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Ok the other day (I forgot how we came up on the subject)my friend and I were talking about how much we weighed. I told her first, but I am pretty skinny. Well, she told me she only weighed 2 more pounds than me (92). I think she is lying, however (maybe she feels embarassed?), because she wears a size five in jeans (I wear a 0). Can she really only weigh 2 more pounds than me, and yet still wear jeans way bigger than me? b/c me and this girl are REALLY good friends & i she NEVER lies to me (and i would hate for her to start!!) Thanks I will rate 5's!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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THat is like soo how m and my best friend are..anyways, why dont you tell her that it doesnt matter to you how much she weighs, because you are her friend...etc. if you dont feel like you should do that, then just let it, she is probly embarrassed because you are 5 sizes different. I wouldnt push it tho!
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I have known my best freind for about 4 years, and we are super close we never used to fight and always agreeded on things. Now I feel like shes leaving me out purposley, and I feel like I wait all day for her to call to do somthing, and I'll do whatever she wants as long as i want to also. But whenever i cant go right at that second she ditches me. Now the littlest things get us in fights and i get mad at her for stupid things. I know that its stupid, but am I just being oversensitive in thinking shes leaving me out? (link)
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I dont think so at all, maybe you should sit down and talk to her about it. Tell her that it upsets you whenever she does those things...i hope i helped!
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Okay.. let's see- I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. We are both around 16. Hes not to desperate to do anymore than we have.. He's went down my pants but thats the furthest we've got. We both talked about doing more, and we both want to. The only thing is i'm kind of nervous. Like everyone says giving handjobs/blowjobs come natural how to do it. but i dont think it's going to for me. or like him eating me out? Won't that just be weird. will i just lay there? I'm really ready to do this, but i just want to make sure i do everything right for him...
I rate high (link)
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Well, whenever he eats you out, you wont JUST be laying there, It will feel good and im sure you will moan...as for the lowjobs and handjobs...handjobs-it is basically like jacking a guy off...(well, duhh...) Dont grip it too tight, and go different speeds...if you feel that he isnt enjoying it ask him what he likes....blowjobs...i cant reall tell you HOW, but i can give you some tips...use your tongue, dont just suck it...use both, and since it is your first time, i wouldnt recommend deep throating, as it might result in you throwing up on him, unless you dont have any gag reflexes...and if you want it to seem like your deep throating, put your hand under your mouth...(well, what i mean is, where you cant go any farther) and go as the same motion your mouth is. And, kiss and lightly lick the head of his penis, they love it!! well, that is all i cant hink of 4 now...hope i helped
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okay my friends name is holly and her boyfriend's name is zach. theyve been going out since about december, maybe a little before. i basically set them up because they are honestly the perfect couple. its just that sometimes i feel like she prefers to hang with him over me. i was in the hall talking to her one day and then along comes zach and i was in midsentence. then she just walks away with him. I WAS IN MIDSENTENCE! she didnt say goodbye or anything. its sortof making me wonder. i dont know if its just jealously - but my other friends are noticing it too. honestly - they are perfect for each other. and i dont want them to break up. this past weekend we went to the movies and she asked if she could take him. i wanted it just to be us girls but finally she convinced me that he had to come. she said 'im only over his house today for two hours and i never see him' when she sees him everyday for at least like 2 hours. how can i let her know that she sortof needs to let him go, not break up, but detach herself from him when it comes to going out to the movies or anywhere with FRIENDS? im sorry this was so long, but i rate high! =) thanks so much
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WEll, try talking to her and telling her that you feel sortof left out..and you would like to spend time with JUST her and maybe sum of your other friends too. Just talk about all the things that she has done to make you upset, like walking away when you were in midsentence....she should understand!
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What are some good party ideas for a girl who is turning 14 this summer, has friends that'd she like to invite aging from 12-16, and will have guys and gals at her party? I want to throw a really cool party for her, but I'm not sure where to begin. A Suprise Party is not an option, and we don't have a pool. I'd like something fun, original, and not boring. THanks for your ideas! (link)
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Well, me and my friends were thinking about having a b-day party at chuck e cheeses? it would be original...kinda..lol. That would be a cool party. Unless you dont want pple to think shes sooo childish...(which i dont think it is) you could throw one at her house or go to splashtown or sumthing?
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y are a ll my friends hypocrites because every time they like say stuff to me like tell the person if u have a problem with them and so i do then when ever they have a problem with soem one else they dont tell them and so yeah y do people do that i hate it y are they like this y do i attracked firneds that just stab u in the back all the toime then lie about what they did? (link)
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Well, I think because, they dont want people to talk about THEM behind their backs, but they are too chicken shit to fufill (sp?) their part of what they say....Next time it happens confront them and say well, geez, you told me (oe whoever) to tell you to your face, why cant u do that same?
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okay here we go...last year, in 8th grade, this girl and i liked the same guy, idint know she liked him and he asked me out. i said yes of course. well thats when everything started the same fat girl has been talking crap about me ever since then that was last yar! it was over something i couldnt help! he picked me ov you get over it!! (link)
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Why dont u be all like "what are you just jealous because he picked me over your fat ass?" and see how she responds to that...otherwise, just ignore her, she is only jealous because you got what she wanted. i hope i helped
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Ok so i recently signed up for myspace and have been going through old yearbooks and i ran into this girl i knew in junior high (im 18/m now) so i sent her a message saying she probably doesnt remember me but i went to school with her and just wanted to say whats up. she responded saying she doesnt remember me and im at a loss for how to respond. i was thinking of saying soemthing like "ok well i cant say im not disappointed but i didnt really expect you to remember me, if you ever wana talk about how much the school sucked or anything like that feel free to message me" but i was wondering if soemthing else maybe better. should i try to job her memory? should i reply with "oh well no big deal" or is there a even better response i have yet to think off? responses asap would be best. oh and not saying that romance is the last thing on my mind in this situation but it really isnt the reason, we were fairly good friends back then and i just wanted to get back in touch with her. thanks all for your help. (link)
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Maybe you should respond to "do you want to remember" or something like that, that way you arent annoying her and if she really wants to know, then proceed on from there. If she says no, then dont push it...maybe she will come around...
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I have met this new friend. My bestfriend doesn't like her. I like her. The new friend is mean to my bestfriend but not to me. I want to be friends with both of them. What should i do? (link)
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I think that you should talk with both of them, tell your current bff that she cant control who you are friends with, and tell your other friend that your bff now is your friend also, and that she shouldnt make be mean to her. (well, that is what i would do) Then you could be friends with both of them, niether of them can decide who your friends should be!
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okay. i'd been with my boy for a month and i really liked him. the only problem was that we fought. all the time! about the stupidest little things. he will be upset and i'd ask what's wrong and he'd just be all 'nothing' when i knew something was wrong. then he'd say that i said or did something to upset him bet he never told me what. i got so pissed of last night that i dumped him. i live in australia so it's valentines day today and every little thing reminds me of him. i know that if i asked for him back that he would take me but i dont want to be with him. i dont think. i'm just confused. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
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confused (link)
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Why dont you call and talk to him about it, explain your feelings to him, tell him about how ya'll fought about stupid stuff and that you are confused...
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well, ya see, me and this guy have been going out for like.. 7 months or so. i REALLY like him, and my friend thinks i'm in love with him. my parents HATE him, so i didnt tell them. they talk bad about him ALLLLL the time, and drives me nuts. my friends talk bad about him all the time too, and they know about us. i never get to see him, but my best friends think he loves me too... but.. he never tells me this or anything.. i really wanna break it off, cuz he says the meanest things and such, and my friends are like.. EHH.. but when we're together, i can't help but gaze into his eyes and want to kiss him... any ideas? (link)
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Well, do what your heart tells you...(the oldest, lamest line the book, I know!) But, just keep this in mind, Boyfriends are just boyfriends, but friends are till the end!!! SO, if he ins't worht losing your friends over, then don't do it. Plus, if he is saying mean things to you or about you or your friends, then he is a pretty big jerk.
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Ok me and my BF just broke up and now I really like him..or do I am not sure what the hek my true fellings for him are....do I like Him or not..I dont know, someone please help me! (link)
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I can't tell you whether or not you like him or not, but why don't you sit down when you have some free time and think about all the good things about him and all the bad, then you might be able to decide if you like him or not. Or think about if you like someone else? You could also think about why ya'll broke up?
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so about a year ago, my dad and my step mom got a divorce. It really suc'd like any divorce, but my stEp mom blamed it on me...I still belive deep down that it was my fault, but everyone tells me it wasnt. Ive been through so many consolurs and crap, but i still don't feel good about it. I still rember the last night we talked...she told me how much she hated me...((the mom i had for the last 12 years just told me she hated me))then she refused to talk to me for the last like month she lived with us.
well my real mom's really f'd up, and my former step mom wont talk to me ever again..and i realli dont like my dads new g-f..i need a mom. im a teenage girl...my dad doesnt always get it..Where should i turn? I mean i can talk to my freinds...but i would love more then anything to have a mom...should i try apologizing to my former step mom, or call my real mmom...ee..lost (link)
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Well, maybe you should try to sit down and talk with your former step-mom. I don't see why I should tell you to apologize to her- after all, you didn't do anything...right? Sit her down and ask her why she is blaming you, and see if you can work it out with her. But, try not to yell and things, that would only make it worse. You could also try and call your real mother. But, I think you should call ur step-mom because she has been there for the last 12 years. If it makes you feel better, then you can apologize to her, but, it's not your fault. Unless you have a really good friend, and her mom is like a mom to you, you could talk to her? well, I hope i hepled a littel bit! if you need anything else you can email me: HaLlWaYfIeStA44@ev1.net
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alright, well me and my boyfriend like to have fun were both 13..and like the other day i was just like rubbing his 'thing' and stuff and then hes like...said all this stuff..but i ended up fingereing my self with out washing my hands is there a chance i can be pregnet?!
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No, you arne't pregnant, as long as he didnt bust!
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okay, i have a friend, and i'm really close to her, we've been friends for a really long time and i just love her to death! almost like a sister! but anyways, just recently she told me about her boyfriend...he doesn't want her to talk to any guys, and he says if he ever catches her, he will kill her and him...and he's not just bluffing, he is really serious about the killing. also, they recently had sex for the first time, and the day after he wouldn't talk to her, but then he said "i'm sorry, come over to my house after work" those were his exact words! he wanted her over there so they could have sex. he won't wear a condom unless she threatens him that they're not going to have sex unless he does. also, he gives her hickies and she asks him to put them in places that can't be easily seen so she can't get in trouble, but when she asks him to he gets mad and bites her on the next, hard, leaving big places, in visible spots. i'm sorry this was long, but please help.
-concerned friend (link)
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You should talk to her about it. She really needs to get away from him. Sit her down and tell her how you feel, tell her that she needs to Dump him because htats not right!!! And if she wont listen to you, then you have to tell someone.
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17-f so i have this really good friend...a guy...and we've been friends for three years. I love spending time with him because hes just about the funniest person i know. We have a lot in common too and now since we've been friends for so long he knows me really well. Anyways for a while now im beginning to think that he likes me. I dont like him that way. How do i tell him that i dont like him without actually doing it. And if i need to tell him outright...how do i do that without hurting him? (link)
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Well, just tell him that you can only consider him as a brother, or really good friend because of how long you have known him. It can work either way. He should be able to understand this.
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Ok, so there's this kid at my school that is obsessed with me, and we talk on the phone and internet and hes asked me out several times already, everytime i said i wasn't sure, what my question is is that do you think it would be smart to get to know him better, or is it "bad" to have an obsessive boyfriend? I don't really "like" him yet, but hes one of the sweetest kids i've ever met. Okay.. sorry it was long thanks
ashley (link)
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Well, if you DONT like him and you DONT want to go out with him, dont lead him on- dont tell him u arent sure if you are. But, if you want to give him a chance and get to know him then GO 4 IT!!!
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ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE! (link)
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Well, Maybe you should try and talk to him after he IM's you. Ask him why he only talks to you on the computer and not at school. I mean, if he doesn't want to talk to you because of who he hangs out with or who you hang out with, then he is a jerkoff.
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alright i am a 13 year old male and i am friends with this one girl. She already has a boyfriend but he goes to a different skool and she doesn't really get to talk to him. And i like the girl sooo much... What should i do ask her out?? (link)
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I think that you should ask her out, I mean, if she likes you and you like her, then whats the point if the other guy if she doesnt get to talk to him? BUT, DONT pressure her into cheating. If she says no, because of him, dont make her feel guilty about it. I hope i helped a little bit!
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i have this friend (my best friend actually) and i love her more than any thing in the world, she is like the only person who can make me laugh when im sad or hook me up w/ any guy i like and she is just like the all around greatest person i know and she is like so outgoing and im like the shyest person out of our group and she is the one who is like hmmm i think we are going to be friends w/ ... and walks up to them and starts talking, but her mom is a total B---- and she treats her like crap then she is so nice, and her mom recently kicked her out of her house and she came to live w/ me and everything was going well and then her mom found out she was living w/ me and had a hurnea (not literally but it's a saying) and she is going to move in w/ her dad at the end of the school year and as it nears it makes me more and more sad because it's not going to be the same and i want it to be and at night i just sit there thinking about how much im going to miss her and all of my other friends are like im moving to waller and we'll still be going to school together etc... and i have no clue what to do cause her mom doesnt want us to hang out any more and i dont like inviting over any one else (i mean i have but it just isnt the same me and her did the stupidest things and we made it fun) and i hate being that bored on the weekends and my aunt said she would sneak her out but i dont think it is going to work what should i do? (link)
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Well, make your mom move with her and stuff, because she does basically the same thing at night too. but just think, she will be bettering herself and getting/ living a new and better life style then what she is used to with her mom. I know that you don't want her to move and stuff. But, if things DO change, maybe it was meant to be, and if your friendship is TRUE (I am not saying that is itsn't) but you will keep in touch as much as possible. This is something that she REALLy needs and wants, she loves you very much and your mom and dad, and Aunt Tracy. I was thinking that maybe it would work, as ling as she was back before a certain time, or somwthing. But what she was thinking was having Aunt Tracy pick her up from school as a car rider (with you too) and go hang out and tell her that she is riding the activity bus home. As ling as she as home before her mother got home. But, just cherish the good times that you have had and that you might have in the future. And, I can tell you this, she is not all that excited about you having all these different people cpme over, because of the fear of getting replaced!!! I love you very much, and I don;t know what I would do without you!
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