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I take a shower everyday and its just about every other time I do I masterbate.
Its the only place I can do it without getting caught.
Soo I was wondering if anyone can tell me some ways I could please myself.
I'm still a virgin and I'd like to keep it that way till I'm with a GUY not a TOY
Touching myself doesnt do anything.
I currently use a slim razor handle thats round and has many ridges on it
And about electric toothbrushes...I have one and I want to try it on me but I don't want 'my taste' on it evertime I use it FOR my teeth...so yea
Also, I never seem to moan or have an orgasim.
How can I do that cause I really wanna have one
Kayy thanks
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its a good thing that you want to wait to lose your virginity with a guy who cares about you rather than waiting for a guy who just wants a piece...anyway... i suppose you could use your electric toothbruch but just make sure you wash it really really well! the two most popular things that ive heard people using are hairbrushes (like the handle part obviously) and markers... also if you'd like to spend some money you could get a waterproof vibrator... basically whatever you think might work give it a try just dont hurt yourself! as far as getting an orgasm well im so sure... just keep thinking thoughts in your head or whatever it is you do to get yourself "in the mood" and keep it going through your head as you use whatever it is u are using... im sure youll get there u just gotta experiment :)
my discharge has been a little chunky lately, like cottage cheese. is this bad? whats the reason for this
you may have a yeast infection? do you feel irritated at all down there... i know that discharge looking like cottage cheese is a symptom of a yeast infection... otherwise im not sure what else to tell you
I just found out I got diagnosed with mono today. It was almost obvious I had it but I'm just wondering if you guys have any advice for me. See I've taken more than 15 advil in 24 hours and I know that is really dangerous but it's the only thing that stops the pain for a little while. My throat hurts so much I rather be dead then face the pain. Is there any remedies I could use to help my throat feel better ? I already gargled with the salt water and used cough drops. It seems the advil is the only thing really helping. Is there maybe any stronger painkiller out there so I don't need to take one every 4 hours?
Also does anyone have any experiences with this? I want to know what to expect and just ways to make myself feel a little better.
Thanks
well did you go the doctor? and they didnt prescribe you anything??? when i had this my throat was killing me and i could barely eat or swallow cuz the pain was so bad... the doctor gave me vicodin (which helps ALOT) and i also go this liquidy stuff that like i gargle for a little and it numbs your throat... but yeah i dont know about just over the counter stuff you could get... if you already went to the doctor then maybe you should ask him if he can give you anything for the pain? oh and make sure to rest and sleep alot...thats the best way to get over it! dont do anything that requires like a lot of energy
Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months, or so, and well i already asked a question before, about my feelings sometimes being "distant", and I know this sounds bad, but for almost a year, i've liked my best guy friend.. We tried dating last year but it felt weird, so we called it off, and well now we both told each other that we never really stoped liking each other. And sometimes it's hard to think of me and my current boyfriend breaking up, but then sometimes i kinda want to, and try again with my best guy friend.. I really don't know what to do, and i know i shouldn't be thinking about this, cause i honestly do really love my boyfriend, but then sometimes i think i might love my best friend.. UGH! so confusing, anything would help me, alot! just give me your honest opionion, i can take anything right now. Thanks.
you just need to decide who you can see yourself with in the future... you may love your bf but you may not be in love with him... i mean, personally i think taht if you really love someone you shouldnt be thinking about anyone else or thinking about being with someone else because no one can even compare to your boyfriend... also, you may love your best friend but not be in love with him... you just need to listen to your heart and figure out who you are really in love with...
what time is a good time to schedule classes? so theres enough time to do hw and party?
honestly idk when a "good time" would be... cuz schedule them early you go the afternoon for hw night for party but that also means getting up early in the morning in which case you may be hung over and want to skip... schedule them in the afternoon by the time youre done youll maybe have a little time for hw but party at night and night classes? well those are pretty self explanatory...basically schedule it for whenever you think you can handle them :)
15/f i havent had a bf in such a long time and when i had the bf i like him and as soon as i dated him i started feeling uncomfortable and stopped liking him so immediately broke up w/him...
now thers a good guy for me and i know hes good and thers nothin wrong w/him except that hes not exactly that hott but hes prett sweet but ii feel like thers jus somthin wrong w/him so i dont like him... whats wrong w/me?? im soo picky cause every guy thats good for me i dont like!!!
girl there is nothing wrong with being picky...it just means you know waht you want! and that is a good thing...too many girls go through there life not really knowing what kind of guy they want... you know so look at it as a good thing! i was always really picky to and even though i never felt right about going out with a guy i usually did anyway for fun but it would be like one date and thats it because it just didnt feel right...it just seemed like every guy that was interested in me i didnt feel the same back... then i met my boyfriend (who i am still currently dating) and with him it just felt right! i was like okay so this is what ive been waiting for and yeah it took it seems like FOREVER till i found him but it was totally worth the wait! so dont worry about being picky and wait for the guy that makes you feel like yeah this is what ive been waiting for! :) good luck!
my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost two months, and i used to really like him. i had liked him for almost a year and then once we got together (maybe after a month or so) all of my stronger feelings for him just faded away. i was positive that i was in love with him when we were just friends, but now i can barely stand him at times. it seems like i can't even flirt with other boys and that sometimes bothers me. i feel like i was waiting for just so long and then once i finally got it, i wasn't into it anymore. this has really been bothing me because i don't know if i should break up with him or just wait and see. i'm his first "official" girlfriend and i'm afraid i'll crush him if i break up with him. please help me!!! what should i do??
i think you should break up with him... youre not being fair to him or yourself...when youre in a relationship yeah things arent going to be perfect but you have to want to make it work...and for the most part you really shouldnt have the urge to flirt with other guys because no one compares to the boy you have...guys can flirt with you but you shouldnt want to flirt back...okay and lets say you stay in this relationship to wait and see and you find out you really dont want to be in a relationship...its only going to be harder for him in the end! you dont want to keep pulling him in deeper and making him believe in something that isnt really there...theres nothing wrong with maybe taking a break for awhile with him... you know then you could flirt and stuff and figure out how you really feel for him... i think it will be easier for you to realize whether or not you should be in a relationship with him...
Im looking for some good romance novels like the notebook, atonement, or pride and prejudice. if anyone can suggest anythign similar to those. Please none of the quick teen reads by like meg cabot, sarah dessen...ect,ect. i have read all of those adn i am bored, i want something alittle more grown up. Thanks so much!
wuthering heights by emily bronte
is it possible to tattoo bottom lashes on? or just a line?
yes im sure it is...i know someone that got "eyeliner" permanently tattooed on...not real eyeline obviously but the lines that look like youre wearing eyeliner...
16/f
ok so i kinda have a thing with this guy. well we havent done anything yet.. but we are planning on it. we both like eachother and we are really good friends. we went out like 2 summers ago also and have liked eachother on and off a lot. he texts me all the time and stuff. but theres like a few other guys in the picture. theres this one guy that i used to like (he used to like me too and he asked me out but i said no) and anyways we recently started talking again and we are going to hang out tomorrow or something. hes really cute. theres another guy that i talk to on the phone a lot. we're really close. hes liked me for like forever and i kinda feel like im leading him on but i do really like talking to him. then theres this other guy that i like every single freaking time i see him. its like an addiction. i only see him like once a month though. and im pretty sure the same thing happens to him. i can just tell by the way he looks at me. we hooked up like 3 months or so ago. anyways, like i text and flirt with lots of other guys and stuff but i feel like all this isnt really fair to the first guy. im not actually going out with him though. i just dont want to hurt him again because last time i went out with him i broke up with him and started going out with another guy right after that and it completely destroyed our friendship. what should i do? im single but i feel like this is wrong.
well...there is nothing wrong with being single and it sounds like you actually would rather prefer to be single...it sounds like your scared of commitment... i dont think you should go out with the first guy or any guy for that matter until youre ready to be committed to one guy and one guy only...no flirting with other guys and liking other guys...right now doesnt exactly seem like the best time for you to have a bf, especially cuz you are attracted to all these different guys and want to flirt back with them...if youre really serious about a boyfriend then you should feel like you dont need to flirt or be attracted to other guys cuz no one compares to your boyfriend...and youre happy with just him... so just kinda wait for that...for now, keep having some fun but dont lead on the poor guys!
difference between college and high school?
depending on how big your high school is college is probably way bigger...depends on what college you go to! so more people :) umm...living on your own like you dont have your parents there telling what you can and cannot do...homework...you dont have like tests every week or whatever usually you go to class, get lectured take notes and then youll have like three or four tests per semester...umm get ready to write papers... college professors dont really care if you show up to class or not...you live in a dorm or apartment, usually a dorm your freshman year...a lot of different groups and activities you can get involved with...hmm those are like the major things! its a whole different experience, however the drama that goes on in high school continues into college
ok i fell in love wit the boy of my dreams last summer. everything was great untill october wen i found out he had been cheating on me the entire time. we broke up and he left me for the other girl. around january we decicded to give it another chance. well i kept acusing him of cheating on me and i had my friends stock him. so we break up again. i miss him so much i dont know wat 2 do should i get back with him or just let it go. he was my first luv and i just cant let go
i cant even understand why you would take him back in the first place?! you need to get over him because obviously you cant trust him and a good lasting relationship is all based on trust...you need a man that is going to make you feel secure...someone that realizes what he has when he has you...
as hard as it is...u need to get over this cheater guy of yours
ok i'm going to start off here ...ok i loss my virginity in sep. to this really cute sweet guy.((he's my bff cousin)) and we've had sex together 3 times and out of all this time he never told me that he had a girlfriend my bff and him live together ... to make a longggggg story short he broke up with his gf like a couple of weeks ago and before that i gave him a love letter telling him how i feel about him. but anyways now since he's single he havent said any thing about the letter but i go over there almost every weekend and the tension is there im very shy around him and he know that i love him and i just wanna pounce on him sooo bad ...ok hes single now but i wanna be his girl friend badly... how do i tell him verbaly that i do ... p.s i have his number but never calls ...o yeah he called me umm monday but i was in the shower i diddnt call back help me i really love him
girl you shouldve called him back like today! just be like hey i saw you called me last night sorry i was in the shower and totally forgot about calling you back till now...play it cool! so he made the first move in trying to call you and that is your opportunity! you just need to be confident and talk to him about how you feel...if theres a time where you two are alone just be like hey can we talk about something... otherwise see how your phone conversation goes and take it from there! but you should def call him back :)
i know its really wierd, but im 16 without ever having a boyfriend or a kiss. but anyways, i think i really like this kid. the wierd part is that i havent even talked to him. i mean we know of each other and we both look at each other sometimes, but its still wierd.
i think he might have a girlfriend, but i still cant help but like him. i think its just lust maybe? im not that sure what lust is haha but still. he just makes me so crazy when i see him in a class we have together. hes friends with a lot of my friends, and im always around them when they are with him. i just wanna talk, but i dont know what to say, any help with that? im just really attracted to him or something. everyone makes him seem like hes so nice, he seems like the perfect guy. hes so sweet, and i just wannttt him. i dont know whats wrong with me haha. but any tips on what to say or what to do to get him to notice me or to want to talk to me?
actually i dont find it all that weird that youre 16 and have never had a bf or kiss... it happens, not a big deal...doesnt make you weird. secondly, just so you know lust is like an intense desire for something (or someone and its usually a sexual desire) kind of sounds like you have an inense desire for this boy... so just talk to him! just get up the confidence and be outgoing and be like hey! whats up? if youre not ready to talk face to face with him yet is it possible to talk to him on myspace, facebook, texting, messenger, aim??? any of those? talking online is soooo much easier!!! thats how i always start out talking to guys im crushing on...then it doesnt make it so awkward when we do talk face to face because we've already talked online :) talking online can lead to texting or phone calls and then talking face to face! good luck just be confident, guys love a girl that is confident!
okay, my vagina ALWAYS itches and i can feel like stuff "commin out" of it. its really gross. but it feels weird like in my underwear and jeans. but like whejn i'm at school i can't do anything but i don't want to see a doctor or ask a family member or friend since its kind of embarassing...is this normal like whats happening
you probably have a yeast infection...and definitely eat more yogurt and dairy but you can also buy a three day kit from like target or somethiung and it comes with a cream that you insert in your vagina and you do this three nights in a row...the kit usually comes with an external cream that you can apply outside as well... so maybe try that and see if it helps :) if not then talk to your mom or someone about it and go see a doctor!
I don't even know what I am asking, I just needed to be able to turn somewhere and speak my mind.
I've been having the hardest time trying to fine something that makes me happy. I've cried myself to sleep for the past two weeks. I have thought about killing myself. I hate school, and I used to love it. Dance, the one thing I used to find comfort in, is the last thing I want to do. My parents tell me all of our financial problems, and they don't get along anymore. Every day I go to school, I put an act on and pretend everything is okay. In fact, I am so good at that that I can't even be normal. None of my friends know that I'm so upset. Nobody knows. I am seriously making myself sick. People tell me all their trivial problems and say things like "MY LIFE SUCKS" or "I'VE HAD A TERRIBLE DAY!" when they have NO idea. And I would like more than anything to scream at the top of my lungs that I am mentally sick. I don't know what I should do. I'm seriously a mess and nobody knows.
If you read this, thanks. And sorry that it didn't have a purpose, I just needed to say something.
its a good thing that you recognize that you need to get help...whether its slow and subtle or drastic... if you wanted to keep quiet about it ive been told to write all my feelings down... i have tried it but it never did quite work for me...
it sounds like you are depressed...majorly...especially if youve thought about killing yourself... you need to go to talk to someone... a relative? friend? what about a school counselor? and then i think you need to go to a professional therapist (psychologist) because they can refer you to medication if that is whats needed...they can seriously help you...i think that would probably be your best option... really
also if you need someone to talk to you can always write me...ive been through a similar situation and im not great now but i also know that it feels good to have someone to turn to and talk to and have them just listen to you...
just stay strong...you can make it through but you need to get help for yourself pronto
I am having a party and we want a really scary movie for it. Any ideas? When we say scary we mean ones that will make us jump alot and have to cling onto another person, or ones that are so freaky that your looking around corners and everything when the movie is done. I dont really like alien or monster movies. Please dont say The Ring, The Ring 2, The Grudge, or any of the Saw movies because we've seen them all and Saw is jsut gore anyways. Thanks alot
amityville horror
the descent
the exorcist
exorcism of emily rose
the hitcher
white noise
silent hill
gothika
house of wax
the messengers
This will be a long question; apologies, but it's complicated.
Background: I once fell head over heels for a girl (call her "Jane"). She and I were friends, but I lacked the courage to try for more. Right before she moved away, I realized it was my last chance to make a move, so I kissed her goodbye. Later, through letters and phone calls, I told her I was in love with her, and she said she felt the same - though I was never really convinced that she felt as strongly as I did. Eventually, she told me she was involved with someone else, and I broke off contact in order to get over her and move on. We had sporadic communication for a while, then finally lost touch completely.
Fast-forward 15 years. I'm thirtysomething, happily married, have kids, but I've never really forgotten Jane (do we ever forget our first love?) Just for kicks, I entered her name into Google, and to my surprise I actually found her. We exchanged e-mail, and then she called me.
Here's where it starts to get complicated, because I expected we would just say "Hey, it's really great to hear from you again, we should stay in touch, blah blah blah," exchange abbreviated versions of our lives so far, and then more or less go back to what we were doing. What I never expected in a million years was that she's actually been thinking about me all this time, that she's still in love with me, and that (to be brutally honest) I've still got strong feelings for her.
I LOVE MY WIFE. I would never leave her, or jeopardize my marriage. I recognize that whatever feelings I have for Jane, they're based on an idealized version of someone I put on a pedestal twenty years ago, and haven't seen since. My question is NOT about whether I should explore an intimate relationship with Jane at this point - the answer to that is "No."
What I need is advice on how to handle this from here. Jane does mean a lot to me and I want to be a friend to her (real friends, not "we can just be friends"), but I don't want to break her heart. Furthermore, I don't want my wife to get the wrong idea (she knows that I got back in touch with Jane - I don't keep secrets from her). No matter how I slice it, I don't see this turning out well. If I had ever considered that Jane might still feel so strongly about me, I would not have resumed contact with her, but what's done is done. Heck, I never really thought she was EVER truly in love with me, let alone that she still is!
In a nutshell -
- I want to avoid breaking Jane's heart.
- I want to stay in touch with her, because she's someone I care about.
- I want to assure my wife that she is still, and always, the real love of my life and more important than anything to me.
Can anyone help me?
i just dont know if it's a good idea to stay in touch with jane... you care about her yeah but she cares about you supposedly in a different way... i know that if i was married and my husband started talking to the girl that was his first love i would not be okay with it... even if there are no feelings there... i still wouldnt be okay with it... shes in the past and your wife is your future... so honestly... i think its just best to leave her out of your life because you said yourself youve thought about her and have feelings for her... you dont want anything to come in the way of your marriage and she very well might even though you say she wont now..you dont know what will happen... but yeah just speaking from a wife's perspective, i would not be okay with it
okay yesterday i got my period FOR ONLY THE SECOND TIME IN MY LIFE and last night i wore a pad to bed and i was sleeping on my back any the blood leaked even tho i was wearing pants underwear and a pad. and on my bottome sheet was a blood stain the size of my hand.
how do i prevent that??
they have pads called "overnight pads" or night time pads ...and those are longer then the regular ones that you can wear during the night... :)
ok so i have a lot of acne on my back/shoulders and some on my chest.. its really un-attractive and ive had it for a few months or so, im 16 years old and i havent started using any kind of product to have this acne caused. i just dont know what to do about it. i love myself and my body and what not but this acne completely suCks! what can i do to get rid of it? is thre a product to get rid of body acne or anything? pleaseee help! :(
all those suggestions that the girl wrote about before me are great... remember, youre not going to see improvements within a few days, itll probaly take awhile... umm ive also heard taht proactive is some really great stuff and works very well...if the problem still persists then go to a dermatologist! thats what i had to do because after awhile just nothing was working... when you go to a dermatologist they look at your skin and indentify what types of zits you have and then they prescrive you some really great medicine (pills, cream) something like that and of course those are alot stronger then store bought stuff so it will work alot faster...cleared me right up i love it :) but yeah otherwise just buy some body washes and creams for acne at the store first (clearsil) and see how those work!