|
friends y are a ll my friends hypocrites because every time they like say stuff to me like tell the person if u have a problem with them and so i do then when ever they have a problem with soem one else they dont tell them and so yeah y do people do that i hate it y are they like this y do i attracked firneds that just stab u in the back all the toime then lie about what they did?
[ ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
im not sure why but i have had alot of that stabbed me in the back to. Just dont get to mad that you r going to try to hurt them ]
Well, I think because, they dont want people to talk about THEM behind their backs, but they are too chicken shit to fufill (sp?) their part of what they say....Next time it happens confront them and say well, geez, you told me (oe whoever) to tell you to your face, why cant u do that same? ]
most places people are like that... i used to be friends with everyone and once i found out they started talking behind my back it all came down... i have tried so hard to talk it out with them but it doesnt work.... i dont really know exactly what to tell you i dont have really any friends anymore... id say if they start talking crap about someone give them a funny look and be like why do you have to talk behind their back... if you dont like them leave it at that... ya know! im sorry if i didnt help! but i know what your going through! and i hope it works out better for you then it did for me! ]
I think that you should ditch those friends. Its not worth having people like that around if they only bug you. Or if you really wanna try and work things out, just talk to them about it. ]
More Questions: |