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Aloha, Guys.
I love giving advice so I hope I can help you out in any ways needed. I live in Wisconsin and i love hanging out with my friends. I also love movies and stuff too. I'm a normal teenage girl.

*Currently in CD player: A Boy Named Goo (The Goo-Goo Dolls)*

Okay, well ask away!

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i am directing a play . i don`t know what one i should do . can anyone think of a googd play

Annie, The Music Man, Little Shop Of Horrors, Singin' in the rain, Annie Get your gun, The Wizard of Oz, Joesph and the amazing technicolor dreamcoat, Guys and Dolls, Grease, The King and I, Peter Pan, Cinderella, Beauty and The Beast, possibly the Lion King, go online, I bet they've got tons of fun musicals/plays to do. You should defintely try google or ask jeeves!
*Randy T*

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I'm a 13 grl and I'm really self concious about my body. I always think I'm fat but my friends say I'm not.. But I think they r just being nice.. I've thought about becoming anerexic. I know how it hurts ur body and stuff but I dont care. I've eaten less in tha last few days. Am i becoming anerexic? How do you know if you are?

Lot's of girls have anorexia. If your friends say you're skinny, believe me, you're skinny. You can also go to your doctor and ask her if you're at a healthy weight for your age. Right now, you're not anorexic. To be anorexic, you don't eat at all. Don't become anorexic! People die. It's not safe. You are wasting the beautiful body that God gave you. It's not worth it at all. When you are anorexic, you are being selfish to your body. You can lose weight by eating healthy, Lots of veggies and fruits, grains, meats, and not a lot of sugar.
Do your friends and family a favor, and don't become anorexic. God gave you this body, and to thank him, you can treat it well.
American magazines tell girls that being skinny is the only way to be beautiful. That's not true. Look at girls and women around you. That's what beautiful is. Everyone has a different body. You should be proud of it. Love yourself and love your frineds. To me, that's living a good life. Don't become anorexic.
*Randy T*

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Is there anyway to get rid of acne and blackheads fast or at least to get less of it?? PLEASE TELL ME!! I'm 13 and a girl

Wash your face twice a day, I do it with Noxema. Also, astrigant works well. They have some kind for blackheads and acne. Any facewash will work.
*Randy T*

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ok, i'm about to make some prayer bracelets for myself, but i have no clue what to pray on. any ideas???

World peace...anything you want. Be creative. If you can spell and write, you can make a prayer bracelet easily.
*Randy T*

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Can you get pregnant from pre-cum?

There's always that possibility. If you don't want to get pregnant, use protection. Remember, if you're old enough to have sex, you're old enough for the consequences. So use protection!!! :)(:
*Randy T*

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dear advice giver,
I am 13 years old and I do not like my body. I am young for my grade and I am considered rather small in my grade. But what bothers me the most is that I have no breats. I can't even fit into a size A yet. All my friends have breasts but I am as flat as a cardboard. Consider this, I am a size 34 in sports bras but not the size A to go with it. My mom is a 34B and she says that she grew at a slow rate. Please help.
-arielle-

It's okay. If you want, you could buy a push-up bra. I don't reccomend stuffing, because that can be really bad. You don't want the stuff to fall out do you? You will get breasts. It's not the end of the world. I'm sure that there are TONS of girls who develop slowly. I promise, it's okay, and just wait. Soon, you WILL have breasts! And if you don't want to wait, you can go buy a push-up bra.
*Randy T*

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heyy i normally answer questions but now i got one!.. alright well im moving in january and my christmas presents are mainly going to be stuff for my new room.. but the thing is i dont want to get really expensive stuff because were gunna be spending a lot of money on the house.. so i need awsome but inexpensive stuff, i already went to ikea, and pottery barn teen.. and i picked out some awsome stuff.. anyone have any other low priced bedroom places?! x3

Kohls, Target, defintely Pottery Barn Teen. Go to a mall, check out stores that look interesting to you. Target had a lot of cool things for dorm rooms.
*Randy T*

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hey i am a girl and i am totally freaking over my braces i am going to be getting i don't know what colors to get and all of my friends tell me it hurts when they tighten them does it really hurt?
i need some good advice quick o yeah tell some colors 2 (I AM A GIRL) thanks i rate high .

Yes, it hurts when the orthodontist tightens your braces.It hurts for about a day or two. It's not a big deal. Plenty of kids get braces and you aren't going to be the only one at school with them. I had pink and green braces for awhile. Then I had clear. They have a little color pallet for you when they put on your braces. Then you just pick one or two colors, and they'll put them on. I promise, braces aren't that bad. You get used to them.
*Randy T*

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Ok, well, i've been looking around advicenators and stuff. I noticed all these kids between ages 13-15 are so damn caught up on sx and shit. Well, for you to know, I'm 13, and in my town people are so layed back. It's a really small town. I know almost like everyone in the middle school which are ages 12-15. No, one does any of that shit. They all think it's stupid at this age. You never have to worry about having sex at the right time and when. Everyone is like a virgin in my school. I was really confused and distirbed about this......do you think 13-15 is to young to be having sex or not? I'm so confused. Is there something in my town that we're not getting?
thnx so much

-roxy-

Sex isn't stupid. Sex is a beautiful and natural thing, and I think that it's the partners' choice whether they want to have sex or not. I'm sure that there are tons of virgins at middle school, but wait till highschool. It'll change. You can have your own opinion, and I have mine.
*Randy T*

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oK..I'm 13 5'4 and about 98 pounds..I used to be skinny and stuff but now I'm starting to get a big belly. I run and do situps and drink water and try to eat healthy and everything, but I starting to get larger than I should be. Any ideas on how to keep a flat stomache and stop gaining to much more because I used to see myself good now Im huge. sorry if thats kinda long.
~please help

Good Lord, STOP IT! You are not fat. Maybe you look like you are to yourself, but there is no way that you are fat. Girls today say how fat they are, when they are so skinny. It's not right. Don't worry about your weight. It's not worth it, unless you are like 250 pounds or 300. So quit worrying. You aren't fat, and I highly doubt that you ever will be. If you don't believe me, ask your doctor or go to www.am-i-fat.com.
*Randy T*
YOU ARE NOT FAT!

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Ok, I LOVE my family to death. My mom's best friend is like family to us, and she has a son and daughter. Her son is a month younger than my little sister (my sis and I r 4 years apart) and her daughter is a little younger. We're always together and I get so bored because I have nobody my age. please help me!

Get involved with a sports team, hang out with your best friend. I know who you are, and you know that you have tons of friends to hang out with. Call us up! Play games with the kids too, I'm sure they feel really special especially the littlest girl. (A)
You can also make a collage for your room, read a book, dance, watch TV, try new makeup stuff, try new hairstyles, pamper yourself and do masks...stuff that you like doing.
*Randy T*

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Hey! This guy likes me. He was involved in drugs and this rumor went around the school that he had sex with another girl. He told me it wasn't true when i asked him about it. But then more people tell me more about the rumor....like they read conversations that happened between the two and that the girl might be pregnant. I kinda like him but now that i heard all this it makes me wonder what really truly happened. Some of my friends tell me he wants to ask me out but doesn't know if i'll say yes. I want to say yes cuz besides all that's happened he's really sweet...but i can't make my mind up! Please help me! Ifit helps we're 13.
- Confused!

Confused,
I remember at school when i was your age that so many rumours went around like people were having sex. I remember that this one girl told everybody that her boyfriend took off her pants and tried to have sex with her. Of course, none of it was true. I'd say to make sure that he isn't doing drugs anymore. If you like him, go for it! If you think you don't wanna go out with somebody who was accused of having sex and doing drugs, don't go out with him. And in my opinion, going out in middle school, is kind of pointless. You guys are so young and fresh...why would you want to grow up so fast?! Life is short. Do what you want in life, and try not to regret it. It's your life. And you should live it the way you want to. Don't let others tell you how to live your life. You are the boss of you (of course you got your parents). Follow your heart and trust your instinct!! Good luck. :)
*Randy T*

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There is this guy that ive likes for awhile now and he is a junior and i am a fresman.(highschool) He is one of the sweetest guys i have ever met and we get along really well. He called me and asked me if i wanted to go to the movies with him the on the weekend and i said yes. then i saw him two days after that and he said he really liked me but he just wanted to be friends because he thought about it and the fact that im two years younger then him scares him because he doesnt think i want a relationship. Its been a week since all of that has happened and now he doesnt hug me when he sees me and he doesnt go out of his way to talk to me. i still REALLY like him and i want to tell him id be ready for a relationship but i dont want to seem desprite and i dont want to bug him about it. should i just try to forget about him or what?

thanks for the help :o)

For now, I think that you should be friends. Be close friends. Hang out a lot, you know. Maybe he'll catch the hint. Just stay pals for now and hang out a lot. Maybe later he'll realize that he was wrong and you might get a boyfriend!! Good luck, but always follow your heart!
*Randy T*

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How do you get rid of freckles?

You can't get rid of freckles. Sorry! :) You should read Freckle Juice.
*Randy T*

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Hey um im having some super makeup problems .. ive got wicked long eye lashes .. super green eyes .. and kinda small eye brows .. theyre skinny hah .. but yeah anyway .. i need some ideas for new eye makeup .. im so getting bored with the black eyeliner in the top of my eyelid and the bottom .. gets boring .. i wanna go to school and wow people .. i rate high!! thanks

Hey! I have really long long eyelashes too. You should wear a medium light blue eyeshadow. Try brown eyeliner too, just to see if you like it. I think blue would look great on you, with the way that you described yourself. Have fun!
*Randy T*

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I've had my period for almost 10 months now and it still doesn't come on the same days or "schedule" or whatever. I don't know when I am going to get it, because it's such a bad frequency. I don't want to leak in school, and I'm always scared that I did leak, and I didn't notice, and like people are laughing behind my back. I just don't know what to do. I don't wear pads either so..please help?

All girls have weird cycles. I know somebody who had their period for a YEAR straight!! You can stick one in your pocket or lunch bag if you bring a lunch. There should be nothing wrong with that. All girls get their period, and if any guys make fun of it, they can be called...hmm, lets see. Assholes!! ;)
I'd say stick it in a back pocket or anyplace that you have. Sweatshirt pocket...Whatever!
*Randy T*

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sry i didnt know what category to put this under..but what really is cutting? i know you like cut urself but is it to let out anger? or do you do it to actually try to kill urself?? plz i need to know this my friend does it and im scared!

Some people cut because they are upset or they don't feel happy. They feel really depressed. I did. I had a lot of problems going on with my older sister and I cut because i was mad at myself and mad at her. I think every person cuts for a different reason. (The people that actually cut, i mean) I don't cut anymore because I told my sister and she told me how many people loved me and cared, so i stopped. My friend also gave me a rubberband and told me to snap it three times on the area i wanted to cut, and you know what? It helped so much!
Just be the best friend that you can be to your friend right now. Tell her about the rubberband technique and give her hugs and just be there for her. Do what you would want your friend to do for you if you were in that situation. Good luck and I hope everything gets better.
*Randy T*

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omg i have tried ban, teen spirit, secret, and dove deodarants and none work for me! does anyone have any that work for them that may work for me? cuz i am tired of my shirt be wet from sweat underneath my armpits, and being afraid that someone is gonna see it...plz help!

Have you tried Suave before? Or Dry Idea? It works really well! Try em!
*Randy T*

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How long does an akle sprain usually take to go away, and is it smart to be running track right after it?

Mmmmm, nope i wouldn't run. You should ice it and take it easy. It usually takes 2-3 days.
*Randy T*

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How do u get a guy to think that u r hott? and want to go out with u

You can't make a guy like you. What you can do is be yourself or try new hairstyles if you really like the guy. It's pretty much immpossible to get a guy to like you, but you could get some friends to talk to him about you and say like, "Yeah, you should totally go out with her!"
*Randy T*

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