15/f i havent had a bf in such a long time and when i had the bf i like him and as soon as i dated him i started feeling uncomfortable and stopped liking him so immediately broke up w/him...
now thers a good guy for me and i know hes good and thers nothin wrong w/him except that hes not exactly that hott but hes prett sweet but ii feel like thers jus somthin wrong w/him so i dont like him... whats wrong w/me?? im soo picky cause every guy thats good for me i dont like!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? mandyx3 answered Saturday March 29 2008, 1:38 pm: well, first just let your guard down. maybe the reason why you feel like you're too picky is because you're afraid of being hurt. were you ever in a relationship that made you fall hard and then you ended up getting hurt or hurting someone else? if you really feel like there's something wrong with him, just take everything really slow.
as far as him being not really hot but pretty sweet, that's actually a really good thing. not every guy has to look like super, super hot or anything. and a guy who is really sweet is one of the best guys out there. if he makes you happy, then i'd say go for it. you guys might become totally inseparable or something, which would be great.
trust me, there's nothing wrong with you. you're just confused and cautious about who you give your heart to right now.
CaliforniaLover1111 answered Saturday March 29 2008, 1:36 pm: girl there is nothing wrong with being picky...it just means you know waht you want! and that is a good thing...too many girls go through there life not really knowing what kind of guy they want... you know so look at it as a good thing! i was always really picky to and even though i never felt right about going out with a guy i usually did anyway for fun but it would be like one date and thats it because it just didnt feel right...it just seemed like every guy that was interested in me i didnt feel the same back... then i met my boyfriend (who i am still currently dating) and with him it just felt right! i was like okay so this is what ive been waiting for and yeah it took it seems like FOREVER till i found him but it was totally worth the wait! so dont worry about being picky and wait for the guy that makes you feel like yeah this is what ive been waiting for! :) good luck! [ CaliforniaLover1111's advice column | Ask CaliforniaLover1111 A Question ]
Babiieeex0x0 answered Saturday March 29 2008, 10:51 am: babes nothing is wrong wiht you thats one. I ave the same problem..im to picky..always was and still am haha..but the thing is u might think his cute or what ever.but not like him its normal...trust me i was the same. but once you meet a guy that like your type and makes you feel good that picky feeling will go away.but it may come back through the relationship liek through some things you will se about him
but you shouldnt break up withhim..ive been with my b,f for about 1 yea ina half..i sujest you dont o gout with any1 try to have fun untill someone you really liek shows up t
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