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boyfriend problems
me n my boyfriend always break up and then make up. it's getting kinda old and i'm always getting hurt. i just cant help myself from going back to him all the time, i guess its because i truly love him. i'm just so sick of getting hurt when one day he'll be all lovey-dovey to me and the next day he'll be so rude n ignorant. i feel that we're going to break up again and in a lil while he'll come running back. what should i do? i think we really do love eachother though.
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I have been in this position. Me and my ex-boyfriend Brian were in a long distance relationship, and we broke up alot in the course of 2 years. I know what it feels like to lose someone over and over again. Eventually your heart will become numb to everything, because you wont care what happens in your relationship anymore. Its very possible that you two do love eachother, but you just arent right for each other. If this is really bothering you, please consider breaking up with him for good. I know it sounds terrible, but I promise you will benefit from it. If you need to talk to me my AIM screen name is Aminem2388
I really hope I helped and I would be happy to talk to you any time!!
<3 Amber
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Ah yes, the vicious cylce of make-up/break-up. These things never work, no matter how much you want them to. It's almost a power struggle. Like "let's see if I can make you feel like crap and then lure you back in when you're vulnerable and lonely." Don't keep doing this. It's all about the drama, and drama does not a good relationship make. So break it off for good this time. Maybe it'll be a reality for your boyfriend that he can't play tug-of-war with people's feelings.
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hey.. i don`t mean to be rude or make yu feel worse but yu really shouldn`t let him treat yu like that... yu shouldn`t let anyone hurt yu, physically or emotionally! if he is rude and ignorant like yu say he is, then he`s just not worth yur time.. i`m really sry! hope i helped
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For what reasons are you breaking up and how old are you? Leave one in the inbox and I'd love to help you.
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You should tell your boyfriend that you get hurt when you guys break up and that he means a lot to you. Then maybe he'll realize that he has someone that loves him. Tell him your sick of breaking up over and over again. For what reasons do you guys break up?
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I think you need to tell your guy you're sick of this break up, make up thing.
It would drive me nuts, I know. Tell him what you're feeling, and that you think you really love each other, but you're getting tired of this.
It sounds to me like he's sending you mixed messages. One day he loves you, one day he hates you...that's not good. He needs to know that, and you need to tell him.
I hope this works out!
-Siren =)
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