Hey! This guy likes me. He was involved in drugs and this rumor went around the school that he had sex with another girl. He told me it wasn't true when i asked him about it. But then more people tell me more about the rumor....like they read conversations that happened between the two and that the girl might be pregnant. I kinda like him but now that i heard all this it makes me wonder what really truly happened. Some of my friends tell me he wants to ask me out but doesn't know if i'll say yes. I want to say yes cuz besides all that's happened he's really sweet...but i can't make my mind up! Please help me! Ifit helps we're 13.
- Confused!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? GroverTheStoNer answered Sunday November 28 2004, 11:07 pm: Confused,
I remember at school when i was your age that so many rumours went around like people were having sex. I remember that this one girl told everybody that her boyfriend took off her pants and tried to have sex with her. Of course, none of it was true. I'd say to make sure that he isn't doing drugs anymore. If you like him, go for it! If you think you don't wanna go out with somebody who was accused of having sex and doing drugs, don't go out with him. And in my opinion, going out in middle school, is kind of pointless. You guys are so young and fresh...why would you want to grow up so fast?! Life is short. Do what you want in life, and try not to regret it. It's your life. And you should live it the way you want to. Don't let others tell you how to live your life. You are the boss of you (of course you got your parents). Follow your heart and trust your instinct!! Good luck. :)
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