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im a 14yr old gal who has a crush on a guy like 10 months younger than me. i kno 4 a fact that he USED 2 like me - but i didnt feel the same way wen he did. he neva told me he felt that way but all his frends told me he did.
he has heapz of gf's n none of them eva last
but recently he's goin out wit a gurl in the grade below me n its pretty serious..
she n i h8 each otha but pretend we dont, i kno from her frends that she bitches about me all the time 2 them even thou we've neva met.
im reali stuck cos i care alot bout him but i cant tell him that, what makes it worse is that i know if i did end up going out with him, nina (his gf) would full dis me cos im going out with a younger guy..
should i tell him how i feel or just 4get about him?
is it wrong 2 go out wit sum1 in a lower grade?
love ali oxo
well if yooh really like him no matter how afraid yooh are jus go for it .. nd if yall went out age doesnt matter if yooh like him .. age doesnt metter at all .. so tell him how yooh feel good luck nd i hope i helped nd if yooh need to talk
[ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
my ex want to go back out with me and i think i want to go back out with him to but i think all he cares about is looks and i gained 5 pounds over the summer because of a foot ingery and i dont look so great what should i do also i am 13 and female
qtpie101
dont wrry bout it .. f he reallly like yooh then he'll still want to ndifhe doesnt hes an ass dont chang jus for him .. nd if yooh wana lose the weight then go for it but i dont think yooh have to change for him .. well good luck nd i hope i helped .. *megan
ok.......theres this guy that i've been friends with benifits for a while. i've done things with him twice. the first time he said he used me but the secind time he dint bcuz he was thinkin bout askin me out. then a couple weeks later he goes out with one of my friends but still says he likes me. they broke up a couple days ago and now he wants to get together(hint hint). i like him alot, so much that i feel like im in love with him...lol. but what should i do? should i keep messin around with him or tell him that if were not gunna have a relationship then im not gunna be friends with benifits???? please help
well i think that he mayy be using yooh nd if yooh tell him that no more frineds wihth benefits thats wen yoohll really see if is tru or .not so good luck i hoope i helped *megan
I'm 13 years old and female, and almost everybody in my grade has had a boyfriend / girlfriend or at least someone who likes them. Not me! I'm going into 8th grade, I have freckles and pale skin and I'm a redhead. I have friends, but boys like to tease me or they avoid me. help?
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well yooh prolly need to let people get to kno yooh like nd try make up .. cause see wen i waws younger wen i first started warin make up before it i hadnt had many boifriends nd then i strated wearin make up nd it gave me confidence nd well ig ot more .. so yooh also need confidence nd it may seem dumb but wen i went to a new skool goin to 8 toowell i decided to have confideence nd i started wearin make up nd i got asked out alot .. so js ty make up nd confidence .. make up gave me the confidence .. so mayb if yooh try it it will also give yooh the confidence .. well i hope i helped nd if yooh need to talk im me
[ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
OK i met this boi n the problem is hes 19 n im 14 n we really really like each other but we have a problem its my parents n he goes well babe listen i no your parents dont like the fact that where talkin but we really like each other will u date me n i said i dunno..should i cause u n ohe might be the right 1
well i think that if yooh really like him but jus incase like the other ones say be careful .. if he asks to do anythin i say dont do it .. cause yooh kno its ilegal butif yooh really like eachother i say try it out nd one of the people were sayin yoohoculd get hurt well i mena no matter how old yooh sre even if he was the same age as yooh yooh could still get hurt but yooh do hahve to be readyf or that jus incase .. so good luck nd if yooh need to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
Well My boyfriend and I have gone out for about a month now and since i live in a different town ive never really met his friends until recently. Usually he is very sweet and all. But both times Ive hung out with him and his friends he acted like the biggest jerk!!! I couldnt believe him. He basically didn't look at me the whole night. It really frustrated me. Kelly you seem like a smart girl what would you do in my shoes?
talk to him bout it nd be like wat is up .. why are yooh doin that .. sometimes bois dot hat nd yooh need to set them straight well i hope i helped [ LyL qT X lOnLy ] *MeGaN
i think its coming to the point in my relationship with my boyfriend where we should be taking it further...like giving head or sumin like that...i just want to know, if someone can explain how to do it and how to do it good, just in case if it gets to that point.
well i can tell yooh nd i kno some trick so yea im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *MeGaN
Okay...so i've liked this boy secretly since like sixth grade. (im goin into 8th) and I flirt w/ him 24/7 and he flirts w/ me too. but like he had a relationship w/ my friend sierra but they are good friends now. And she thinks i should go otu w/ him but im sooo scared he'll say no cuz im taller and like i dono. Hes really hot and he might not like me.But I dono if i should wait and see if he says anything cuz i've heard he lieks me but I just dont know....so what do i do?
sometimes girls have to make the move first .. so go for it.. if yooh really like him then go ahead do it nd if he says no then his loss but yooh have nuthin to lose if he says no dont be embarrassed cause yooh dont always get wat yooh want .. so go for it .. it seems like he lieks yooh nd he shouldhave no reason to say no but i hope i helped .. [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
Yep I need advice on love how orignal.
Okay I'm a 14 year old girl I'm home schooled and there is this guy that i like. (USE to like) He told me that he wasn't intrested in girls right now (That was early this year) so I have been acting like I hate him which is seriously hard for me sence I do hate anyone. Nadia a girl that I know is like a model, seriously she totally thin beautiful all of it (of course I'm the ugly one, Im not skinny but I'm not fat just the norm and I have awfull buck teeth so that doesn't help my looks) anyways he is like always checking her out which I find is fine but my heart says something different because when he looks at her I feel like something cold has hit me. I hate that I care! But the problem is when Nadia is not with me he always does his best to show off and it makes me think that he likes me but I know that he doesn't.
What my question is how do I get my heart to stop caring about him because its starting to kill me! Please answer this, It will be deeply appriciated!
well try to stay away from him . if yooh see him go one way go the other . keep yourself busy with friends or with skool or with something that yooh like to do . well i hope i helped if yooh need to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
I've been going out with my boyfriend fro two months. well lately he's been acting odd lately, but not in a bad way. but hes been mentioning 'love' alot but never said 'i love you', for example we were talking about wat our last names meant and i said i didn't know what mine meant and he said '(his last name) loves'. its so odd because he makes sure that i know that he cares about me. dont get me wrong i love the fact that he cares about me because i care about him to, but i'm scared hes gunna say 'i love you' to me, becuase i dont love him, i care about him alot, but its not to the point of love. if he says it to me tho, what am i supposed to say? thanks for the help
-confused love
well the last time a boi told me he loved me nd i didnt love him .. i explained him that ilike him alot nd i care bout him but im jus not to that point yet .. explain to him that even though yooh dont love him that doeesnt mean it kant happen .. jus talk to him if does .. well i hope i helped nd if yooh need to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy [ *megan
ok... thers this girl that i kinda like a lil more than a freind but i have a girl that im happy with and i dont know if thsi grl fells the same about me. i dont know if i should just ask her how she feels or keep hiding the fact the i like her.
yooh can ask her how she feels butionly if yooh wana have the chance of losin the girl your with now .. jus b careful wat yooh choose .. cause yooh can hurt girls more then yooh would ever kno so jus choose which one yooh have more feelins for nd if yooh have more for the girl that your wiht then jus forget the girl yooh like nd if yooh have more for the girl your not with then ask her but think bout it hard .. *megan
Hey I'm going to be a sophmore this year and I met this guy Scott at summer skool before freshmen year. He's not that hott but hes cute, and hes nice I guess and he's been asking me out ever since I met him but I always said no because I had a boyfriend well my boyfriend broke up with me and ever since then i've felt soo lonely that now i wanna go out with Scott! But I dont know if I just want a boyfriend or if I really like him. I'm thinking maybe when I go out with scott I'll start liking him? Idk I need help!
well go out with him nd see wat happens . if it feels right then yoh kno yooh have feelins nd if yooh do then stay nd last as long as possible but if yooh dont feel right then it wwasnt right to do . so i hope i helped im me if yooh need to talk to someone . [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
Ok well i'm 13 and i was getting to know this girl. She just broke up with her bf. And she told me that she liked me. C the thing is i didn't know her that well and i started to try and talk to her more. I was starting to like her but i've only seen her once and only talk to her online. But i started to like her. Only i just started talkin to her 4 days ago. So i told her that i wasn't gonna ask her out until i got to know her better. The problem is now she's goin out with another guy. Is there somthin wrong with me should i have asked her out?
Plz Help
yea well if yooh liked her at all yooh should have asked her out nd even thoguh she has bf doesnt mean yooh cant so go for it .. well i hpope i helped nd if yooh need to talk im me
[LyL qT x lOnLy] *megan
in the past weeks since schools started..theres been this guy and his friends that have been hanging around my locker..and well this guy came up to me one day and asked me for my name...and well...we kinda talked like once in a while in the hall way..but today..he asked me for my number..ah so i gave it to him...1 problem..i have a boyfriend..and well this guy is really awsome..and so is my boyfriend, and i just dont know what to do..about this guy...idk i think i kinda have feelings for him but idk i jsut really dont know what to do...
well which one do yooh like more .. nd if yoohlke them the same then think bout which wone seems better .. like treats yooh better .. nd stuf like that .. well ihopei helped yooh .. im me if yooh need to talk .. [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
Ok..just a couple minutes ago my friend told me that she saw my boyfriend smoking with his friends. Sure I think that him smoking is a problem..but what really makes me mad is that he told me that he stopped smoking. And the other day his friend walked up to him and goes "omg dude! you were like drunk last night" and he told me that he didn't know what he was talking about. But now that my friend saw him smoking I don't know what to think. Should I believe her and just ask him about it..or what? Dang I'm so confused
well yooh should talk to him bout it before yooh beleive anything nd explain to him that yooh dont want him to lie to yooh nd if he says he doesnt or he didnt yooh have to think if your frinedd has ec=verlied nd if she would lie bout somthing like this .. well i hope i helped nd if yooh need to talk then yooh can im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
im 14 and goin wit a grl i really like but all my freinds and even my dad say i should break up wit her and go out with this other grl. the problem is i like both of them alot but the grl im with usualy hase long relationships but the other grl doesnt. if i break up with the grl im with and then the other grl doesnt last long i will be givin up the relationship i wanted 4 a one week thing. if u can help me ill be really happy. thnx
well i think yooh should stay with the one your with .. yooh shouldnt of even had to think bout it twice .. the one yooh were with was with yoho b4 anyhting so yooh should stay especially if yooh dont wana ruin it cause chances are yooh wont get her bac .. so its a decision yooh have to make on your own but jud think bout it. well i hope i helped .. [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *MeGaN
dont think i'm weird but all my life i've looked at girls and never thought it was weird but now i might think that i acually like girls as well as guys but i'm not sure what to do?(i'm a girl)
i dont wanna be sean as weird for liking the same sex but i think i acually do its weird....so should i react on these feelings or just supress them and not do anything for fear of rejection?
there are some girls that go thru a phase that yooh go thru that yooh are attracted to same sex but that doesnt mean your bi or anything .. my frined went thru it where she thought she was bi .. then like week later she was like ewww howcould i thoink i liked same sex .. its dirty. well it should pass nd if it doesnt theni mean mayb yooh sre but thee are lots of people like it .. so i hope i helped ..* MeGaN
i think i'm gonna tell this guy i like him tomorrow. the problem with that was...yesterday i thought i was going to do it today...but i didn't. i think it's because 1) i have no idea how to put it into words that don't creep him out a bit, and 2) i open my mouth to do it, just..improvise...and the words melt away and i'm left with air...
so my question is this....how and when should i do it? i see him at lunch all the time, and he rides my bus, if that helps any.
one day wen your on the bus talk to him alone nd be like i dunno how to say thiis but i have to say it .. i like yooh .. nd jus tell him or if yooh dont then yooh are jus gonna think bout it so do it asap .. i hope i helped
[ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
Well. I'm 14 and I have been madly in love with my neighbor ever since I moved here when I was 9. We write each other e-mails and we sometimes talk on the bus and stuff. He's 18 and he's going to be a senior this year and I'm going to be freshmen, many people that are freshmen date seniors so I don't think its the age. My mom said that he's probably just waiting until I'm older cuz I'm young but I dunno. He knows I like him because my friend would always yell out the window to him that i was in love with him. He asked me last year if he wanted to get a ride to school with him everyday this year, and I said yes. I really like him alot. Should I tell him? Or should I get a friend to ask him stuff?! I dunno what to do. PLease help!! I rate!!
*amy
Well he yooh are goin to be rididn wit him in the car .. wen yooh ahve him alone tell him yourself .. nd it defenitly souns like hes interested in yooh .. but tell him yoourself .. its the best way .. well i hopei helped nd if yooh need to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *MeGaN
i was dating this guy for about 3 months and things got pretty serious. we spent every day together and he would stay and my house and vice versa. his ex girlfriend called one night and he broke up with me to see if things would work with her and they didnt. he called about a month after we broke up and said that he made a huge mistake for breaking up with me cause i was the best thing that had ever happened to him. we got back together and things were great, actually better than ever or so i thought. one day when she called again he started getting weird again and told me that he once again needed time. i took all of my stuff from his house and said that i wasnt playing second best anymore. i gave him all i had and thought that this was it. that he was the one. and unfortunately im a mess over him. i know he treats me horrible in this situation but ive never been so inlove with someone before. and i dont know what to do. someone just help. please.
well i think yooh did the right thing .. he cnat jus do that to yooh .. well i think yooh should jus let it go .. its not worth it but it is goin to take time to get over .. butus try your hardest to get ver it .. keep yourself busy .. well i hope i helped im me if yoh need help ..
[LyL qT x lOnLY ] *megan