I just got my period again today (not the first time) But I have a wicked bad cramp. Like I came home from school because it was way too unbearable. Any ways on how to make it less painful other than take advil or w/e cuz i already did.
Hi ... midol will help. In the main time do some excerises as well.
Nicole
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i wont to have sex is it right at 15
Hi ... 15 is too young to have sex. Really!! But it's ur decision and your body (that excuse is so old). But really, do wat u want-Be careful either way!
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Hello, I have recieved several threatening letters over the past year from my father. The threats include having me put in hospital, also stating that he has had a curse put on my daughter and myself to ensure that something bad happens to us, and general insults and abuse aimed at my wife daughter and myself. We have really had enough of this, is there anything I can do and should I go to the police ? I am convinced that he is going to pay someone to come and do physical harm to my family or myself. He is quite old and in a poor state of health, but is and has always been a very brutal person having caused misery and suffering over many years mainly to his wife and children. All I have done to promt these letters is to write to him listing his bad deeds over the years and telling him what I thaught of his behaviour, this was without any aimed insults from me. My letter to him was in response to further bad behavior on his part.
Yours and Best Regards
Daniel
Well Daniel, I doubt he really means any of his threats. He's afraid to die so that why he's been brutal. However, my advice to you is that u pray to God for his protection. Its not norm for a father to do so. And if in anyway you still feel threaten that physical harm will be done, by all means inform the authorities. Amd if you like, don't respond to his mails. That'll keep him aloof for a while. And you and your family can get on with life.
I'll be prayin' for ya, bc there's nothin' to difficult for God to do.
Hope I helped.
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Well lets see where do i start.. My mom and step dad got in a fight yesterday over my step dad not going places with her *like movies,out to eat,work out..* well anyways after a couple hours of all this my step dad left to go to work.. so then a little bit later my mom called me down stairs and was like you better end your relationship with your boyfriend soon cause he'll get you to where you dont wanna leave him *he already does* adn then he'll hurt you and he wont want to do anything with you anymore.. well then it turned into a big arguement with me and my mom she never exactly met my boyfriend *we been together almost a year.. and she thinks she knows this boy and thinks he's a complete asshole like my step dad is to her.. well anyways i said shit like that to her.. and she said okay whatever you'll see then... Well later on that night i was talkin to my boyfriend and then i started think bout what my mom said * i know i shouldnt let that shit get to me* but it bothered me and i brought it up to my boyfriend and he got mad and i hung up on him... then he texted me and said *baby im so sorry i love you, and that he dont want my mom interfering with our relationship..cause im the only person who he needs in his life cause im always there for him through anything..* Aww isnt it sweet well him and me are cool... but what should i say to my mom so this dont happen again...?
Just tell sit your mum down and tell her that not all men are like your step father. And I know your b/f better than she does, so you know that he's not at all like your step father. She'll understand. Hey, be calm when you're talkin' to her - even if she gets all defensive and angry. '...Soft words turns away wrath.' She'll come to realize the truth of your words, and have a different attitude towards your guy, and other men as well. Good luck.
Nicole
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I love this girl but I dont think she has any feeling for me.
I think she like other guy but i have such strong feeling for her.
I told her how I feel about her but she pretty much said there is no chance between us two.
What should I do?
I dont know if I can live without her
U always give ppl good advices, plz help me
First of all, YOU CAN live without her. Second of all, there's a possiblity that she can, may change her mind in the future. Maybe now, its true that there's no chance b/w you two- match forward. You'll find another gurl to have strong/stronger feelin' for. In the meantime, try to forget her. I think there is another girl who likes you too, but u just aren't noticin'.
Hope I helped.
Nicole
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... there's a man who's hittin' on me. I'm 20 he's 13 yrs my senior, married but no kids. I don't like him at all, but it seems that he CANNOT stop thinkin' 'bout/of me. I've been dealin' with this since Valentines, and i've ignored him (it been exam period so I don't see him as often in the halls), told him i wasn't interested and that he should stick to his wife. But Now that exams are over, He's back to haunt me. I'm not sure wat to do. I do not want to call the police because he's not stalkin' me, or callin' me or hurtin' me (except mentally and emotionally). Because of him, i'm shyin' away from all guys. And its not fair to the ones that are really interested in me. WHAT DO I DO?
signed,
NOM.
Hi,This is a tough prob. u're in. You should warn him for the very last time and inform authorities of he's behaviour. I would tell his wife asap as well.
Hope I helped.
Nicole
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I just broke up with my girlfriend but i still really really like her but i dont thinnk she likes me anymore i cant stop thinking about her what should i do??
Well, i think you'll forget her in time. It's not a bam-bam thing to forget about an ex-b/f or g/f. It'll take time. For the main time, you said u don't think she likes you anymore? who initated the breakup? And if she did, wat was her reason? If you did, wat was your reason?
If you find out that she still likes you and you're still into her (can't forget her) then, i guess there's a second chance for ya then. All you gotta do is talk to her.
Hope I helped.
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ok the guy who im basicaly going out with and we are inlove well he called me crying from work and he told me he doesnt know whats wrong and he is thinking about suicide and stuff and he just wants the world to die basically but i dont know why i need help to figure out what to do he is going to come over to my house in like three hours and i need to think of something fast and i want to know what is wrong does anyone have any clue or knows what im going throug???
I don't know what you're going through but i know that your b/f is somehow unhappy /or depressed . I think it might have to do with family, school, work, or other things., There's no knowin' for sure until you've talked to him. Sit him down and listen to EVERYTHIN' he says. He really needs to talk to someone ... (you) if he was cryin'. You said that he said he was thinkin' about sucide? Well, he'll need more help that the one you'll give him. If the things he tells you are pretty serious or no serious at all and if he repeats the fact that he still thinks about sucide, suggest that he see's a counsellor. That's my advice, I hope it works out.
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ok... so i have been playing defense (soccer) for awhile... almost a year or even two... but i have been playing soccer since i was in 3rd grade and im a sophmore in highschool now... i have played every position before mostly mid... but i have a game sunday and my friend's friend came to one of our practices and told my friend that i have a nice kick, like shot on net... and my friend told me i should forget D and play mid but the thing is my couch wants me to stay back... i don't know what to do... should ask my couch or should i stay on D... i rate pretty high
Gomesy
I think there's a very good reason why you couch has suggested you stay back. Maybe your're the team's right hand. And you can't just talk your friends word for it either. This is wat you should do. Think about what position you feel you are comfortable at. Then think where the team needs you the most (you can't be selfish at teamwork). If you're convienced you want to be at mid, def., and so on, talk to your couch. Give him/her reasons for you decision and see what happens. Hope I helped.
Nicole.
ps... I'm in Canada and we use a different term for school. Who exactly are the 'sophmores' and how old should they be? Thanks.
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Is it possible to be in love when your 13? Im turning 14 in July but still....his mom wont let him date until like a 'year down the road" (thats what she told me) and we are both willing to wait until his mom 'allows' him to date....ive never liked somebody so much in my life! And hes not even the hottest thing in the world hes the sweetest, funniest, adorablest guy in the world....and ive NEVER felt this way about ANYBODY....i LoVe him....but still is it possible to fall in love when your 13?
Your question: Is it possible to fall in love at 13? Oh of course it's possible. I ist fell "in love" when i was 11 - too young eh? lolz. But it's not love we feel at a young age. Its more like a Carin', Understandin' and Compatiblity and maybe comfort. I wouldn't even say its a crush, or Infatuation. Especially, like yours, if the guy/gurl is not hot/cute watever. The last time i felt i was in-love, i was 15. I'm still a child (nobody thinks so but...), yet still feel that way towards him. But i realised that was/is a carin'. The truth is that true love comes from & with maturity. Not until then do we experience true love. I hope i helped. You could always tell me if i didn't.
Nicole.
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ok..i really screwed up, i know. heres my story. my BEST friend was going out with this guy for like 4 months, then they broke up for no particular reason, just that it wasnt really working out. but i became sort of friends with him while they were together. all my other friends said during the time they were together that the way he looked at me was as if he liked me and all that. i took no notice because i didnt want my to hurt my friend. once they broke up... and about 2 months later he called me and asked me if he could come over. i said yes. we rented some movies and watched them. then we started fooling around and one thing led to another and we were all over each other and making out! we didnt have sex though. he left and i felt enormous amounts of guilt because i promised myself and my best friend that nothing would ever happen between me and him. i didnt want to tell her but i figured she had a right to know. i asked other people about what to do and almost all of them said that i should tell her. so 4 days later i did. she didnt take it so well. she hasnt talked to me since. she has sent me messages of abuse, turned my other friends against me, wont talk to me about it. i say to her that i will talk when shes ready to talk- she says shes not ready yet..then sends me messages saying that i am avoiding her- i am just giving her the space she needs or wants rather. all i am asking is what should the next step that i take be?? should i confront her to her face and tell her that we are talking about this now whether you like it or not...or just leave it!!?? Please help me! i am really stuck.
Hi ... i think you should get to face her. Tell her that you haven't been avoidin' her or whatever else she's been thinkin'/feelin'. And make sure you guys talk uninterrupted. You know what you did was wrong, don't be afraid to appologize more than once. Its hard I know, (been there) but once she's heard what you have to say, if she's a BEST friend, it'll take her some time to come to terms with it. It's normal. And don't be pissed if she doesn't appologize for the mean things she'ld done as well. She will do that later. Mean while, be the friend you could to her even if she and the world hates you for what you did.
Hope this helps.
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my friend cuts herself a lot like on a daily basis and i don't understand why she does it because she insists that she's fine and won't talk about it and i don't want to force her to because i don't really know what to say to her. what do i say to her and how can i help her?
Sorry I got this late, but, cuttin' one's self is one of the signs of depression. Your friend needs help. Its not healthy at all. I know you don't want to force her, but you could tell her how its not right to do so, and how she could get infected with deadly diseases if she continues with it.
She doesn't want to talk bc there's somethin' botherin' her. She doesn't/ can't tell. Ask her once again if whe wants to talk about why she does it- what exactly is botherin' her.
I'll also ask you to go talk to an adult. A school counsellor or a trusted teacher. Or if you're close to her family, tell the parent(s) (guardian). She might not like it but I'm sure you care (that's why you're askin' for help) and don't want anythin' bad to happen. She'll get over that. I don't know you, but you did the right thing, tryin' to help. I hope it works out and back to me if you wish. God bless ya.
Nicole
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We might all go to the movies saturday. We both were talking about how we wanted to see the new movie with ashton kutcher in it (gosh hes to die for, anyways haha)She said she wants to go with the girls saturday and when she told me that she had to leave I said yea so saturday since u said u want to go with some girls maybe we could all go. And she said she would like that. I dont know if she was saying that becasue shes a nice person and didnt want me to feel bad if she said no or maybe shes really up for the good night. I feel like i was just inviting myself but her to go with me also. I dont know how she feels about going with me but if we have a fun time then she would want to hang out with me and the girls together all the time, and we have hung out tons before. What should i do to make her want me in the group?
Sorry i got this late. First of all, are you talkin' about your best friend or another gurl in the group. I'm sorry u kinda lost me there. But anyhow's if its your best friend and you think she's sayin' that just to be nice, then that's not very nice of her. Bestfriends should be honest. Then again, there is a possiblity that she meant it. You'll know that on Saturday. Nevertheless, you shouldn't be the one to 'make her' want you to join the group'. She's suppossed 'make you' be in the group. Thats how best friends work. Not to bring you down or anythin' but think about this, if she wanted, you would have been in the group since the time she was in the group. (That's how i choose my bestfriends). So if i were you, i wouldn't push wantin' to be in the group. You can have your own group as well. If you're both very close, you might want to ask her if she thinks you're really or not fun to hang out with. If she's a true friend, she'll answer truthfully. You'll know if she means it or not.
I hope this helped. If not i'll be more than happy to recieve suggestions on how i answer questions like this. I apperciate your gettin' back to me. I'm happy I helped in the first place.
Nicole.
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Im actually starting to hang out with the people ive wanted to for about two years. I talk to them online and at school. They have a group of 4 people and if I join, it would feel weird becasue it seems to me like i would be brakng into their group when they might not want anymore friends in it. Im best friends with someone who is close with them and the only time i hang out with their group is when that best friend of mine asks us all to. I want to plan something on my own and i have talked to one of the girls about it she said it would be fun but how do i know if she says that to everyone who asks her to do something. Should i go for something that i dont know would work out but truley really want it to, or is their no point in even trying? How do I let the person know that i want to be in their group with out actually saying those exact words?
Okies ... first of all, i'm glad you finally got your wish. Secondly, if you are not sure whether she means it ('that your plan would be fun) then, you could always ask another one of the gurls, your best friend as well, if they think it'll be fun. There's no need jumping to conclusions that that gurl didn't mean it. You should ask others. Hope it helps.
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Thanks everyone for your advice but there's another problem. Many of you said that I'll go to him since he is shy. What if he rejects me? or what will i say to him once we are facing each other? Pls. help me. I rate 5's.
Rejection is part of life, and NOT the end of the world. If he rejects you, keep him as a friend. If he doesn't then 'way to go'!. There are other guys out there. But chances are he wouldn't reject you ... just think, he's SHY, so how many gurls has come up to him to ask him out? Make sure that once you guys are facin' eachother, be confident, be yourself. The words will come out smoothly on its own if you're calm, and not nervous.
Hope I helped.
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Ok, i have a crush on this guy in highschool, hes a freshman...im in 7th grade. For our town, its not a big deal to do that(just letting you know.) I only met him once and it was at a show. I'll be seeing him friday, cuz theres another show. But the problem is that he doesn't know me. Like he might, but I doubt it. I want him to notice me this friday, so how do I do it?
PLEASE HELP!!! thank you to who ever does help
P.s. My best guy freind is running the show and everything. Like he is in charge of it all
I'll take it that you're only 12. And this guy you like is prolly in grade 10/9. That's 4-5 yrs different. Well, I don't know how you can make him notice you. He prolly already knows you or doesn't like you said. Either way, he'll think you're too young. I say you go to the show and enjoy yourself. Talk to him when you have the chance (Don't tell him you have a crush on him okies?) and get to know him FIRST.
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I have a bad attitude about school and i cant change it. I have alot of missing math assingmets, i don want to do them: they are super hard. I hate school, I would rather laze around all day...
That does not seem like a question, BUT i'll say somethin'. First of all, trust me, YOU CAN change the bad attitude towards school. My sis did. I hate math... maybe more than you do, (though I don't lose my assignments, LOLZ) but that doesn't make me hate skool. I love skool, to be honest. Its the only time I get to get away from the house. Lazin' around all day won't get you far in life. You NEED skool to become somebody. Have you tired gettin' a tutor for math? That will help much. Exactly what do u want to be when you grow up? Think about that and take other subjects that u'll be enthuastic about. I'm guessin' you are no more than 15, so how about you start tryin' to change that attitude?. If you need help on ways to change that attitude, you can always holla me.
Hope I helped.
Nicole
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Well I been seeing this guy for about two months now and its great...sometimes. what I mean is that we dont always get a chance to see each other and when we do have a chance he goes riding with his boys. But then there are sometimes when he can be a SWEETHEART idk when he goes riding with his boys WHAT THE HELL IS HE RIDING??????? lol but sometime I feel that his friend are more inportant then me.
It's not that his friends are more important than you. He's still gettin' used to the fact that he has a girlfriend. He'll come around. Have you tired tellin' what he is doin'? You should talk to him and see what he says.
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Well first I would like to say hi to everyone! I just found out about this place. But i was wonderin if u could help me out. K my family wants to move but i don't want to move so far away from my friends and when ever i try to talk to them about it they tell me to ignore it cuz i have no say in it. Wat should i do? Thx
welcome! Try talkin' to your parents again. Give them reasons why u don't wanna move. If the answer's negative, then, i think u should not fight their decisons- there's got to be a great reason for their decision. You could always visit your friends. You guys could still keep in touch.
I hope this helps.
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hi, i am going to the prom this year and I going by my slef with a couple of freinds.I dont know what to do i mean to feel if i dont get chance dance any guy i know i can ask or something. i like this guy he say he dance with me but i htink he forget its ok keep remineding him that he promise me? or let him figure out his self?
Prom...once in a life time event(sigh). Its not a big deal if you asked him to dance. Its just a matter of how u feel about that idea. For my prom, no one asked ne one to dance. We just danced. Plus Its not a bad idea to let him figure it out himself either. But would you be disappointed if he doesn't? The best thing to do is just go the prom, there'll be alot of guys who will want to dance with you, and eventually, he'll come around to ask u to dance. And when he does, have fun.
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