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Hey! I'm a brunette.. well duh!! I'm just here 2 help every1 out and give advice, because that's just wat I am good at!! If u need any help just send me ur question!! XoXoXo

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is it worse for you to take laxatives befor or after you eat? what is the difference?
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Both are REALLY bad for you. If you think that you're anorexic then you need to get help. Talk to a parent or friend!



I just got a new puppy and he is going to the bathroom everywhere! How do you housetrain a puppy?? (link)
Okay..make sure that you tell him NO! when he goes to the bathroom in the house. When he goes outside give him a treat and tell him that he is a good boy! Eventually he will catch on!!


can u guys help me with screen name ideas? i'm brunette, girly girl, mixed, i like pink, and i love dance and im and talking and stuff thanks in advance...!
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Brunette& then a # after it
PIprettyNK& then a # after it
Dancer& then a # after it




I have a social to go to soon, and I was wondering if someone can give me a couple websites or stores with really nice dresses. I don't mean prom dresses, but like a nice strapless black dress. Thanks (link)
Marshall Fields, Nemain Marcus, Little Boutiques in your area (sorry I don't know where you live!), um..Carsons- I couldn't find any dresses one year in a bunch of stores so my mom said tha Carson's had dresses so we looked in there and I got a really cute strapless black dress from RAMPAGE on sale for like $8!! Good luck!!




do guys think its unnatrictive when your hip bones like stick out and they're a little wider than the rest of your body? xoxo (link)
Most girls hips ARE wider than the rest of their body once they have hit puberty!



I really love to sing and my friends say I'm good. I don't think I am all that good though and I want to know some good ways to get better without taking voice lessons because I don't have a lot of money. My goal isn't to be a proffesional singer but I just want to be a source of entertainment to my friends because singing is a huge part of my life. Please answer I'll rate 5's
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If you have Cable on ON Demand you can take voice lessons! If not just practice singing a lot and do voice exercises!



Hey I was just wondering what some good ways to find families to babysit for are. I want to babysit within my town though. I'll rate high!
Kelli (link)
Make business cards and flyers. Have your parents recommmend you to their friends. Also, if you have a younger sibling, their friends or their friends younger siblings may need babysitters!


ok well, i'm 5'5 and 103. i feel skinny, but at the same time i want to lose weight! it's very frustrating. my friends tell me i'm so skinny and stuff, but i really just want to lose weigh- not much, just like a few pounds. another concern is being anorexic. i'm not and i definitely dont want to be! basically iam wondering if i should try to lose weight.. like would it be unhealthy? and how should i go about doing this? thank you (link)
you are in the 17th percentile-same as me!- and you don't need to lose any weight. If you want to limit it too about 3 pounds. Sometimes I want to lose weight too but then the next day I feel skinny again. It's weird it all depends on what you eat and how much you are exercising.
http://pediatrics.about.com/cs/obesity/l/bl_amifat_quiz.htm-look at this

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Are there any ways to speed up my metabolism?
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No it is just something you are born with!!


I weigh 130 pounds and im 5"4...im looking to loose 7-10 pounds in the next 2 weeks (if its possible) HEALTHILY. Any tips? Also do you know of any yummy quick and easy snacks I can make and keep in the fridge to heat up or something? Help is appreciated =) (link)
You are not overweight- you are only in the 83rd percentile!


How does anorexia harm you or your body? I know pukeing will stain your teeth but what else?? cuz if thats it, then whats the harm right? (link)
When you have anorexia you don't make yourself throw up-that's bulemia. When you have anorexia you think that you are fat even though you are really skinny. Many people had died from this because they are really deathly skinny but they keep going on diets because they think they are fat!!
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I know that to stop drinking soda is good if you want to lose weight. But is it okay to drink diet coke? (link)
No because it has a sweetener substitute for sugar that is worse for you!


Ok, I'm 13 (14 next week), 5'1", and 161 pounds. I'm very overweight. Embarrasing, but it's the truth. I need to lose weight. I really want to lose like 50 pounds by Christmas possibly sooner. My mom was going to order the Nutrisystem foods for me but it has been delayed(probably cancelled) cuz we just can't afford spening 300 dollars on something like that right now. Is there anything else out there that can help me?! I don't want diet pills or ebooks but maybe some type of prepackaged food meals that maybe are a little cheaper. Or like a diet plan just for me that doesn't cost much!!! (link)
There is a diet plan in an issue of Redbook that looks like it would work!! I don't know if you would be able to get that issue since it is from a while ago but I could send you all the info if you are interested!!
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I usually wear bras that are sort of like sports bras but they aren't. They don't have padding or anything. I decided I wanted a bra with more support in it like a cup bra. We looked at the cup bras, but the ones i was looking for had padding in them. I tried them on and my boobs actually looked like boobs! I'm not used to this change and I love the look and feel of them but, I'm not sure if I'm being too fake. I'm going into 7th grade and I'm a size 32 in kids bras. What do you think? IS this too much of a change from my no-padded bras? (link)
Believe me a lot of girls wear them in 7th grade. It is kind of a bad idea to switch back and forth because you will be making it kind of obvious that you are wearing a padded bra. People will just think that you grew a lot in the summer and no one really cares. When you start wearing a padded bra your boobs do feel a lot bigger! It takes some time to get used to.


ok, well, my bf's friend asked me if i would make out with my bf and i said i would. you see my bf had never made out with anyone before. so when we went to the movies with him and our friends something happend. all the guys were calling him a wuss bc he has never made out before and stuff. so anyway in the middle of the movie he turns to me and says "look, i love you but i dont want to mess anything up so can i kiss you?" and i was like...um...yea ok. so he was like.."lets do it then". i felt REALLY werid. so then everyone came and sat by us so we kinda stoped talking or doing anything. so then about...i would say 10 mins past and he said "ok, i know this is gonna be akward but im sorry". so out of no where he starts to make out with me. and im not saying it was bad but it felt werid. so after 3 seconds i pulled back and said "this feels weird". and he said sorry and stoped talking. so now i feel bad. i mean, i want him to kiss me bc he wants to and bc he likes me. not bc his buddies are making fun of him! so the question is...should i tell him why i pulled away? and was it bad for me to pull away? sould i say sorry? im so confused so I BEG OF YOU! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!!!! theres some 5's involed : ). (link)
Just tell him how you feel!


okay, ive been noticing white gooey stuff in my underwear. what does that mean, if it helped, i havnt had my period yet.

+ i notice hair growing around "down there", if that helps. (link)
It means that you will probably get your period in the next year. :)


13/m hey i need advise on askin a girl out. im about to ask her out but then i get chicken. HELP!!! And i have never made-out with a girl and im 13. do most kids make out b4 13? And when will i no wen to kiss her? (link)
Most kids make-out around 13 or 14. You will know when to kiss her. It just happens when the time is right. But first you have to actually ask her out. Try asking her out on AIM or the phone so you don't have to talk to her directly, it might make it a little easier. If you want to ask her out in person but you are still nervous, try finding out if she likes you back and if she does it will make things a lot easier because you will be confident that she will say yes! :)


i am 5'3" and weigh 104 lbs( i am a girl)
i just got back form camp and now my mom is telling me that i look too skinny, but i think i need to loose 5 pounds. how can i make her see things my way so she doesnt get mad at me when i diet. (link)
Your weight is fine! You are in the 46th percentile for weight. You would only be considered overweight if you were in the 95th percentile or over. If you really feel that you need to loose five pounds then just exercise a lot and eat healthier foods-not less food and maybe your mom won't even notice! It is good to pick healthier food choices. If you do lose 5 pounds then you will be in the 32nd percentile! Good luck, but you really don't need to lose that weight you are just fine the way you are!
http://pediatrics.about.com/cs/obesity/l/bl_amifat_quiz.htm- if you want to see your percentiles for yourself take this short quiz!


hi im a 13 year old 5"2 or 5"3 girl and i weight 125. Am i overweight? (link)
Techinacally, you are not overweight but if you feel that you need to loose weight just eat healthier and exercise more often. Instead of grabbing for chips eat an apple. You are at the 84th percentile for your weight. When someone becomes over the 95th percentile then they are considered overweight. The website to find this on is http://pediatrics.about.com/cs/obesity/l/bl_amifat_quiz.htm if you want to see for yourself!!
Hope I Helped!!
Brunette27


I just bought these destroyed jeans..my first pair! and they are really cute!! but the problem is..I'm a afriad that when I put them in the washer, and I wear them out, the frayed part will rip and there will be a big hole in the "frayed" part..can someone help me..if they've had experience with destroyed jeans..can you please tell me how to care for them and what eventually happened to the frayed holes? thanks (link)
It sucks but clothes like that usually have to be hand-washed if you don't want to ruin them. It really is pretty easy you just fill the sink with water and put some detergent in. Then you just let the pants soak for a few minutes. Then you have to rinse them out and just like hang them up to dry- but make sure you squeeze them out really good first or it will take forever for them to dry! My parents have just recently made me do my own hand-laundry. Like other examples are shirts with like rhinestone things, delicate dresses,etc. Also, if you do wash them in the washing machine the frayed part will eventually rip.




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