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boyfriend troubles!!!
my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost two months, and i used to really like him. i had liked him for almost a year and then once we got together (maybe after a month or so) all of my stronger feelings for him just faded away. i was positive that i was in love with him when we were just friends, but now i can barely stand him at times. it seems like i can't even flirt with other boys and that sometimes bothers me. i feel like i was waiting for just so long and then once i finally got it, i wasn't into it anymore. this has really been bothing me because i don't know if i should break up with him or just wait and see. i'm his first "official" girlfriend and i'm afraid i'll crush him if i break up with him. please help me!!! what should i do??
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Just because he hasnt had a girlfriend before does not mean you should spare him a break up, its your happiness hun, maybe the fact that you wanted him for so long it became your gaol, and once you reached it it doesnt seem as appealing. I say if you dont like him, its time to break up, but if there is a still a chance, talk to him and give him a little bit longer. It sounds like you want to be free again, go for what you think you need
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i think you should break up with him... youre not being fair to him or yourself...when youre in a relationship yeah things arent going to be perfect but you have to want to make it work...and for the most part you really shouldnt have the urge to flirt with other guys because no one compares to the boy you have...guys can flirt with you but you shouldnt want to flirt back...okay and lets say you stay in this relationship to wait and see and you find out you really dont want to be in a relationship...its only going to be harder for him in the end! you dont want to keep pulling him in deeper and making him believe in something that isnt really there...theres nothing wrong with maybe taking a break for awhile with him... you know then you could flirt and stuff and figure out how you really feel for him... i think it will be easier for you to realize whether or not you should be in a relationship with him...
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you said you van barely stand him at times..you at times.. so he must not always be lke that..and i think mabby you should just wait and see if you change your mind beacuse its normal for people that have been dating to feel like ewww i dont like him anyhmore i dated a guy for 6 months or 8 not sure and all the time i wuold be like omg i hate him i shold break it off. but i knew that if id id i wold miss him sooo much so i never did and the feeling went away when me and him where together and happy.sop jjust wait and see and if nothing changes then ou can lie to yourself just let em go..its life [eople reak up and come together so yea he wil be reallu cryshed but eventually he'll deal but for ow give ahcnabe another one...and try talking to him if thats possible and your not scare dbaout it
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xoxox y.b Good Luck ! (p.s. tell me how it goes )
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