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is this wrong?
16/f
ok so i kinda have a thing with this guy. well we havent done anything yet.. but we are planning on it. we both like eachother and we are really good friends. we went out like 2 summers ago also and have liked eachother on and off a lot. he texts me all the time and stuff. but theres like a few other guys in the picture. theres this one guy that i used to like (he used to like me too and he asked me out but i said no) and anyways we recently started talking again and we are going to hang out tomorrow or something. hes really cute. theres another guy that i talk to on the phone a lot. we're really close. hes liked me for like forever and i kinda feel like im leading him on but i do really like talking to him. then theres this other guy that i like every single freaking time i see him. its like an addiction. i only see him like once a month though. and im pretty sure the same thing happens to him. i can just tell by the way he looks at me. we hooked up like 3 months or so ago. anyways, like i text and flirt with lots of other guys and stuff but i feel like all this isnt really fair to the first guy. im not actually going out with him though. i just dont want to hurt him again because last time i went out with him i broke up with him and started going out with another guy right after that and it completely destroyed our friendship. what should i do? im single but i feel like this is wrong.
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It sounds like you really don't know what you want right now. It is perfectly okay for you to flirt and kinda play the feel but you really need to decide who you like and want to try it with, then let those other guys know. That way you aren't really leading any of them on and they all know where they stand with you. Then you can still talk to them on the phone, text them, or whatever, while still knowing you aren't leading them on or anything.
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it's totally normal to flirt with more than one guy (even if you're in a relationship) and it's totally normal to *like* more than one guy. the only thing is, you can't choose between any of them. before you even decide which one you would rather be with, you need to decide if you really even want to be in a relationship right now. ask yourself if you're looking for a long-time serious relationship or a short-term fling. once you've figured that out, you really just have to look at all of those guys and figure out which one you deeply care about most. which one makes you feel the happiest? which one is the sweetest to you? and which one could you really picture yourself with? i really hope you can figure everything out
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well...there is nothing wrong with being single and it sounds like you actually would rather prefer to be single...it sounds like your scared of commitment... i dont think you should go out with the first guy or any guy for that matter until youre ready to be committed to one guy and one guy only...no flirting with other guys and liking other guys...right now doesnt exactly seem like the best time for you to have a bf, especially cuz you are attracted to all these different guys and want to flirt back with them...if youre really serious about a boyfriend then you should feel like you dont need to flirt or be attracted to other guys cuz no one compares to your boyfriend...and youre happy with just him... so just kinda wait for that...for now, keep having some fun but dont lead on the poor guys!
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