meeting in person in a couple of days to talk properly, and there's a chance we might get back together. But I'm not sure whether it's a good idea. What should I do? Give him another chance, but slow down things for a while? Or just forget him and move on with my life? I'm still angry about being dumped and the fact he waited so long to do this.. but I still have feelings for him. Help? lol. Thanks.
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Really what I think you should do is wait and be friends with him for a while and see how that works after that take it slow don't go there and jump into it. Obviously you said that you are still upset about him breaking things off with you and before you get into it again you really need to to get over that. Let him know though you still have feelings for him and see how he takes it but tell him at first you want to take it slow so you can get a better grip on things then. Don't rush into it though you don't want it to end up like it did before so take your time.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: hey! 15/f
well i kinda was crushin on this guy we flirted ALOT but now he has a girlfriend. i am jealous of her obviously but he really likes her. the only problem is that when i was gone on vacation i guess he was talking about me and how when i wore a skirt he saw my ass and stuff? yeah i dont give a shit but trust me im not a slut i have only madeout with one guy and never had a boyfriend. but i guess this guy was talkin to my friend and was like gosh why cant more girls be like her? and everything and everytime i see him we still kinda flirt but i dont start anything since he has a girlfriend! i LOVE flirting with him im just a huge flirter i cant help it but its killing me that he has a girlfriend. but why is he always talking about me because i guess he has before too but it was in a good way. we kind of have a good "friend" relationship like we can talk about stuff easily. but he really likes his girlfriend and i dont want to get inbetween the two of them. its not like im gonna stop talking to him or seeing him or whatever because im always with my friend and thats their neighbor so i always see him :D i just dont know what to do?? hes so adorable and sweet..it sucks
what do you think i should do? or what do you think he is thinking...
THANK YOU!
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I think that you should really back off and let him and his girlfriend go through their relationship. If he talks about you so much and he likes you enough then he will leave her and go out with you. From now on act like you aren't even interested in him anymore. Then he will see he really wants you. What he is probably thinking that he is crazy and he is missing out on a really great girl and soon he will come running back to you on what it sounds like it seems like you are really great and soon he will see that just give it some time.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: My hair is naturally straight with a kink in it but not wavy.
I'd like it to go wavy sometimes.
How do you scrunch hair? I've heard of it but i dont know how to do it.
Also, i know you have to do it when your hair is wet. But when my hair is wet, if i dont tie it up it goes frizzy. So is there any way i can stop it from going frixxy when its down?
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My hair is just like that like how it is frizzy all the time. And I scrunch my hair every day what I do is. When you get out of the shower brush your hair, then flip your hair about three times, while doing that hair spray it and believe me it works it looks great and it doesn't get frizzy. If that doesn't work then there is some frizzy shampoo called frizz ease that really works too.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: Ive been going out with my boyfriend since the beggining of april and he still seems to think i dont like him alot or that i dont wanna hang out with him. Weve been friends for over 3 years and i was at his house every day last summer. Byt he thinks im not going to be there with him alot this summer. Well, my mom and step dad are both going to iraq, which is where i live closest to him. And i told him the only way we wouldnt hang out is if i cant get a ride from my dads house. My dads house is five minutes away but he wont let me use my bike. So how can i convince him that, i do like him alot, i wanna be around him, and that im gunna try to hang out with him whenever i can?
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It just seems that you need to just tell him I don't think there is really any way you can show him. To show him you like him a lot flirt with him tell him how special he is to you and how much you like him. If you live that close to him then I am sure you both are going to be seeing a lot of each other just ask him why he doesn't believe you and then work from there with that one. And to show him you wanna be around him when you are with him hang on him hold his hand a lot and even kiss him a bunch if you want. You really need to see why he doesn't think these things so you can fix it. Or try to work on making him think those things.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: Alright, I'm a 15 year old girl. I'm from Canada. I like this boy alot but I'm afraid to ask him if he likes me. He knows I like him but I don't want to ask him and get rejected. I'm with him all the time and he makes me laugh and everything but I don't know. I also heard my bisexual friend likes him but I don't know.
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Try to get his attention first maybe flirt with him a little and show him you like him. If you do that then maybe you won't have to tell him and he will get the hint right away so he will ask you or maybe tell you he likes you too. Also by flirting you will see if you likes you back if he responds to it and flirts back. And if your friend likes him also that just means you have to get in there fast and get him before she does.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: My parents are always bugging me about coming home at unreasonable times, and my mom assumes that I am into drugs, smoking, and drinking alcohol. I dont know how to gain their trust, so that they will respect me more. I always seem to blurt out words to them, and they yell at me all the time. I dont know how to handle this situation, because they are destroying my social life.
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Well first you have to know why they don't trust you so you can talk to them about it. What you need to do is talk to them about it tell them that they are totally ruining your social life and they need to let loose. Try to gain their trust by helping them do things and they will gain your trust more and respect you more if you go to them with this problem.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: I haven't had my period for at least 4 months. I'm a virgin. Does anyone know why this is? Should I see a doctor. 15/f Will rate high.
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That seems weird that you are a virgin and you haven't had your period for 4 months. Yes you should go to the doctor because I don't really know what it could be. And if you don't want to go to the doctors the best thing to do is to tell one of your parents and see what they have to say about it.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: 14/f
Well my best friend went out with my ex-boyfriend 2 days after i broke up with him, even though i wish i hadent. I only broke up with him because he lived to far away.. But it just bugs me that she did that, and i dont know what to do. I told her that i didnt care because i dont want to let some guy (no offence) get between me and her- but it is! Any help would be great, and i do rate.
-cj
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What you should do is let it go for a few weeks and if they are still dating and you are still haveing problems with it then talk to her don't tell her to break up with him or anything just tell her how you feel and you both can work it out together. You don't want a guy to become friends but sometimes it just happens. But what you really need to do is tell her how you feel so you both won't stop being friends over it.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Q: Ok I always use the term "i like him" because it seems at my age i can't really love someone (i'm 15 and a girl) but i've 'liked' this guy for almost a year and a half. Everytime i see him i feel lots of butterflies in my stomach, i find myself stareing at him and when he looks at me i look away. i also find him looking at me. but i also find myself constantly talking about him and when i talk about him muy friends are always like wow you smile a lot when you talk about him, and when i'm not talking about him i'm thinking about him. i feel a little over liking him for my age. I don't go out with him but i've turned down dates because i can't imagine going out with anyone else. I either need some serious help or could i be in 'love'?!?!
kinda scary to think about.
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It seems to me that you may be in love and you aren't even dating him. The best way to find out if you are in love with him or not is to date him you can't love something you haven't tried. After you are dating a while if the feelings stay the same then you very well may be in love with him. But you won't really know until you have been with him.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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I am cooky crazy and I love to party and have fun. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and I am kinda short. When I get older I hope to become a therapist so I can give everyone advice because that is what I love to do. I am in the 10th grade. Sometimes I can be real jealous about dumb things. I give great advice. And I even can say dumb things that make no sense. But over all I am a great person, advice giver, and friend. If you don't like me then good for you but I love me
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Illinois Occupation: School Age: 15 Yahoo: Member Since: March 10, 2006 Answers: 78 Last Update: September 2, 2006 Visitors: 7797
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