Name: Liz (nickname=fish)
Eyes: Green
Height: (ha like you care) about 5 feet 5 inches
Hair: Currently dark red, some light streaks, and of course, all spiky in the back
Hometown: St. Louis, MO
Age: 15
Occupation: being a sophmore, helping out my friends
Interests: Music (vinyl now but I have a ton of cds of various cool people), local shows (check out my buddy tim's band, One Down. they're gonna be huge one day), Art, English (Creative writing), doing random weird things
"A zebra does not change it's spots." -Al Gore
"I don't really trust a sane person." -Lyle Alzado.
Happy Noodle Boy is the funniest thing since Homestarrunner.com but Thora Birch is the "bestest". And for some strange reason, Joey Jordison of Slipknot and Murderdolls is scary yet hot. I don't know but I like to think that I do- so in the words of Ricky from American Beauty, "Never underestimate the power of denial."
Peace. Out.
Gender: Female
Location: St. Louis, Missouri
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
Member Since: June 21, 2004
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ne one kno a store where u can buy "punk" type clothes? my mall has all abercrombie etc and im just looking for a place where i can find my type of clothing except for like hot topic and stuff...they r really nice except expenisive and more gothic. so help if u can thanks alot :) (link)
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Well, usually the best "punk" outfits are a mix of stuff from many places. Basically anything you own that you know doesn't really go together- put them together and well...you've got yourself a punk outfit. One time I wore black tights, chucks, a hoodie with a shirt and skirt and people kept telling me I looked punk. Or the other time with the waistcoat, argyle socks, and brown cut-off pants. Go to every thrift store you know of, and if you don't know any, break out the phone book and look up "vintage clothing" or something along those lines. Goodwill is great and it's cheap. Salvation Army, any place like that. go to places that you already love and just mix up what you wear. Don't be afraid to alter stuff- you can make things punk if they didn't look like it before. Honestly, I don't consider what I wear punk, but people tell me I am all the time.
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I think i am very fat. I am 5'1 and i weight 110 pounds..all my friends are tall and they weigh more than me but are skinnier than me. They are all 13 and i am still 12. Sometimes I feel like I am the fattest 12 yr old in the world. Do you think there is a way I could slim up my body? If so could you tell me how? I would really appreciate it. (link)
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Find out what your Body Mass Index is. You can find out (usually) from a gym teacher, school nurse, definately your doctor, and in this month's National Geographic. Guess what? You don't even have to find out, because I can tell you right now, with the National Geo in my hand, that you are not fat. It's just the way you view yourself. Don't compare yourself to your friends or other people's bodies. It's not healthy. When you start to think, "I'm soooo fat", look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself to quit lying to yourself. YOU. AREN'T. FAT. If you want to talk about simply toning muscles, get on your bike and ride around about three times a week for half an hour. It's fun, and it makes you look good. But dude, you aren't fat.
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Hey, i had a friend problem, like 2 months ago. All my friends had ditched meeh cause they thought i was a bad influenced and i had hurt them too much..when i don't do drugs i dont smoke,. i dont know why they did that. Now they think that i've made a mistake they can never be my friiend again, what do ii do!?
Kimmey (link)
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If they've progressed into the silent treatment and won't tell you what you did wrong, then move on. They probably just like drama and got bored and thought they should stir something up. It's kind of vague for someone to say "you're a bad influence and you're hurting us too much" and also odd for an entire group to say to one person. If you ever read "Odd Girl Out" you'll understand what I'm saying. It's kind of like a power struggle. If you're the one that's sort of in charge, they'll resent you for it. Realize that they're being lame and frankly immature (granted, I don't know the whole story so I'm taking your word for it) and you should move on to people who will actually give you reasons for why they're angry. That's so gradeschool to say you're mad at someone and then leave them in the dark about why.
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i want to paint my room black, and then splat paint it with bright pink. i thin kit would look awsome!!it would really reflect my wild, punk personality..im sure it would. but my mom says she will never paint my room black. i get soooooo pissed off!!!! nop matter what i do she always says no. i want the theme to be pink and black no matter what. please tell me what to do or how to get my mom to consider it!!!
please help!!
-britski- (link)
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That would look awesome....wish I'd thought of that when we painted my room...Anyway, first, ask your mom what IS allowed. That way, you don't get shot down all the time. If she gives you a bunch of lame ideas that you hate, take her to a decorating place. Go to places like Home Depot and pick up a ton of paint swatches and booklets- they have a lot of good ideas in them and she might be able to visualize how cool it could actually look. If she's totally opposed to painting the entire room solid black (my mom's kind of anti-black colored stuff- not people- stuff, too. Lucky for me, she lightened up) try doing the whole pink on black thing differently. I would do vertical stripes of black and pink- it should make the room feel bigger and the ceiling higher. But first find out what's acceptable, then start figuring out what you want to do.
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i've never had a boyfriend, but everytime someone likes me and i feel like they are leading towards asking me out or anything i get really nervous and uncomfortable and i just wish i was out of the situation...i'm hoping it's just because i haven't really liked any of them, but is this normal?? (link)
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Yeah it's normal. I'm the exact same way. I tend to think it's a fear of not being in control. You trick yourself into thinking that if you go out with someone, you might lose control of your life and stop doing things you love, etc. But the truth is, you really are in control of your life- you can break it off whenever you want to. Inexperience is kind of overwhelming when the media makes it seem like everyone is dating at all times. They aren't. The world does not revolve around it and if you ask around, the people you thought were always dating either haven't or aren't/haven't dated in a long time. It seems like a big deal, but really it isn't. Have some confidence in yourself and be willing to take a risk...*reads pep-talk back to self*
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Ok, My names Mike and I was wondering, I'm a very random person and will do anything to get a laugh from anyone. So. I do alot of random stupid things just to get a luagh, but sometimes the things I do make people think I'm just a retard. So, I'm wondering if anyone thinks that people like me are funny and great to have aound? And what I mean by people like me is, people with no care of what people think and will is unhibited and will act wild and crazy just for kicks. (link)
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Yes, people like you are great to have around and are without a doubt funny. That is, you are funny, unless you're extremely loud to the point of being obnoxious. You need to know when to stop and you need to know your audience. I personally think it's great that you don't care what people think and do what you want but you have to be sure that you're being genuine at the same time. I have a friend who does crazy things for laughs, but when you talk to him alone, he says that's not who he really is and that he uses being crazy as a mask. That makes people question whether they know you or not. Make sure you aren't always acting. Other than that, continue on being your crazy, uninhibited self.
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i'm 12 and i started my 1st period june 15. i heard u were supposed to get it every 28 days and i'm about a week late if that's the case! could i be pregnant, i mean i havn't had sex, but could i be? plz help!
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No. You haven't had sex= no pregnancy. You are supposed to get it around every 28 days, however, if you just started last month, then you aren't on a regular cycle yet. So relax, you aren't pregnant.
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I have auburn/light brown hair and I want to temporarily dye it. I've been told Kool-aid will work on blonde hair.. but will it work on darker hair? My natural color is almost black... so that might have an effect too....
What color of kool-aid should I use on my hair.... and will the kool-aid wash out...
my parents wont let me dye my hair permanently again... so I need something that will wash out in the next day or two....
Please help me! (link)
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Well, if your hair is that dark, it might not have much of an effect. I've been told it can turn out pretty bright colors and lasts a long time. So, if you're looking for something that's temporary, look for that word on the box of hair dye. If you're going for the crazy colors, then use something cheap that washes out fast. But if you want a sort of natural color, you can actually get your hair dyed temporarily at a salon if you want it done right. That lasts about a month but fades back into your natural hair color.
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do girls like a guy to be to sensitive or not sensitive at all (link)
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Be a mix of both. Meaning, you don't constantly fall to pieces and start crying hysterically about everything and at the same time you aren't the stereotypical jock. Just be respectful and understanding.
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What would you do if you found out when you and your boyfriend broke up that one of your good friends went over to his house and they ended having sex and when you asked both of them about it they said no...then the next time you asked they tell you that they did and how sorry they are and they wish they could take it back... Please help me im really hurt about this because it happend just 2weeks ago and i found when i was back together with him..?.. (link)
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That's a lame thing to say....your friend and your boyfriend should have thought first before acting and/or speaking. They aren't thinking of how this'll make you feel and you probably shouldn't be dating this guy. And you should talk to your friend- she just broke the unwritten code of friendship where you don't date- much less sleep with- your friend's ex unless you talk to them first. See where your friend's priorities are and decide where to go from there. Ditch the boyfriend.
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I had asked a question about denial..and I thought I would elaborate to make it easier to comprehend the question. Just for your knowledge and information, I am a 14 year-old girl. Someone was saying I have muscle tone in my cheeks and I was like what!? Then he said "Denial is the first stage?" What does this mean? Thanks! (link)
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huh... that is a very strange thing to say- "You have muscle tone in your cheeks". Well, he probably doesn't even know what he's saying. Saying denial is the first stage is one of the stages of acceptance- usually for something you lost or for something that died. So to say that you're in denial of facial muscle tone.....yeeeeeah...he doesn't know what he's saying.
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Does black really match with anything? (link)
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Dude...black matches with EVERYTHING. I should know....my whole wardrobe is almost solid black. Almost, I do have some color.
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i wanna have sex b4 i'm 15...sum of my friendz tell me 2 wait, what do i do? (link)
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You do what your friends tell you (on this one at least) and WAIT. Don't put yourself on a calendar for this, you'll regret it in the long run. It won't make you popular, it won't make you cool, it won't make guys like you and most of the one's who will- well, they'll be using you. I know people who sleep around a lot- they aren't respected by ANYONE. So slow down and save it for when you're really really really in love and it counts. Throwing your virginity at some random guy just because you want to get it over with is not a good idea.
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I met this boy at the beginning of the summer, but we liked eachother the first time we talked. After hanging out a couple times, we started going out. He isn't a virgin + supposedly got a girl pregnant awhile ago. He never pressures me or anything. I know I won't do unless I'm totally ready + totally in love. I'm starting to actually love this boy! I'm just scared I won't measure up to some of his old gfs + that I want to take things slow. He says he really loves me + that I'm different from all his old gfs and he likes + respects that. Should I stay with him? (link)
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Sure. If he respects you and knows your views on sex, etc., and isn't pressuring you, then yes go ahead and stay with him. Apparently he doesn't want you to be anything like his old girlfriends- which is great! It means you don't have to worry about measuring up to them. Go ahead and take things slow. Whatever you end up doing will be more meaningful if you do.
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heheh i know this sounds stupid, but whenever me n my b/f are alone 2gether, its like we dont talk much, and we feel really akward, like were forced 2 be hangin out 2gether.. which def. isnt the case tho. i mean, i try 2 be all outgoing and stuff, but i feel like he doesnt even wanna talk even tho its awkward in the car.. any ideas 2 get rid of the akward silences besides bringing up random convos? cuz i already do that... he just answers my question, then doesnt expand on it.. and im always the one askin Qs about his life.. he never asks about mine in person... see, hes a totally different person online than in person.. when hes IM'ing me, he talks like hes happy 2 be with me, and flirts alot, but i dont think he feels comfortable around me yet cuz we only been goin out 3 weeks.. help anyone? (link)
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It's only been three weeks so slow down. Sometimes people don't transition well from friend to boyfriend (or friend to girlfriend) and it's awkward for them. He's trying to find out where he stands in the relationship, so don't pressure him so much. Sometimes people are also just weird with different forms of communication. For example, I'm completely fine in person and online, but I'm really awkward on the phone. There isn't really an explanation for it, it's just the way things are. So if it makes you uncomfortable, talk to him about it and find out what the issue is. Just make sure you don't sound like you're accusing him- he'll only get defensive and it'll make things worse.
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I recently lost my virginity, the girl was my age, 15, but she's already had 6 guys before me, which at least to me sounds like a huge amount. I know she's a really wonderful person, and ever since it happened I've been even more attracted to her, not just wanting to have sex again, but actually wanting to get to know her better and hang out more. I just want to know if its possible that she gets the same feeling about me or does sex become less special the more a persons done it. (link)
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I'd say it's possible that she feels the same way. Ask her and find out. She'll probably appreciate someone taking the time to ask her what she thinks and how she feels. To some people, sex isn't really important to them, in regards to love and all that. But of course, there's always the opposites of that. If you know why she's slept with six guys, that usually helps. It tends to show a pattern- whether or not these people were important to her at the time. It may just be that she thinks that sex is what guys want so if she gives herself up, then they'll like her more. Obviously it worked for you, but she may just like the attention. Find out what her intentions are and go from there.
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i like this guy, and i think he likes me to. but my sister told me she also likes him. i really like this guy!!what should i do if i lke him and my sister does too. he acts like he likes me though. (link)
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Don't do anything with him. You have to live with your sister FOREVER so you don't want to jeopardize your relationship over some guy. Either have a heart-to-heart with her and decide who gets him, or play it safe and decide that neither of you get him. Guys come and go, but your sister...she'll be by your side a lot longer.
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i like this guy at skool and he really loves me and he asks me out all the time.hes not very popular tho and im afarid that ppl will make fun of me. plz help me!!! thanks (link)
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Dude, who cares? If you like a guy and he likes you back, then go out with him. His popularity shouldn't be an issue. Don't care about what those other people think, it's not important and you'll regret not doing the things you wanted to do later on. You only live once, so go out with him regardless of what people say. If they can't handle it...well, so be it. Besides, you're the one in the relationship, not them- so don't let them influence you.
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me n my boyfriend always break up and then make up. it's getting kinda old and i'm always getting hurt. i just cant help myself from going back to him all the time, i guess its because i truly love him. i'm just so sick of getting hurt when one day he'll be all lovey-dovey to me and the next day he'll be so rude n ignorant. i feel that we're going to break up again and in a lil while he'll come running back. what should i do? i think we really do love eachother though. (link)
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Ah yes, the vicious cylce of make-up/break-up. These things never work, no matter how much you want them to. It's almost a power struggle. Like "let's see if I can make you feel like crap and then lure you back in when you're vulnerable and lonely." Don't keep doing this. It's all about the drama, and drama does not a good relationship make. So break it off for good this time. Maybe it'll be a reality for your boyfriend that he can't play tug-of-war with people's feelings.
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Help guys, I'm scared to go to the club with my friends because I don't know how to dance! Like even when were just jokin aroudn and dancing I won't do it because I don't know how. I don't know how to move my arms, legs, or stomache. I honestly need help!
Thank You sooooo much (link)
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Do you mean you NEVER dance? Not even in front of a mirror alone in your room? Because if you can dance in front of a mirror alone, you can dance in public. It's all about confidence, my friend. And if you actually don't dance alone in front of mirrors (like myself- I'm always dancing in my room) then start doing that. Get used to moving with the beat. It really doesn't matter what you're doing. I've actually just swayed before and people said I was good at dancing. Really, just act like you know what you're doing and people will look over and think, "Hey, she knows what she's doing". There is no wrong way to dance, so if people make stupid comments, well, they probably don't know how to dance "properly" either and are just intimidated. Learn to move to the music and not care about what people are thinking.
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