man i just have to say... HE SO LIKES YOU!! i really think you should make a move on him. hes is showing all the signs. and you know it. if your too scared to ask him out then just talk to him and maybe even flirt a little with him. smile back at him. make plenty of eye contact with him but he is way into you and you should ask him out to the movies like on the weekend since its Thanksgiving week. ask if he is doing anything over the weekend. but i really hope you ask him out!!! Good luck!!!!!

there is nothing wrong with you seriously. take this from someone who nows. im am literally just like you. im thirteen and i have the same issues. and i try not to get down on yourself. i know its a big challengelways thought something was wrong with me last year because i was 12 and i didnt have a boyfriend either. this was scary to read becuz this is exactly the same way i am. all of my friends have had boyfriends and most of them first kiss and i asked myself whats wrong with me and why cant i get a boyfriend. and i would cry (and sometimes still do) but i tell myself that nothing is wrong with me. i think God gives you a boyfriend when he thinks your ready.try not to get down on yourself. i know its a big challenge but work on it. when i flirt it kinda makes me feel better and really sometimes it does. you cant control what God has instore for you and hes just waiting for the right time. and i believe that everyone finds that one person including a first kiss and a boyfriend. it may not be now but i bet it will be when you least expect it. youll get one and i know i will too even though it seems like its impossible its really not. sometimes you just cant get yourself to believe that your pretty or that youll get a boyfreind but i think well both get one eventually and maybe not right now but its gotta be soon right. im trying this new thing where each morning i wake up and tell myself i am pretty and its working so try that. ok well i really hope i helped and email me anytime if you have anymore problems with this becuz i know exactly what your going through. feel free to email me at scdgirl288@yahoo.com hope you fell better and dont worry about it.

yes. i have something like that where i sweat alot but not as much. i use mitchum. its dark green and its a kind of deoderant that stops the sweating. you can get scented or unscented. i hope i helped. feel free to email me anytime at scdgirl288"yahoo.com!! good luck!!

your brother cant tell you what to do. so what if your brother has issues with your BF brother. its his problem not yours and its your life. you can date who you want to date. you need to tell him that your not going to stop seeing him. you have strong feelings and whatever history him and your Bf had then to get over it. you and only you make decisions for yourself. so dont flip out. i say keep seeing him and just talk to your brother. i hope i helped and if you have anymore questions then email me at scdgirl288( the "at" sign. my keys arent working)yahoo.com good luck!!

the reason its such a big deal is becuz you are to young. you can have babies get sick. its just your not ready. but i cant make choices for you. im just saying what i think so bear with me. i think you should till your like 18. your an adult then. do whatever. but not now. i dont know how old you are but you probably are too young. just in my opinion wait a little longer. even if you do have sex and your wearing a condem to protect you they dont always work. who knows what can happen. just hold on a little bit. if you have anymore questions feel free to email me anytime at scdgirl288yahoo.com

yes you can have a pimple in your ear. thats why when you take a shower or whatever then you have to clean your ears and they are dirty and oily along with your skin. you dont have to clean them with facial cleanser or anything special like that but you can. i just you a wash cloth and wipe out my ears and behind the ear. yeah they do hurt. if you start cleaning it it should clear up soon. hope i helped. if you have anymore questions feel free to email me at scdgirl288@yahoo.com bye and hope your ear feels better.

Its not your fault. no matter what you think. I feel that it could be a joke. he only went out with you to see what your reaction was and what his friends would think. I think you should just forget about him. hes not anything special if hes gonna do that so dont try to get him back. that would be pointless. but move on. find someone else. His friends could've also told him to break up with you or not to be mean but maybe he started to like another girl and watch if its true hee'll do the same thing to her. anyways dont get down on yourself. like i said. hes nothing special if hes gonna do that. your better that that and a guy should like you for who you are like personality and looks. not just if your hot or not. well hope i answered your question as best as i could. please feel free to email me anytime at scdgirl288@yahoo.com. bye.

Bluebell78

well in my own opinion the guy likes you but " he is somewhat afraid to tell you becoz he is also trying to figure out if you will like him also its like a case of misunderstanding you are trying to know if he likes you and he is trying also to know if you like him also , the best thing to get anywhere with this guy, you're gonna have to be bold and make the first move, as scary as that might seem. But you have nothing to lose, so go for it! This guy might like you and wants to take things slow. he may not want to get into a fast relationship and is taking his time to know you more since you just met. you can try asking him why he doesnt IM you back and see what his response is.Heres the big whammy which takes alot of courage. you can ask him. its really not as bad as it seems. i did it once. sure i was scared but i did it and you never know untill you try.make sure you Don't try to rush anything! If he likes u let him chase you. I have noticed that most guys like the thrill of the chase. For now be his friend, and don't put any pressure on him. you might scare him away. It sounds as though he is slowly coming around. You might be best off just hanging back to see how it plays out. Considering you are both young, he may still be in the "I don't like girls very much" stage. When guys are young, they are still trying to find themselves. Girls mature faster than guys, so don't worry about just this one guy. Let him come to you. If you are on the Internet, you never know if he has any of his guy friends with him. Guys don't like their friends knowing they like someone. Things get said, and they don't like to be embarrassed. thas just a thought though about not telling his friends. Boys are strange creatures by nature,i think you are both shy,so just talk to him when he talks to you,and sometimes its ok to talk first,part of him still wants to be a boy and part of him is trying to learn to be a man,friends of either sex is always a great way to start as well. okay well i hope i helped you as best as i could and sorry i got to answer this so late. i got caught up in my homework. good luck and i hope i did my best. email me again if you have anymore questions. its scdgirl288@yahoo.com my name is also Brianna. bye and good luck again.

I say talk to him first because you dont want him to hate you before you talk to him. tell him how you feel. your worried about him and that your scaring him. tell him what it can do to his body and his breath and teeth. tell him you can get cancer. this may encourage him to stop because he may not know what it does. then explain to him why you want him to stop. if you can try to take away his cigaretts. if you cant then dont try to. after you tell im give him a day. have friends keep an eye on him to see if he is still smoking. if he is then tell his parents or talk to your parents first and see what they say. you may feel like your doing the wrong thing but your really not. he may "hate" you for telling but your helping him and he knows it. dont feel down on yourself. and if you dont want to tell him face to face then call him on the phone or email him or IM him. he may be mad first but then he will feel really thankful for having a friend as special and caring as you. it shows that you love him (in the brotherly way and knows he can count on you) well i really really hope i helped. if you have anymore questions please feel to email me anytime at scdgirl288@yahoo.com

i hate saying this and im not being against you or anything but i think its a bad influence and stuff to be around a guy like that. move on. find someone better for you. but if you want to keep the one you have then call him and stop by his house and stuff. mail things to him. email him. call him stuff like that. hope i helped. feel free to email me at scdgirl288@yahoo.com

it is way okay not to be interested in guys yet at this age. dotn feel bad. everybody matures in different ways. be yourself and dont try to date or act like you like someone just because your freinds are. you probably are into boys a little bit but maybe not fully yet. and thats good. you get to concentrate more on school and dont have to try to be anyone your not just to empress a guy you like. well anyways i hope i helped and feel free to email me anytime at scdgirl288@yahoo.com.

What i would say is that you never know untill you try and thats the best you can do. i say go for it. he may be waiting for you to make the first move since he is shy. you want to kiss him and he wants to kiss you. to bring up your courage just do it. go for it. like i said you never no untill you try. and you know if he doesnt want to kiss you back then its not your fault. you tried and thats all you can do. i really dont know what else to tell you. i know how you feel. it was when i was a freshman and i did it cause he wouldnt make the move. and let me tell you i was so scared and so nervous and i kept asking my older sister for advice (shes 5 years older. shes had experience) and she said the only thing she could tell me was never know untill you try. give it a shot. hope i helped. any more questions feel free to email me at scdgirl288@yahoo.com. good luck!! you can do it!!

i dont think anything is wrong with you. i had one once for 4 weeks once and everything was okay with me. but if you have like weird pain or whatever then id go see a doctor but honestly i dont think anything is wron and ive had mine for 4 years and this was about 3 months ago.

yeah i think its still that way. some of them are like that still. they are SO interested in you. they think its funny and fun and stuff but secretly they still like you. i honestly think they grow out of it. it tkes them longer to mature for girls remember!! hope i helped!!

Bluebell78

sorry it took me so long to answer your question. i just got back from somewhere. Washing it in cold water isn't going to shrink it.it's the heat from the dryer that shrinks the fabric. but if you try it on high heat in the dryer after washing it, then it should work. now some people say to wash it on very cold water but that doesnt make it shrink, just so you know so dont pay attention to anyone who says that. well i hoped i help and i hope this isnt the last time i hear from you. if you need to ask me anymore questions please go ahead and email me at hsmfan15xo@yahoo.com . i hope i helped!!

i would talk to him and ask what his problem is. friends dotn really get that creepy. like call him and tell him that its freaking you out before you go to the movies. he should get the picture then. that would freak me out too. i really say call him and ask him.

i think it is maternal because my mom is a C but my sister is a D. you should keep growing. remeber you are only thirteen. you have plenty of time left for them to grow. dont worry about it.

just be nice. just go up to some people and make a little conversation with them and then ask if you can hang out with them. respect everyone. laugh. just go up to them and introduce yourself. just be yourself and juat say hi. its not as hard as it seems. im not shy but i kinda get shy when i talk to someone i dont know. i just push myself just to go over and say hi and then i week later i have made one new friend. its fun too. so i hope i helped answer your question as best as i could. if you need anymore advice you can ask me a question ao email me at hsmfan15xo@yahoo.com if you like. GOOD LUCK!!!

Bluebell78

dont worry about everyone else. they are not important. we all have our special talents or whatever and you shouldnt be ashamed on how you look. i used to be like that. i would cry and cry becuz i was so insecure about myself but then i got over it. i told myself who cares. and now im starting to like myself more each and everyday. just dont pay attention to them. you may think you are ugly or whatever now but then you'll turn into this HOT girl that everyone wants to be. then they'll be looking at you. just have fun. party or whatever. hang out with your friends. that would always make me feel better. talk to someone. your mom or sister or cousin. that made me feel better too. i just want you to know dont get down on yourself and beat yourself up.just concentrate on you. no one else matters but you. i was just like you and i have experience. if you ever want to talk to me go ahead and ask me a question if you want. i check my mail everyday. you can email me at hsmfan15xo@yahoo.com. i hope i helped but if you need anymore goahead and ask me if you like.

Bluebell78

i know that you have talked to your friend but talk to her again. tell her that she is scaring you and that you care about her and want her to stop. if you prob have done that before then try it again and tell her how much you mean to her. secondly YES you should tell her mom. she can die. cancer or anything. she needs help and if you cant get through her i bet her mom can that way she can sign her up for one of those camps to get people to stop quiting. try buying your friend some patches and just ask her to use them for just a little bit but make sure you tell her mom. thats her daughter and i would want to know what would be going on with my daughter too. talk to her and see if she can talk to her. i hope everything changes and she quits. you should get some of the most people who care about her like family friends and you and you all get together and talk to her and ask her to stop and each one of you tell her how much they love her and how much they love her. try that and see if it does any good. Good Luck!!

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