We might all go to the movies saturday. We both were talking about how we wanted to see the new movie with ashton kutcher in it (gosh hes to die for, anyways haha)She said she wants to go with the girls saturday and when she told me that she had to leave I said yea so saturday since u said u want to go with some girls maybe we could all go. And she said she would like that. I dont know if she was saying that becasue shes a nice person and didnt want me to feel bad if she said no or maybe shes really up for the good night. I feel like i was just inviting myself but her to go with me also. I dont know how she feels about going with me but if we have a fun time then she would want to hang out with me and the girls together all the time, and we have hung out tons before. What should i do to make her want me in the group?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Evikins answered Friday April 22 2005, 9:24 am: Sorry i got this late. First of all, are you talkin' about your best friend or another gurl in the group. I'm sorry u kinda lost me there. But anyhow's if its your best friend and you think she's sayin' that just to be nice, then that's not very nice of her. Bestfriends should be honest. Then again, there is a possiblity that she meant it. You'll know that on Saturday. Nevertheless, you shouldn't be the one to 'make her' want you to join the group'. She's suppossed 'make you' be in the group. Thats how best friends work. Not to bring you down or anythin' but think about this, if she wanted, you would have been in the group since the time she was in the group. (That's how i choose my bestfriends). So if i were you, i wouldn't push wantin' to be in the group. You can have your own group as well. If you're both very close, you might want to ask her if she thinks you're really or not fun to hang out with. If she's a true friend, she'll answer truthfully. You'll know if she means it or not.
I hope this helped. If not i'll be more than happy to recieve suggestions on how i answer questions like this. I apperciate your gettin' back to me. I'm happy I helped in the first place.
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