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How can I part 2
Thanks everyone for your advice but there's another problem. Many of you said that I'll go to him since he is shy. What if he rejects me? or what will i say to him once we are facing each other? Pls. help me. I rate 5's.
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heyy .. i dont know the first question so i cant help you if you would like me to try to help put the 1st question the additional information so i can read it and help you
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Rejection is part of life, and NOT the end of the world. If he rejects you, keep him as a friend. If he doesn't then 'way to go'!. There are other guys out there. But chances are he wouldn't reject you ... just think, he's SHY, so how many gurls has come up to him to ask him out? Make sure that once you guys are facin' eachother, be confident, be yourself. The words will come out smoothly on its own if you're calm, and not nervous.
Hope I helped.
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No one likes to be rejected. It's a horrible feeling. Unfortunately we all feel that way once in a while.
If your not quite ready to take that chance, here are a few tips to get the ball rolling with minimal risk.
1. Treat him like a friend. Chat with him about mutual intrests and friends, ask his opinion on things. Do the things you would do with a friend, instead of treating him like a potential boyfriend.
2. Be yourself. You don't want him falling for some fake persona. Then your stuck acting like some one your not!
3. Don't be afraid to let things develope slowly. It sounds like you both are shy, so why add more pressure?
4. If you really feel like you can't wait to ask him out, the get it over with. Waiting will only make it scarier for you.
5. Think about exactly what you want to say, run it by a friend, or us here at Advicenators, and get some feedback. And think about how it would sound to you if he were the one saying it.
The bottom line: He's probably more nervous than you are. And rejection isn't the end of the world. Ask him out, either way you'll know and be able to stop worrying!
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Don't ask him out-just talk to him first of all and have a good conversation. The more good conversations you have the more relaxed you will become around eachother and the more time you will then spend together. It will then be easier for you both to tell eachother how you feel. Nothing is going to happen unless you do something about it-but you can't make a fool of yourself by just having a conversation.
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who cares if he rejects you atleast you tried. just tell him how you feel and that you want to be more then just friends.
hope i could help
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