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Ok Im 13/f i havnt had a boyfriend since before school let out ! And this summmer i was hoping to find a summer love . But so far it hasnt happenend = ( . I Like some boys but they dont like me back. Also i want a boyfried sooo bad but not to the point i would just go out with anybody ! Please help me . So my question is ... Is there anyway i could kinda make them like me or anyways to be flirtashish ( i spelled that wrong) ?
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You don't need a guy to make you happy, you don't need a boyfriend. what you need to do is get out with some friends and have fun, get a hobby. why would you want a boyfriend so bad? summer love are only summer crushes, and by the time summer ends and school starts again, everything will change. to make a guy like you, is to be yourself when the time is right a guy will show up. here is a tip, and it really works. if you can just be happy to be u, and have fun, get out and do something with your friends, i assure you that a guy will find you, when you least expect it. but untill then just have fun, and stop worrying about getting a guy, they are not everything in the world. believe me i used to be u, and now i have a guy, because i was myself, did not try to change anything about me, and did my own thing. you do this and youll get a guy. hope this helps.
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ok first of all my best friend always plays hard to get but me i just have more guy friends so like in 6 and 7th grade i had mostly girls that weres friends and i really didnt talk to guys and they never talked to me or likes me but in 8th grade more guys were my freinds because girls stab ya in the back..so in 8th grade about 10 guys liked me and ya but i said no to all of them.....but yesterday i made a build a bear and made a wish to go in it and my wish was that corey would ask me ou and he did and so now me and him r going out...but you dont wnat to have too many guys liking you because then....ok your heart is one whole piece and each time a guy breaks your heart then a piece breaks off so dont have too many b/fs r when u get married then you will only have a little piece for the one you love....
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You shouldn't go digging for love. Love just happens. You can always try to effect the length of how fast someone may fall in love with you. But you don't want them to fall in love with you under false pretences. Be yourself.Don't try too hard or you will look desperate.plus you are only 13. I didn't even get my first bf til i was 16. Don't worry you don't need a boyfriend to make you feel good about yourself. Stay cool!!
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Well the best thing to do is, boost your style!
Save it all for going back to school, and they will see a all new you :] Try flirting more with the boys you like. For example, talk to him more and try going on a group outting with him, it'll be fun!
Good luck!
--Kendra
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u sort of sound like me.... dont worry they will come around... for some reason in sixth grade i had alot of boyfriends but then half way through 7th till the middle of 9th.. i didnt have any... i acted the same... but i dont think the probelm is you... i think its the guys.... around that age they get weird... and the girls that did have boyfriends at that age... wont have them when they are older... if you keep being yourself... and friends w/ all of them... they will alllll chase after you in a couple years... trust me... just give them time to grow up... but go ahead and flirt as much as you want.. have crushes... but they will come to you in the future... trust me (i no you probably think this is a little ridiculous... but im now a sophmore.. and have had non-stop boy attention.. and ive been myself this whole time.. i think girls just grow up faster)
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Hey, it's ok if you don't have a boyfriend at they moment or for the whole summer, i have only had 2 and im 14 goin into highschool. Don't stress about it, if it is ment to be then it will happen. Don't just go for anyone, i did and it doesn't turn out to be what you hoped,be yourself!
hope i helped!
-Milly203
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Well, the concept of summer love is what your fixated on, not someone specific. Thus, you can never achieve what you want the most (summer love) without a love. So, just be more social, and don't judge people.
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You're only 13, you have plenty of time to look for guys. Why do you want a boyfriend so bad? Just hang out with your girl friends. Have fun. Sorry it doesnt much answer your question but that my opinion.
Jess
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