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problem with me and my friend
okay my friends name is holly and her boyfriend's name is zach. theyve been going out since about december, maybe a little before. i basically set them up because they are honestly the perfect couple. its just that sometimes i feel like she prefers to hang with him over me. i was in the hall talking to her one day and then along comes zach and i was in midsentence. then she just walks away with him. I WAS IN MIDSENTENCE! she didnt say goodbye or anything. its sortof making me wonder. i dont know if its just jealously - but my other friends are noticing it too. honestly - they are perfect for each other. and i dont want them to break up. this past weekend we went to the movies and she asked if she could take him. i wanted it just to be us girls but finally she convinced me that he had to come. she said 'im only over his house today for two hours and i never see him' when she sees him everyday for at least like 2 hours. how can i let her know that she sortof needs to let him go, not break up, but detach herself from him when it comes to going out to the movies or anywhere with FRIENDS? im sorry this was so long, but i rate high! =) thanks so much
<3rachel
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WEll, try talking to her and telling her that you feel sortof left out..and you would like to spend time with JUST her and maybe sum of your other friends too. Just talk about all the things that she has done to make you upset, like walking away when you were in midsentence....she should understand!
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If she is gonna ditch you for a boy, she is not a friend. You are ALWAYS suppose to pick your friends over boys. I think maybe you should just hang out with other people and next weekend DONT invite her and see how she feels
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Oh right well why dont you try talking to her tell her that your happy for them 2 but you feel left out because you feel like she wants to be with him more than you if she feels like its more important to have a boy friend then you should walk away she doesnt deserve anyone as special as you
roxie
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Oh yeah this has happened to me as the annoying friend with new boyfriend. Ok you might be a little jealous, but it would be nice if they weren't attached at the hip. I wish I could see my fiancee for 2 hours a day. Gee whiz. Try to get some face time with her away from him. Tell her how you are feeling. I doubt very seriously they would break up over you. Just tell her she is being an insensitive jerk.
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No way, its fine to be jealous, but you have got to talk to her, tell her how you felt about that, that was really rude, you and I both know that, so, ask her if you can hang out with them, and if not, I'd tell you to ditch her back, but I'm not sure if your one of those angry revenge type of girls, lol. But tell her that the setup you put for them was not a ditch. And make sure you setup a girls night, make it clear to her that Zach will not be coming, you need to talk to her.
-TheTeenGirl
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Just talk to her about how you feel like you're being left out and that her boyfriend is coming between your friendship. I don't think you're jealous, I just think you want to spend time with your friend. There's nothing wrong with that. Hopefully she'll come around and understand where you're coming from.
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It sounds like Holly and Zach are twitterpated. (if you've never heard the word- go watch Bambi) Twitterpation means that those two lovebirds are so caught up in making goo-goo eyes at each other and enjoying each other's company that they may forget about those aroudn them. You have to not let it bother you too much- go hang out with your other friends. Or invite Holly do do girly activities like makeover nights and watching chick flicks- stuff that Zach would not want to be included in.
Another possibility- find yourself a boyfriend and you can double date! Does Zach have any cool friends?
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