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Hey people. I'm Kayla. I'm a pretty cool person. I like to help anyone and everyone out so if you have a question then I have an answer. So lets get this party started!!

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hey my bday just broke up with me i dont know what to do he broke up with me about 2 weeks ago and like 3 days after he got a new gf it turns out shes like one of my bestfriends she knew i still loved him and still do to this day but she asked him out and he said yes also he thot i liked sumone else sumone told him that i dont know who it was but i dident like any one else the kid liked me and sumbody told him that i liked him which is a lie and now she has my bestfriend and i still miss my boyfriend i dont know what to do!

Ok first of all the chick that you call a friend is not a friend at all. If she went out with your ex only 3 days after you broke up then she wasn't a friend at all. You should invite your ex out to lunch with you and explain how you feel. Now the downside to this is that he might have gotten over you. But the upside is that he might feel the same way about you and want you back. And as for the guy that likes you..but you don't like him..Tell him straight-forward that youo don't like him..You don't want to lead the guy on ;)
No guarantees but I wish you the best of luck :)

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I really like this boy...and when ever i talk to him i dont know what to talk about it always ends up in an akward silence. i need help on things to talk about cause i really like this guy. thankss a lot.

ask him questions about himself. Everyone loves to talk about themselves.

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im 23 now and i still havent had sex. ive been waiting to have sex, but now i want to have sex and no one wants to now. is 23 too long to wait?

OMG don't worry.Atleast you can't get anyone preggers.

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Well, this is a bit embarassing as it would be for any other guy. I feel a bit insecure about my size. I dont think Im bad at all at 6 inches, but I would like to be bigger. Is there any proven (by experience) methods to increase size? any known Pills? exersices? except of course surgery (cant afford it).

Thanks!

Wow well is 6 inches hard or not hard. Because either way it's more than enough for a girl. I mean girls don't want it super big. Unless you are trying to impress your buds I would stick to being just all natural. Plus if you do when the girl asks if it's "all you" you can truthfully say yeah.

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how safe will me && my bf be having sex if we use a condom and he pulls out before he comes??? i CANNOT get the pill so don't suggest it, k???

If you are using a condom and pulling out before he cums..you are being pretty safe. But if you are just pulling out I wouldn't recommend it. It's not too safe. Hope I helped

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When your pregnant, do you still have periods? What about if you breastfeed?

You don't have a period when you are pregnant. But there are rare cases where women have had a period throughout pregnancy. But it is very rare. Implantation bleeding may also occur.

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i am going to be a freshman in high school this year and i am starting to panic, will someone please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No need to panic. I'm a senior in High-school. As long as you stick with ur friends you will be fine. But trust me don't harass the seniors. Depending on the actual senior you may end up with some hurt feeling. But most of my friends are nice and we actually like helping out the freshman.

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i have had feelings for this guy and my bestfriend has known this for years

i've heard he likes me too but sometimes he's so sweet and sometimes he's an ass to my face and teases me........the only reason i keep having feelings for him is bc deep down i can tell he likes me.

my bestfriend just had her heart broken from another guy and i helped her through everything........i was always with her encouraging her and bringing her flowers and crying with her.

a week later we were at a part.....i walk into a room and she is hooking up with the guy i like!!!
i can't begin to explain how bad that felt. i mean he's the reason i come to that party. he's the person i dress up to impress. i've liked him foreverrrrr! and my bestfriend???

so the next day i talk to her and tell her that she really hurt me. and she says she was drunk and she didn't know what she was doing. i tell her whatever and just move on.


but then the next week. i was at a party and i can't find her again! so i go upstairs and she's hooking up with him again!!!!!

by now i am sooooooooooooooooooooooo mad and sad and frustrated i just leave. i figure she's doing this bc she had her heart broken and she's trying to do it to me so i can feel it too.


the next day i talk to her and tell her she's being so low and i don't know what's going through her mind!!! she says she has feelings for him too. she's never told me that. and there's no reason i should be mad bc he's not my "property" and that when he starts making out with her......should she stop and tell him i can't bc my best friend like you too!

and then she also says the reason he's an ass to you sometimes is bc he just doesn't like you! you need to come to realize he does not like you!

and now i think she's going to start dating him.

she's been my bestfriend for 9 years. and i do everything with her.i don't want this to ruin our friendship. but i think it is already.

i feel like i've lost the guy i've always wanted and my bestfriend at the same time and i have no one to talk about it with.

First of all..ur so called best friend is doing you wrong. As a best friend she should respect that you like this guy.She definataly shouldn't be putting you down by saying that he doesn't like you. And from my perspective I am seeing that she is jealous of you. She probably knows that he likes you and is being this way because she just had her heart broken. Tell her how you feel about the situation. If she doesn't understand then I think you should nix this so called friend of yours. She just isn't best friend material. Best of luck with that guy ;)

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My boyrfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years known each other for over 5. He is my best friend. We have to cats and a new puppy and live in our first house together. He says marriage is in the ans but not till later. That drives me crazy. Just recently he stated that he's been thinking about our future more often. And wondering if he's letting time past by. Was that a hint. Is he coming around or going through a man period. I need help. How does this sound to you?

Why don"t you propose to him??

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Ok Im 13/f i havnt had a boyfriend since before school let out ! And this summmer i was hoping to find a summer love . But so far it hasnt happenend = ( . I Like some boys but they dont like me back. Also i want a boyfried sooo bad but not to the point i would just go out with anybody ! Please help me . So my question is ... Is there anyway i could kinda make them like me or anyways to be flirtashish ( i spelled that wrong) ?
Sorry Its Semi Long

You shouldn't go digging for love. Love just happens. You can always try to effect the length of how fast someone may fall in love with you. But you don't want them to fall in love with you under false pretences. Be yourself.Don't try too hard or you will look desperate.plus you are only 13. I didn't even get my first bf til i was 16. Don't worry you don't need a boyfriend to make you feel good about yourself. Stay cool!!

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I have been spending alot of time with this guy. We have both told eachother that we like eachother and we kiss and last night we held eachother. Basicly Its obvious to everyone that we like eachother. Well, yesterday my friend was talking to him and she asked him "If she asked you out what would you say." and he said that he would say yes! So now my problem is, how do I ask? I want it to be sweet and cute but not over done. Just simple and easy but still cute. any suggestions? please help!

Don't ask him out on the phone or through a note..thats childish. Just pop the question in a playing way. That way if he says no you can just say you were kiddin. But if he says yes then it's all good :).... Just play around with him hug him.. tell him a joke and get him laughing and then just go "hey we should go out(sometime)". Hope I helped!!

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How does one become the perfect girlfriend? Internally and externally, how does a girl make her guy feel completely fulfilled?
Thanks

You should just be you.To be the perfect girlfriend all you need is-you-. I mean that's why the guy is going out with you, right?He saw something in you.. and to completely fulfill him just fulfill yourself and take time to realize who you really are-and act upon it-

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I'm a 16-year-old female and I was celebrating fourth of July with some of my friends last night without my boyfriend. Everyone was drinking and having a good time, and apparently I drank a little more than I should have and ended up calling his voicemail and breaking up with him. He didn't sleep all of last night, and I really love my boyfriend, I've told him that countless times, as well as that I'm sorry, so I don't know what else to say. Does anyone have any advice on what I could do to get him to forgive me?

Tell him sorry and mean it. If he really loves you he will forgive you and realize that it was a mistake.Or just let him have time to think-he doesn't want to break up with you-

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I want to lose weight, and I know how to go about it, healthy food.. and all that junk.. only one problem. I can't motivate myself to do it. I always end-up not doing it. Does anyone know of some good motivators.. that would help me with something... I REALLY want to lose this weight..

http://www.jimflorentine.com/art/fat_chick-plate.jpg

look..that should be enough said.
If you really don't like the way you look now than all the motivation you need is to better yourself.

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okay, im 15/f and ive never had a boyfriend and ive never even made out or done anything with a guy. and its not that im a loser or anything im actually pretty popular in school but all my friends are out like hooking up with guys all the time and ive never done anything. and people laugh at me too for it. its just like all the guys i know see me as a friend but not a girfriend so i never get any guys. help. how do i meet more guys? and how can i get this guy ive been crushing on a for a while to like me?

You are only 15. You shouldn't have to worry about this. I'm 17 and I didn't get a boyfriend until I was 16. I always had more friends that were guys. As only freinds. Turns out I hooked up with one of them. So be on the lookout becuase one of the guys that you think would never like you may jus be in the friend pool until he thinks its right to ask you out.As for getting more guys..try to be different. Level with them and find similarities. But don't be similar that you slip into that friend zone. ;P

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This guy that I've been friends with for a while sent me an email after I wrote him (being on holidays) that I had cut 8 inches off my hair. This is what he wrote to me.
"Wow, so you really cut your hair that short? I can hardly wait to see your new look. Now you can show off you SEXY neck".
When I got back from my holiday and he saw my new hairstyle; he couldnt take his eyes off me. He said I looked really good; and then he walked up to me and started rubbing my big toe ( I was wearing sandals). Then he said I had really nice toes; and that most womans toes were not as cute as mine.
So what do you think? Do you think he likes me as more than a friend or am I reading way too much into this?

It does seem like he does like you. But whats with the foot fetish. I either he likes you or he can be gay.

LOve

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does anyone here know how to get over a guy u really really love???? i need tips! i'll rate high for good advice

Find a new hobbie. Join a new team. Anything that isn't related to that guy is good. Time is the greatest cure though.

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my boyfriend broke up with me because i didn't want to go any farther with him. now he seems to regret it and wants to get back together. should i give him another chance?

No you shouldn't give him another chance. If he gets mad at you one because you didn't got further he'll do it again. Break it off with him before he makes you do something you regret.

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Well I wonder who this is!!I've been busy as you know already but I am now ready to accept questions lol..Bring it on!!

I love you !!

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Ohkay, so its a Saturday night, 6:45.. and I have absolutely nothing to do. What are some fun things that I can do all by myself? besides watch TV and go on the computer?

Go out meet some new people..or if you are not allowed to go outside go to a chatroom.

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