... there's a man who's hittin' on me. I'm 20 he's 13 yrs my senior, married but no kids. I don't like him at all, but it seems that he CANNOT stop thinkin' 'bout/of me. I've been dealin' with this since Valentines, and i've ignored him (it been exam period so I don't see him as often in the halls), told him i wasn't interested and that he should stick to his wife. But Now that exams are over, He's back to haunt me. I'm not sure wat to do. I do not want to call the police because he's not stalkin' me, or callin' me or hurtin' me (except mentally and emotionally). Because of him, i'm shyin' away from all guys. And its not fair to the ones that are really interested in me. WHAT DO I DO?
signed,
NOM.
Evikins answered Monday April 25 2005, 10:07 am: Hi,This is a tough prob. u're in. You should warn him for the very last time and inform authorities of he's behaviour. I would tell his wife asap as well.
Hope I helped.
Nicole [ Evikins's advice column | Ask Evikins A Question ]
1Cutiewitabooti answered Saturday April 23 2005, 1:15 pm: well first of all your 13 or 20 I'm not sure cuz you worded you problem very weird. Next time read it after you type it. Tell him that he needs to stop because your not interested in him befause your many years apart I think. Then go tell his wife what he has been doing. [ 1Cutiewitabooti's advice column | Ask 1Cutiewitabooti A Question ]
o0xbrianna answered Saturday April 23 2005, 1:02 pm: Tell him that he should stop and mention that he DOES have a wife. If worst comes to worst, tell his wife what he has been doing. I'm sure he will stop then.
karenR answered Saturday April 23 2005, 11:28 am: If he is in the halls at school...tell someone in charge at the school. Explain the situation in detail and get them to put a stop to it. If that doesn't work...I'd be telling him like this. You keep bothering me, i'm calling your wife. Maybe she can put a stop to it. Or, get several large football players to give him the messege! Hope you get it taken care of soon. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
cUrLyHaiReDcUtiE16 answered Saturday April 23 2005, 11:11 am: heyy .. get a guy that likes you and that you like and go out and start a relationship with him and maybe the guy that is annoying you will get the hint and go away but if not you should call the police and get like a restraining order
jbdreamer answered Saturday April 23 2005, 11:02 am: You can call the police! He is harassessing you. Next time he bothers you, threaten him with a restraining order. If that doesn't scare him off, actually get a restraining order will. Don't feel bad for trying to protect yourself (even emotionaly). [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
advicegiver13 answered Saturday April 23 2005, 10:56 am: I think that you should keep ignoring him and tell a guy that likes you, you like him! That way mabye the other guy will stop thinking about you! If he starts to hurt you call the police. Hope i helped! [ advicegiver13's advice column | Ask advicegiver13 A Question ]
Xo_Blondii_oX answered Saturday April 23 2005, 10:53 am: well you can always get a restraining order against him. If hes haunting you and making you worried about other things then hes stalking you, talk to his wife tell her whats going on maybe she can do something about him, but if not then talk to the police tell them whats going on and then ask them whats the best thing to do, but if i were you i would get a restraining order against him. Hope i helped and Good Luck! [ Xo_Blondii_oX's advice column | Ask Xo_Blondii_oX A Question ]
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