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Question Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 1:58 am

i know its really wierd, but im 16 without ever having a boyfriend or a kiss. but anyways, i think i really like this kid. the wierd part is that i havent even talked to him. i mean we know of each other and we both look at each other sometimes, but its still wierd.

i think he might have a girlfriend, but i still cant help but like him. i think its just lust maybe? im not that sure what lust is haha but still. he just makes me so crazy when i see him in a class we have together. hes friends with a lot of my friends, and im always around them when they are with him. i just wanna talk, but i dont know what to say, any help with that? im just really attracted to him or something. everyone makes him seem like hes so nice, he seems like the perfect guy. hes so sweet, and i just wannttt him. i dont know whats wrong with me haha. but any tips on what to say or what to do to get him to notice me or to want to talk to me?


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xemmiex3 answered Tuesday March 25 2008, 8:55 pm:
first of allll its completely normal being 16 and never having a boyfriend or a kiss. you might not believe me but it really isnt. secondd. talk anout school topics [sounds corny when i say it but talking about like teachers and tests can actually make for conversation]. if you arent ready to talk with fulll conversations you could always just make a little joke here or there [not like a knock knock joke or anything hahha].


alsoo; one little conversation can do a lot. its happened to me it can happen to anyone


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CaliforniaLover1111 answered Tuesday March 25 2008, 6:29 pm:
actually i dont find it all that weird that youre 16 and have never had a bf or kiss... it happens, not a big deal...doesnt make you weird. secondly, just so you know lust is like an intense desire for something (or someone and its usually a sexual desire) kind of sounds like you have an inense desire for this boy... so just talk to him! just get up the confidence and be outgoing and be like hey! whats up? if youre not ready to talk face to face with him yet is it possible to talk to him on myspace, facebook, texting, messenger, aim??? any of those? talking online is soooo much easier!!! thats how i always start out talking to guys im crushing on...then it doesnt make it so awkward when we do talk face to face because we've already talked online :) talking online can lead to texting or phone calls and then talking face to face! good luck just be confident, guys love a girl that is confident!

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